Trying to chat with girls on Omegle? Due to its anonymous nature, finding girls to chat with on this site can be difficult. When you find one, you will also need to attract his attention. If you can find a few jokes to break the ice and stay relaxed, you'll be able to chat in no time!
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Find Girls and Chat With Them
Step 1. Enter interests that the girls might also be interested in
Omegle allows you to search for other chatters with similar interests. Enter the ones you think girls will like to increase the chances of being matched with a woman.
For example, you might include well-known bands and singers, hobbies, TV shows, and movies that appeal to primarily female audiences
Step 2. Start with an icebreaker sentence
It can be difficult to converse with a stranger, so you'd better learn a few lines to start with. Ask her how her day is going, if she's seen any and what movie / band / show, if she's ever traveled, etc.
Read this guide for more details on how to break the ice in a conversation
Step 3. Avoid asking her if she is female
If you start the conversation by asking the other person if they are a woman, you will be bound to alienate most people. Let the conversation progress a little and you will likely be able to figure out the truth after a short time.
If you are having a video chat, make sure your interlocutor is real. It's easy enough to fake a video using a recording - make sure you're actually talking to a real person
Step 4. Keep the conversation light
When you start chatting with someone, it is good to choose simple and fresh topics. Ask her about where she lives, what she likes, what she is studying at school, her hobbies, etc.
Step 5. If you find that you have common interests, you will be able to hold his attention much longer
If he tells you about something that interests you, be sure to let him know!
Step 6. Remain humble
It may be tempting to brag and overdo it a little when chatting online, but you will go much further by staying humble. Avoid bragging and try not to talk too much about yourself.
Step 7. Make a few jokes
Humor is a great way to break the ice, but use it with caution. It can be difficult to express vocal inflection and wit as you type, and a joke may lose its meaning entirely. Avoid offensive jokes.
Try telling a funny story about something that happened to you. Not only will you portray yourself as a humble person who is capable of making fun of himself, but it can work great for breaking the ice. The girl you're talking to might have a similar story too
Step 8. Be classy
Avoid being rude or vulgar. Nothing will end a conversation faster than an obscene or inappropriate joke. Be a gentleman and consider the conversation well before taking certain liberties.
Don't be angry if he doesn't want to continue the conversation. Don't be angry and find a new partner to chat with. Don't blame your frustrations on her
Step 9. Move your chat elsewhere
If you are comfortable with it, it may be time to exchange contact information to chat elsewhere. This way you can do it where and when you want, at your convenience. Popular programs include Skype and AIM. Avoid using any service that includes your real name, such as Facebook, until you get to know each other better.
Part 2 of 2: Precautions
Step 1. Do not give out personal information
Omegle is a chat between strangers. Even if you seem to know the other person, you are still complete strangers. There is also a good chance that the other person is lying about their identity. Online safety is very important, especially when interacting with strangers.
Step 2. Don't meet in person
Avoid organizing any real meetings, unless you've been chatting for a while by other means. Even then, make sure the meeting place is safe and that both of you are comfortable with the idea of seeing each other.
Step 3. Do not do anything illegal
If you are talking to a minor, you could be in a lot of trouble, especially if the interview takes a sexual turn. Anyone over 13 can use Omegle, so be cautious when chatting.
Step 4. Don't bully
Cyberbullying is a serious problem and there may be a tendency to become violent due to anonymity. Remember that your interlocutor is also a real person, with feelings, just like you. Bullying can cause significant emotional damage and should be avoided at all costs. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything.
Advice
- Don't force the conversation if she doesn't answer for a few seconds. Send three messages maximum.
- Be careful, there are many fake ones trying to convince you to subscribe to their site to send you viruses. Click on their account only after making sure they are genuine. One way to find out is to ask them what 2 + 2 is. If they don't guess, they are probably robots.
- Don't look desperate if you notice that there is no interest among you.
- Compliment her after a while you talk to gain more interest.
- Don't be boring, ask sensible questions and talk about things you have in common (music bands, sports, TV shows, movies, hobbies).
Warnings
- Meeting strangers on the Internet can be dangerous even if you've seen them with your webcam!
- If in doubt that the person is a fake, block them and report them.
- Always meet in public places, for example a shopping mall (so you can buy a gift, have lunch, etc.), if you decide to get to know each other.
- Respect the fact that not all girls want a date.
