Do you want to know how to make out with a girl and make this moment unforgettable? Whether it's your girlfriend, the person you're dating or a girl you meet in a club, you can kiss her like a real expert, the important thing is to feel confident and understand how to act without being stuffy. You just have to create the right atmosphere, know how to step forward and slightly modify your technique if necessary. You will soon become very good.
Steps
Part 1 of 4: Creating the Right Atmosphere
Step 1. Create a sexy vibe
If you are a romantic and you have invited this girl over to win her over with your charm, then you should prepare your surroundings accordingly. He won't want to kiss you if all he sees are dirty gym socks and empty cans. So, light a few candles, put some flowers in a vase, and uncork a bottle of wine (if you feel like drinking it and offering it, of course). Don't overdo it, or you'll look desperate - just create an atmosphere romantic enough to make her kiss you.
Step 2. You also need to prepare yourself properly
What does it mean? That you don't have to look scruffy or smell like a yeti. It doesn't matter much what you wear (jeans and a t-shirt are enough), but make sure you're presentable. The girl should realize that you have made some effort to be agreeable. If you haven't put in a bit of effort, why on earth will he bother making out with you?
- Take a shower and use deodorant before trying to kiss someone.
- Go easy on the perfume. If you overdo it, you will look desperate.
Step 3. Find a comfortable seat
To start, think about the sofa, the car, or even under the stars on a picnic. Remember that it is best to be alone and not be disturbed. Kissing with the anxiety of being interrupted by parents, siblings or friends is not the best. The greater the privacy, the more comfortable yours will feel.
- The bed is a good place to kiss, but some feel uncomfortable or nervous when a guy takes the lead there because they think he wants to go further.
- Keep the temperature under control. It has to be cool to entice her to get close to you, but not cold enough to make her shiver or make her uncomfortable. If it's too hot, on the other hand, worse still: he won't want to touch you so as not to heat up further, and the atmosphere will cool down.
Step 4. Choose some good music
It's optional, but if you choose a CD of ambient music or songs that both of you like, the atmosphere warms up a lot more. If you have decided to put some background music, you better know what your favorite genre is (screamo, heavy metal and alternative rock are not ideal for creating a romantic atmosphere, but it may also be that she feels more. enticed to make out with this soundtrack).
If you're going to listen to some music, create a playlist for it and let it play itself, so you don't have to waste time trying to find romantic songs
Part 2 of 4: Starting Sensually Making Out
Step 1. Flirt a little
Don't go from a discussion of math homework to a French kiss out of the blue. An intermediate step needs to be added. If you don't know what to do, it can be a little weird to start kissing someone, but fear not. Flirting is easy, and the goal of flirting is also to make a girl comfortable. You can do this by making a few lines, improvising a fight, teasing her or dancing with her. Just remember not to overdo it, use common sense right now.
- You can pretend to dance with this girl to make her laugh, or you can gently touch her elbow.
- Before the kiss, you should see how she reacts to even minimal physical contact. You can't just lean towards her and kiss her without first making this attempt.
Step 2. Look her in the eye
As you flirt with her, get closer and closer and / or let your eyes meet. Stop doing anything else and make eye contact; smile sweetly to let her know that you want to kiss her. You don't have to stare at her for long and make her deeply uncomfortable. Just look her in the eye for as long as it takes to let her know you want something more. With extreme delicacy, you can also move closer and pull a strand of hair away from her face.
Step 3. Push it to you
Lean towards her and gently bring her face towards yours. Don't pursue your lips as if you were kissing Aunt Maria, keep your mouth in a natural position. Now, bring your lips closer and closer to hers, until they touch them. Don't hesitate or back down.
Step 4. Kiss her
Let your lips touch, and stay still for a couple of seconds, so you will have more and more intense sensations. Do not kiss her directly, try to tilt your head slightly so that the noses do not flutter and you do not end up in an uncomfortable position. The more passionate the kiss, the more heads will tilt. You can proceed slowly and gently, and then gradually kiss her in an increasingly intimate way. First, take stock of the situation. Does he seem to like it? Is it responding well? Is he bringing you even closer to him? If so, deepen the kiss.
As you kiss her, be sure to touch her instead of putting your hands aside or leaving them at her sides - that's not the best. You don't have to move them restlessly, but your girlfriend should feel wrapped in your arms when you make out
Step 5. Give variety to kisses
Adding some movement prevents moments of boredom. Try different variations of kisses, such as French kissing, or others. Take it easy: many like to go slow and make the moment progressively more passionate. If you feel comfortable, take the next step: experiment, touch her, or let her do it.
If you're French kissing, slowly stick your tongue into her mouth, and make sure she does the same. You can let the tips of the tongues touch, or deepen the contact, experimenting with rotational or other movements
Step 6. Take a moment to pause to compliment her
Don't be afraid to talk every now and then. The important thing is to keep the romantic atmosphere intact so that your girlfriend does not feel uncomfortable (for example, avoid asking her how the chemistry test seemed to her). When the passion is intense, take a little break to look her in the eye and say "You are beautiful," or another cute phrase. Only do it if you really mean it.
