While kissing someone you like or love can be intense or sometimes thrilling, making out takes kissing to another level. If you want to do it right, you will need to learn how to keep your passion, add variety, and be able to make your partner feel appreciated. In this article, you will learn some ways to delve into the quality and intimacy of making out, regardless of how well you know each other.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: The approach
Step 1. Look for eye contact
Meet your partner's gaze and give him a little smile to show that you are ready for action. This is also a good time to gently rest your forehead against his, caress his face, touch his leg, or even give him little clamps on his lips before starting the real kiss. By doing this you establish first contact, and get your partner ready to start kissing you; if you throw yourself headlong without giving any warning, you could give an unexpected - and in any case not positive, signal.
The gaze doesn't have to be intense, especially if you've been dating that person for a short time. A few seconds should be enough for you to get the message
Step 2. Move slowly and gently
This is very important. The best way to avoid butt heads, elbows and teeth collisions is to do everything very calmly, especially at the beginning and when you change positions. Over time, you can introduce more passionate kissing techniques, but only for a short time. Always return to a slow, comfortable pace. Start with the classic kiss on the lips, then eventually move on to the French kiss, slowly moving your tongue inside your partner's mouth as he or she does the same.
- Once your tongues have made contact, you can start moving them slowly in a circular motion, moving them upward, or doing whatever feels good and not doing it too fast.
- Remember that if you are making out for the first time, you will need to be extra cautious before starting. The first time is used as a study phase to understand the partner's level of comfort, and the preferred types of maneuvers.
Step 3. Keep your hands busy
This doesn't mean frantically groping your partner as soon as you get the chance. It does mean however, that you will find yourself much more comfortable if you avoid keeping your hands still at your sides while you are kissing. Once you've found the right confidence, especially if you're sitting down, try exploring your partner's body, as long as you're both on the same page. Basically it is about moving your hands from time to time, avoiding staying in the exact same position for a long time. Try stroking her face, touching her hips, or holding your partner's hands.
- If you are kissing a guy, put your arms around his neck or touch his arms, back of his head, neck or chest.
- If you're kissing a girl, touch her shoulders and hips, and wait for the cue she'll reveal when she's ready for something more intimate.
Step 4. Make fun of your partner good-naturedly
You can still play hard to get to the crux of making out. When things are going well, try to break away for a moment and look your partner softly in the eye. This move will be very sexy and will make the other person want to kiss you even more intensely. However, you shouldn't abuse this trick by resorting to it all the time; once or twice per session should be sufficient.
This move could also come in handy if you need to take a break from the myriad of kisses you're exchanging
Step 5. Remember to take breaks to breathe
Pausing for a few seconds is perfectly normal, and it might even help you regain focus for a good kiss. If you are tired but still don't want to stop, just get some air, slow down your kissing cadence, go quickly to the bathroom or ask for a glass of water. If too many kisses don't make you feel comfortable, you won't be able to enjoy the moment or give the best of yourself.
Everything is fine. Taking a break from time to time will make you a kissing pro
Part 2 of 3: Keeping Interest Alive
Step 1. Talk
Even if it's not a good time for a deep conversation, a short verbal communication will keep things interesting. Simple phrases whispered in the ear will have an effect greater than a thousand words (especially if accompanied by eye contact and a reassuring smile). You don't need to be silent to be attractive. Indeed, if you feel you have to communicate something, you can do it freely, taking care not to spoil the atmosphere.
Of course, you shouldn't jump from pole to branch, suddenly switching from sweet, romantic phrases to math homework questions
Step 2. Liven things up
We are not in a movie, where everything is perfect and passionate. You are human and you will have to deal with embarrassing moments every now and then, no matter how many instruction manuals you have read. If something embarrassing happens, quickly resolve the situation with a kiss or hug.
If you often come across embarrassing situations, it is really much better to stigmatize it by laughing at it, rather than wanting to be miss perfection at all costs
Step 3. Kiss the face and neck of the person you love
Change the pattern of kissing by occasionally moving away from your mouth. Again, remember to move slowly. If you move too fast, the other may not understand what you are doing and a minute later you may collide with his nose. Gently kiss the corner of the mouth, and follow the jaw line. You can go up towards the temple and forehead, or go down towards the neck.
Try giving him a sensual and light kiss on the neck, and then blow on it making him shiver
Step 4. Stroke his hair
If your partner is a guy, run your fingers through his hair from top to bottom, continuing up to his neck. If, on the other hand, it is a young lady, you can sink your hands into her hair, letting the locks flow between your fingers. The head is one of the most sensitive parts of the human body. Don't underestimate its importance while you are making out with someone.
