You found yourself an Aquarius man, haven't you? He is probably incredibly creative, dynamic and used to following his own rhythms. It is not strange that you are infatuated! Do you want to know more about his intriguing personality and understand if you can let yourself be carried away by passion? Here are some tips on who was born between January 20 and February 18: Aquarius, the water bearer.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Making the first move
Step 1. First make friends
Aquarians don't care about people with just one talent and nothing else. They want more. Something more interesting, dynamic. Go slowly, show him you're worth your time, and build a bond of friendship first.
Your goal is to be a friend who stands out from the others. Aquarians want something special for themselves. Something that catches them. They are able to go further in judging the book by its cover, so they will need to "read" you first. Let them get involved in reading "your pages"
Step 2. Value his mind
Aquariums are full of creativity. Whether he is behind a camera or a brush, he will always be full of inventiveness and dynamism. He lives his entire life outside the box and is often on a wavelength of his own. If you show him that you have guessed it, and that you like this, you will have a huge advantage over the others, who will be there to smile and nod. So you will conquer it.
Ask him questions! Be curious about what interests him. Are you writing a song? Is he turning his cellar into a real spy center? Are you doing murals on the school walls? Be interested! If you also put your skills into it, it will be even better
Step 3. Make yourself known "intellectually"
It is by far the most aphrodisiac thing for an Aquarius. There is nothing better than a lively conversation steeped in culture and future possibilities to engage him. He knows he is flying high and wants to have a conversation with someone who does the same!
Aquarians are interested in practically everything. So don't linger, wondering what you might talk about to hit him. Anything you are passionate about will be fine to get him involved. He will love your enthusiasm for life
Step 4. Appeal to his eccentricity
Since he feels different from others, he may feel a little abnormal at times. Show him that you love his quirky side - and that it's an aspect you relate to! Be unique and original. Be yourself. How else could you stand out from the others?
As for your attitude, be yourself. Wear clothes that make you comfortable. Follow your instinct. Don't be afraid of being too loud, reserved, or different from others. Who would like to appear anonymous?
Step 5. Don't be possessive
Aquarius people yearn for freedom and independence. If you are possessive, it will fly away with a gust of wind. He doesn't get impressed easily and being too clingy / desperate / involved won't hit him. It is one of the reasons why becoming friends in the first place is very important!
Let him know that you are a successful and easygoing person. Be a little detached. Nothing can really bother you. The ability not to get anxious and not to dramatize is definitely attractive to Aquarians. Therefore, when he asks you out, he will expect you to not be scared
Step 6. Have fun without thinking about a relationship that is too serious
Generally, it will be difficult to harness an Aquarius, at least not in the beginning. He doesn't like talking about labels or feeling chained. If you go slow and don't put pressure on him, the relationship will last much, much longer.
Your relationship, at least at the initial stage, will be all about pleasure and fun. And there is nothing wrong with that. If you plan to climb the altar after 5 appointments, brake! Maybe, in time, it will
Part 2 of 3: Cultivating a Relationship
Step 1. Surprise him from time to time
Since Aquarius is curious about anything, they love surprises all the more. He likes to learn, have new experiences, get busy, in short, live a full life. A brilliant and fulfilling relationship is for him what keeps him alive, wondering what's around the corner. So, surprise him!
Don't hesitate to focus on the shock factor. It's nearly impossible to upset an aquarium, so take it as a personal challenge. Offer to do something crazy, like having dinner at an ethnic restaurant that serves edible insects
Step 2. Talk about everything
Aquariums, in general, are open books. They have no problem talking even on the most gory topics. Engage them in conversations about politics, current affairs, morals and ethics - whatever it is, they will embrace it and let themselves be drawn into the discourse. The more topics you are able to talk about, the better it will be!
Don't be afraid to offend his values. He likes to listen to the opinions of others, even if they conflict with his own. As long as you have an opinion and a reason to defend, they will respect what you have to say. Within the limits of what a zodiac sign can tell us, they are really diplomatic and brilliant in conversation
Step 3. Express your creativity together
Have you read the passage about Aquarius creativity? Go wild together! While it's a good thing to have distinct hobbies, spend time joining forces. Whether it's hanging around, designing a website, planning a trip, your relationship will be stronger if you have projects to work on together.
