Have you ever wanted to learn how to use a bit "vulgar" language in bed? Looking like an expert in the art of seduction? Many people want to give this provocative and exciting touch to their sexual relationships, learn how to do it!
Steps
Step 1. Relax
Step 2. Forget all your worries about looking sexy with your partner
Focus on what you are feeling, physically and emotionally. Emotions play a central role in what you are learning to do.
Step 3. Enjoy
This game does not necessarily have to be serious, if you can have fun with the words and ideas that come to you it will be better!
Step 4. Search for different adjectives (which then describe the words) and learn how to use them, feeling comfortable with them
Try saying them aloud to yourself or try to use them in a sentence, normally. The more comfortable you are with sexually oriented words like sexy, boobs, vagina, penis or just various body parts that are usually taboo, the more you will understand that there is nothing wrong with using them. Finally, they are just parts of our anatomy.
Step 5. Add verbs to your adjectives
By doing so, you will gain personality. Some verbs often used in this type of situation are "hold me" or "stop".
Step 6. Also use vulgar terms
When you understand that they have no negative effects, they will become less taboo and less difficult to use.
Step 7. Being overly dominant isn't sexy, but being in control of your body is
Saying, asking, and understanding what is sensual to you is sexy, but aggressive behavior with your partner isn't. Say things clearly and make yourself known for who you really are and what you really like. If you both like it, it will be a lot of fun!
Advice
- Say what you feel, without fear. You don't have to say something weird, nothing is better than a classic and sincere "I like it" or "don't stop".
- Practice in your free time. This way, you will understand what "you" expect and what "your partner" might want.
- It doesn't matter so much what you say, but how you say it. Say anything, don't overthink it!
- Don't hesitate to repeat the obvious.