However, remember that some cuts are not really suitable for this type of movement. If you have tied or slightly curly hair, your fingers may get stuck. It is better then to pass the fingertips only on the surface and around her ear, perhaps moving her hair away from her face
Step 5. Try giving small, delicate clamps
Nibbling on your partner's ear, neck, or lower lip can work wonders during a make out. Don't be afraid to try and experience this type of contact once you have a good relationship with the other person. Start with a sweet clamp on her lower lip, continue nibbling on her earlobe and neck, and see what effects you have had on your love. If done right and flawlessly, it can literally send your partner into ecstasy.
- Pay attention: the more or less delicate clamps are not always suitable for every type of person. But if you can find someone who likes them, they will end up liking them very much.
- If you don't feel ready for this move and are a little nervous, you can practice your hand first.
Step 6. Whisper in your partner's ear
Whispering sweet words in your partner's ear can be a great way to keep the passion flowing even during the short breaks from the kiss. Stop for a moment, put your mouth close to the ear of the person you love, and whisper something short and sweet that shows how much you are appreciating the situation. Just try saying things like, "You're really hot," or, "I've been waiting to kiss you all day," and your boyfriend will love it.
While you're talking softly, you can try breathing on your boyfriend's neck to give him goosebumps
Step 7. Keep mixing things up a bit
The most important thing to remember while kissing someone is to keep interest alive by trying something new from time to time. Always sitting in the same position, with your hands still at your sides, always kissing in the same way, will be boring in the long run. So try to stir things up a bit, between a lip clamp, a French kiss, or whatever else you can think of to keep things arousing.
You don't necessarily have to try a million new moves while making out. Just try to find at least two or three different things to keep the vibe spicy
Part 3 of 3: Ending the Session
Step 1. Let your partner know when you need to take a break
There are two options for after kissing: you decide it's time to move on to something more serious and spicy, or you find that you want to take a break. Suppose you choose the second hypothesis, you will have to slowly move away from your partner giving him one last and passionate kiss. There is no need to stop abruptly. When you feel that you are getting tired, or you need to leave early, you will simply have to try to gradually get out of the situation, step by step.
Don't apologize when you do. Everyone needs a little break every now and then
Step 2. Let your partner know how much you like what you are doing
Give him small signals of appreciation, perhaps by hugging him, giving him one last kiss, or giving him a big smile. You can also try some catchy phrases like, "It was awesome", or "I love your kisses" or even "I can't do without you." Your special someone will need to feel confident and comfortable about what just happened so that it can happen again.
Do not be shy. You don't have to shout "I love you!" To the whole world, but if you're having a good time why not let them know?
Step 3. Make sure that your partner is not satisfied and instead is more and more eager for your kisses
As soon as you finish making out, you should make sure there is a rerun on the horizon. Once you're done, try to stay sexy and affectionate, making your love want more. You can try saying you can't wait to do it again while you're saying goodbye, or text him and let him know how good you were.
However, it may be difficult to stay in the right mood forever. However, try to do this for as long as possible after finishing the kissing session. This will make your partner even more eager to see you again next time
Advice
- Try to always have fresh breath. Nobody likes to kiss a person with bad breath. Mouth sprays, chewing gum, or a box of mints should always be on hand.
- Close your eyes while kissing. A peek is fine, but for most people it's creepy to make out with someone who keeps their eyes wide open all the time. Plus, you'll see everything blurry, and it's not a good experience.
- Before making out, decide how far you want to go. If things get too intense, be prepared to tell your partner that you aren't ready to move to the next level yet.
- Make it an unforgettable experience! If you are not comfortable making out with that person, let them know without a problem.
- There is no correct way to kiss. Let things develop naturally, and stop when you feel like you've found the right situation.
- Kiss how you would like to be kissed. Kissing is an interactive experience, so you both have to follow each other's directions.
- If you're still not sure what to do, let your partner guide you.
- If your partner doesn't know how to kiss slowly, guide him through what you want most by letting him know your intentions.
- A good way to break the ice can be to ask the other person if there is something you can do better or if they are interested in trying something in particular. By doing so, you can learn how to behave and at the same time you can give your partner the opportunity to ask you the same questions.
- When you really love this person, tell them and see their reaction. Make sure he's not just having sexual intentions.
Warnings
- If you don't like the way someone kisses, think about whether or not you're just used to something different. Especially when someone gets out of a long relationship and starts a new one, they may miss his or her ex's kisses. Keep an open mind, and unless you get sick of it, give the other person some time. In the end, you might like her way of kissing.
- Don't be too aggressive unless the other likes you.
- If you decide to make out with someone, never do it after abusing alcoholic beverages, as it could be disgusting.
- Always be gentle and gentle when explaining to each other what you love and what you don't about their way of kissing. It's a very sensitive subject, and your partner may feel anxious, threatened, or hurt, sometimes to the point of not wanting to kiss you again.
