In our lives, people come and go all the time. Some people touch your heart, others your soul. At some point, everyone goes away. You have to know how to accept it. It is part of life. Here is a guide to not be homesick for someone.
Steps
Step 1. Pay attention to the environment around you
It's easy to miss someone who has made a major impact in your life if you're not open to the world around you.
Step 2. Why did he go away?
He moved? Did he run away? Did he need a change? All these circumstances must be treated differently.
Step 3. If he has moved, do you know if he will come back?
It's easier to accept nostalgia if you know it's coming back.
Step 4. If he ran away, was it your fault?
If this is the case, come to terms with yourself to realize your mistakes so as not to make them again in the future or if you actually made those mistakes because after all you didn't care that much about this person. [Image: Not Miss Someone Step 4-j.webp
Step 5. The main reason for longing for someone is death
The best way to deal with this situation is to adopt the method called the Tree of Life. With this philosophy in mind, you will realize that this person is still alive and that you are actually dead to them. Your branches no longer touch and you are both in mutual mourning.
Advice
- Don't be afraid to cry. Crying is good for your health. Don't overdo it though, your health is the most important thing at a time like this.
- Laughing is the best medicine. Even if you are grieving for someone, it is important to be in the company of important people.
- Have some fun to distract yourself.
- Look at pictures or write cards, no need to send them you can keep them for yourself. Read the letters / cards he sends you.
- Try to have fun doing something you did with this person. Don't think about the bad times we spent together. Stay positive.
- Think about the fun things you did together as you await this person's return again.
- Play sports, shop, and hang out with friends.
- When you miss someone, think about something else. Will it be a good day or not? Take your mind off that person.
- Forget the moments spent together. Keep your mind busy with new memories and turn your back.