Compliments of this type should be reserved for a girl you have been dating for some time. Giving them to a person she met just before in a club can scare her
Part 3 of 4: Warming Up the Atmosphere
Step 1. Kiss her on the neck
It's an erogenous zone for most girls. With a kiss like that, you'll drive her crazy. You can hug her from behind, lie down with her, or stand in front of her as you reach down to kiss her softly and tenderly on the side of her neck. You will make her want to make out even more.
Step 2. Touch her hair
As you make out, run your fingers through her hair. The scalp is indeed a very sensitive part of the female body. Caressing it, it will feel pleasant sensations. At first, remember to do it gently and watch her reaction. You can run your fingers over the top of the head or gently stroke the nape area.
Step 3. Caress her face
It's another great move to enhance intimacy during a kiss. Pull back for a second and run your hand over the girl's chin, or take her face with both hands in the middle of a passionate kiss. This will make her feel even more special. Don't keep your hands in this area all the time, though. Occasionally, stroke her cheek or chin.
While kissing, you can also move her hair away from her forehead, but do it gently
Step 4. Let her sit on your lap
If you have sat down, slowly switch to this sexy position. Wrap the girl's waist with your hands, helping her sit on your lap. Only do this if he seems comfortable. He will likely sit down by dangling his legs to the side and wrapping his arms around your neck. If he's bolder, he might straddle it, but don't count on it too much.
Step 5. Whisper something in her ear
It is another sensitive area for women. If you whisper a sexy word to her, she'll feel even more horny. Of course, avoid making a comment that is unpleasant or has nothing to do with the situation. Tell her she's sexy, that she has super soft lips, or that you love stroking her hair. All she needs to do is feel the warmth of your breath on her ear to let the excitement pervade her body.
Step 6. Gently nibble your ear
If the whispers went well, take another step and nibble on your ear gently. First, move your mouth to the earlobe and kiss it; if it responds well, give it small bites in this area and observe its reaction. She may go crazy or show you she doesn't like it - be prepared for both answers.
Step 7. Let me want you more and more
Kiss her for a few seconds or a few minutes, then, just when the atmosphere gets very hot, pull back and look into her eyes as you stroke her face or hair. You will surely drive her crazy, because you will pull back just when the desire increases. Of course, this move isn't meant to be cruel, and you shouldn't use it all the time, just enough to add a touch of playfulness to the kiss.
Step 8. Remember to take a break
Don't French kiss her or stick your mouth on hers for hours on end. While you don't have to stop to text your mom or start talking about a pair of pants you want to buy, you can catch your breath, have a glass of water, or just look her in the eye for a few minutes. Kissing is an art, and all artists take a break to perfect their skills.
Part 4 of 4: Other Secrets for Creating the Right Atmosphere
Step 1. Give her a massage
Massage your girlfriend's shoulders firmly, but not too abruptly. Extend the massage to the neck, continue on the collarbone and then move to the arm, slowly massaging it from top to bottom. You can do this between kisses or even before, to set the mood up.
Before the massage, however, make sure that she actually likes to kiss you, otherwise it will seem like a nasty trick
Step 2. Let him rest his head on your shoulder
If you are both seated, it is another intimate move to introduce a kiss. Hug this girl, and maybe kiss her on the top of her head. Wait for it to lean towards you. Breathe gently on her neck to get her aroused. Gently caress her shoulders until you find yourself looking each other in the eye, ready to kiss.
Step 3. Touch her waist
Caress her waistline, then continue up to her shoulders, however, this time, create circular movements with your fingertips; the pressure must be firm, but delicate. By starting to touch her like this, you will make her want to kiss you even more.
Step 4. Massage her feet
Start with the feet, then slowly work your way up the legs. When you get to the thighs, caress the outer part, finally move to the inner thigh. Get back on your knees and then get back up.
Advice
- Don't tell her you've read a guide on how to kiss (unless you're sure she'll find it cute).
- If this is your first time kissing her, go gently, unless you know she likes the more abrupt movements.
- Be gentle. We repeat: in principle, girls do not like to be groped without restraint. This behavior suggests that you don't care about them and don't respect them.
- Gently pull back and rest her forehead against yours between kisses.
- Don't make her think you absolutely want to take her to bed. Don't insist, unless, of course, both of you intend to.
- If he doesn't seem to like it, stop immediately.
- If she doesn't like it, don't lick her neck, ears, or any other area. If, on the other hand, he seems to like it, or you prefer it, talk about it and try to experiment.
- Maybe it will help you to propose to watch a horror movie, because it could bring you closer and allow you to make the first move. It doesn't have to be too scary, or your time together will be less enjoyable.
- Many girls feel uncomfortable when French kissing, especially if they are inexperienced.
- If it's your first kiss, don't chew gum. It tends to stimulate salivation more than mints. If you have one in your mouth, you can play and swap it if you both find it agreeable.
