Kissing can be a romantic moment you will never forget. But if you're a guy and you've never kissed any girl before, the moments leading up to the kiss can scare you. Read on to discover some tried and tested tips for having a memorable first kiss - even if you've never kissed before. Good luck!
Steps
Method 1 of 4: Part 1: Practice
Step 1. Use the back of your hand
Practice with the back of your hand when you are in your room or when you are alone, so that no one will seem strange to what you are doing.
- To do this, you should keep your mouth ajar at your index finger, holding it horizontally over your mouth.
- Gently place your lips on the back of your hand. You can move your lips in circular motions or by pretending to suck on a fruit, such as a plum.
Step 2. Stand in front of the mirror and pretend she is in front of you
Practice moving your lips in a circular direction.
You can also use your tongue, as if you were gently sticking it into the pulp of a soft fruit
Method 2 of 4: Part 2: Let her know you are ready
Step 1. Use your eyes
Communicate with her by looking into her eyes, staring at her lips and then moving your gaze back to her eyes, to let her know you're ready.
Step 2. Sit very close to her to show her involvement and establish some intimacy
If she's nervous and you think it's the right time to do it, kissing her might cause her to let her guard down and surprise her - but surprise you too!
Step 3. Get to the kiss by seducing her
Touch her gently when you talk to her. Compliment her eyes and hair or stare into her eyes. Never underestimate the power of a simple touch, which can be essential to create the right atmosphere for the first kiss. Touching your girlfriend allows you to break the barrier that separates you and set the stage for the intimate bond represented by the kiss.
Step 4. Keep looking her in the eye until you kiss her
Look the person in the eye and don't close them until you start kissing them. Catching her eyes is the best way to get her to accept the kiss.
Method 3 of 4: Part 3: Look for the Signs that Tell You She Will Kiss You Back
Step 1. Read your girlfriend's clear, non-verbal cues
Some signs that she is ready can keep you from making a mistake:
- Look at your lips often.
- Start talking about kisses or similar topics. Is he talking to you about the fact that he never got a good kiss? Does he reveal that he really appreciates guys who know how to kiss well? If so, it's time to move and give her your kiss.
- He stops, as if waiting for a kiss, especially at the end of the date. Make sure there are no other reasons why it seems to be waiting.
- If he doesn't seem uncomfortable and gives you the idea that he has established a certain intimacy with you, then you can proceed with the kiss.
Method 4 of 4: Part 4: Ask her if she wants to be kissed
Step 1. Start asking him
Since you've never been kissed, you may find it difficult to read non-verbal cues coming from the other side.
Step 2. Be creative and ask for it in a way that makes her comfortable
Some examples can be:
- I really want to kiss you …
- I want to show you how much I care about you …
- Can I kiss you good night?
Advice
- Use the right body language. Don't keep your arms crossed or your hands in your pockets when you want to kiss her, or you will look disinterested. Place your hands on her neck or cheeks and start looking at her.
- Take care of your oral hygiene: brush your teeth, gargle, use chewing gum. Don't eat heavy food before kissing her. If you do, have a mint handy to get rid of bad breath. Breathe on your hand to smell it - you won't regret it!
- Take it aside. If you are at a party or in a busy place, look for a place where you can have some privacy. The last thing you need is to add the pressure of strangers looking at you.
- Find the rhythm. No need to eat your girlfriend's face!
- Relax and let your instinct guide you. The last thing you need is to make clumsy and doomed attempts.
- Don't start and end a kiss too quickly. Take your time and enjoy that moment - most girls don't like to rush.
- Take care of your lips by using cocoa butter to soften them. Make sure they aren't dry or cracked.
Warnings
- Be realistic about your "first kiss" expectations. It may not be your dream kiss, but over time, kissing your girlfriend will come more naturally. The more you kiss her, the better you will get at it.
- Make sure the girl really likes you. There is nothing more embarrassing than taking the step, trying to kiss someone, and ending up being rejected. There is a big difference between a shy girl and one who only sees you as a friend.
- There's no need to tell her you've never kissed anyone, unless you get the chance or the girl asks you to. This is something you should share "after" the moment is over - not before.
