Have you gotten into a crush on a guy who doesn't seem to like the way you are? Read on to find out how to grab her attention!
Steps
Step 1. Look your best
This doesn't mean going out and dyeing your hair or shaving your head; it just means following the basic rules of personal hygiene. Brush your teeth, shower often, brush your hair, put on light makeup and everything else you probably usually do. You can also go the extra mile by using a hair shine serum, lip gloss… anything that improves your appearance. But do not exaggerate! When you try too hard it becomes very obvious. Just enhance your natural beauty a little bit. If you put on too much makeup, you will start to look fake.
Step 2. Start a conversation
It is much easier than you think. Even a simple "can I borrow a pencil?" can be used as a pretext. If he gives you one, say "oh, thank you" or something like that and give him a lovely smile. This gives rise to future conversations on topics that don't necessarily have to do with school articles. Suggestion: Some studies state that saying the boy's name often when you talk to him shows that you are interested, so turn that "can I borrow a pencil?" in "can I borrow a pencil, Joe?".
Step 3. Don't try too hard to try to talk to him
You have plenty of time - you don't need to rush. If you always talk to him and follow him everywhere, you will seem clingy. If you want to study together, that's fine, but if you want to study at his home or yours, invite a friend and ask him if he wants to invite someone too. That way it won't be so blatantly obvious that you're interested in him. You don't want to look like an easy girl. Over time you will get to know him better and find justification to see him every weekend, you can even get his number 'to plan the study group' (wink). But try to keep the group small (you, your friend, he and his friend are enough. Even better, if you can, find someone you are both friends with).
Step 4. Make friends with some of his companions
That way there is a chance that you will accidentally meet the guy you like at parties, gatherings and so on. It is not too difficult a thing. Since it's not his friends you like, you won't be afraid to talk to them. Just start a casual conversation, but avoid the teasing smile this time, okay?
Step 5. Time to start flirting
You are sharpening the exits and you are really ready to make your move. Laugh and smile when you talk to him, keep eye contact, compliment him on the shirt even if it's awful. Another trick you can try is known as a "sexy model look". When you stare for a while at something you find attractive, your pupils dilate, giving you a sexy look. Now add a slightly provocative smile. You can also tilt your head down slightly and fix your gaze on him, this will be an extremely sexy look. Attention: you should do some tests in front of the mirror before practicing this trick otherwise you could risk looking like a slimy person.
Advice
- Stay true to yourself: If you find that you are doing something that has nothing to do with you, then maybe it's time to move on.
- Be sure of yourself. Remember: the woman is you, which means you can lead the relationship in any direction you want.
- Test the ground: You could try some guys, just because it's playful and flirty, and see which one of them really deserves your time. The sea is full of fish that are just waiting for you to come and grab their attention!
Warnings
- If you make it difficult for him to get your attention every now and then, that's okay, but don't ignore it.
- Don't provoke him by flirting with other guys in front of him. You will look vulgar. Talking to other guys, however, is still fine.
- Make yourself interesting; laugh, be crazy, be yourself. You give the idea that being with you would be fun.
- Don't try too hard: you will look like an "easy" girl.
- Be yourself. Everyone has good qualities - don't be afraid to show them! Don't isolate yourself but let him make the first move and ask you out, don't ask. Good luck!