One of the benefits of going to an Aquarius? They can "teach you". If you know absolutely nothing about photography, or playing the piano, or anything else your Aquarius can do well, let them show you how. Eventually you'll make it on your own, but in the meantime let him hold you in his arms while you take a picture or play the piano keys
Step 4. Use reason and logic, not emotion
Aquarius is a very rational sign. He doesn't use his heart very often - at least not voluntarily. If you want to relate to him, use reason and logic. Don't resort to crying, guilt, or any other feeling to win. That will not work. A good argument, on the other hand, yes!
If you are having an argument, explain your feelings as reasonably as possible. Detach yourself for a while and look at things from a more objective point of view. Instead of saying "oh my God, why did you use the last sheet and didn't tell me?", Try saying "It was very disheartening not to have any sheets and I could have avoided the problem if you told me." It will react with much more ease
Step 5. Be aware that it can be evasive
Here's what an Aquarius does: Since externalizing emotions isn't really their forte, it's possible that they get scared when they feel involved. Therefore, if your man begins to be evasive or anxious, it could happen to him because he is starting to feel too strong emotions. When that happens, remember this detail - or the relationship could end very soon.
The only thing to do in these cases is to talk about them. Don't rush to conclusions and try to be as tactful as possible. A simple "Hey, I've noticed you've changed behavior for some time now" might be enough to get it to open. Please don't be scared too
Part 3 of 3: Working on Compatibility
Step 1. Understand that Aquarius is an air sign
It is not difficult to guess what it means: Aquarius is like the wind, it flows free, it is there with you but if you turn around for a moment it is already gone. Sometimes he is fierce, sometimes he is kind, but always in his own way. If you want to be compatible with him, you have to let him have his own independence.
This in no way means that he will not be faithful or loyal. It has nothing to do with this. It just means that he needs to feel that he belongs only to himself and that he is free to do what he wants. Trust that "what he wants" is to behave like a nice guy
Step 2. Be yourself
Sometimes you may swear that your Aquarius is the alter ego of the "Young Holden", he just can't stand fake people. It can read you inside if you wear a mask or offer an inauthentic image of yourself, so don't. Take it easy. All it wants is for you to be genuine.
Always be honest. Honesty and sincerity are essential for anyone who wants to build a long-term relationship with such a dynamic personality. When it comes to love, the people who are best with Aquarius are those who are not blown away by his frankness and sincerity. Being open, communicative, imaginative and willing to get involved, allows you to relate to the way Aquarius has of living life
Step 3. Don't get too emotionally involved
Aquarius doesn't relate well to scenes. If you go into a rage, waving your arms in the air, crying, muttering disconnected phrases between sobs and tears, he'll sit on the couch and turn on the television. This doesn't mean you're not important to him, he just doesn't care about scenes.
On the other hand, it is likely that he does not exhibit large-scale emotions, neither positive nor negative. So when you believe that he is going to be very excited about something, realize that this may be happening deep inside him, but he may not show it
Step 4. Try to be open minded
Your man is totally open to every possibility in life, to all opinions and all philosophies. He does not barricade himself behind a trench or please others, he simply observes everything. Having an open mind will be of great help to you!
You will have to be open to all its eccentricities. While many may think this is odd, you may feel fondness for him. You know it's not abnormal, but unique and original - two truly wonderful qualities
Step 5. Follow your gut
A relationship with an aquarium can be really interesting. If you don't put too much pressure on him, the important thing will be to stay close to him and see where he takes you. Let yourself be carried away by the wind with him. When he wants to do things seriously, you will understand. And you can decide whether to do the same.
Some people find it difficult to allow another to take control. Don't take it this way! You're just having fun. Why should it stop? Don't worry too much about the length of the relationship. He doesn't. Live day by day and have fun with your dynamic, fascinating and intriguing Aquarius
Advice
- Those born under the sign of Aquarius are perceptive and rational.
- An Aquarius is more compatible with a fiery, deep and mysterious Scorpio, with a Libra, or with another Aquarius.
