If you and your sister argue often, you are the typical pair of sisters. However, getting along with your sister is important in developing a strong relationship that lasts a lifetime. When you learn to get along with a brother or sister, you are also learning how to get along with other people in general. In other words, getting along is something that can only be good for you!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Accepting your sister
Step 1. Make a list of the things you like about your sister
Keep it handy to refresh your memory when needed.
Step 2. Remember that, as impossible as it may seem to you, you belong to the same family, so you must have some things in common
If you start from what already exists it is always easier to build common foundations.
Step 3. Try to keep an open mind
Just because you are related does not mean that you think the same about almost everything or that you have the same lifestyle. Variety spice up life!
Method 2 of 3: Spending time together
Step 1. Try to spend time with your sister
If you're the oldest, she'll think it's cool that you want to do things with her. If you are the youngest, try to be nice and not invade your older sister's personal space.
If you share a room, stay on your side, and your sister will appreciate the gesture
Step 2. Try to be willing to listen
If your sister keeps bothering you, ask her why she does it. Maybe she feels lonely, and it bothers you to get attention! Remember: you don't have to be with her all the time, just every now and then.
Step 3. Distance makes you want more
If you are apart for a while you will start getting closer! When she is sad, say "It's okay" and hug her. It works!
Step 4. Play together
It can be a board game, an online game, or word games. Go for a walk, play a sport or go on the swings together.
Step 5. Help your sister
When she's down, ask her what's wrong. Suggest some fun things to do together. Try to be willing to show her how to do things like homework, a sport, or another activity better.
Method 3 of 3: Overcoming the difficulties
Step 1. Talk politely to each other
If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything for now.
Step 2. If you argue often, always try to remember that you love her deep down
- Always apologize after arguments. Don't think you're always right.
- If you can't be nice, walk away.
Step 3. Give her a sweet to cheer her up
Step 4. Set limits
- Don't use her stuff without asking her permission.
- Respect its space and its time. Avoid annoying her by asking her to do something she doesn't want to do or to help you without warning.
- Whatever you do, don't bother with her things - it's the best way to piss her off.
Advice
- Find activities that both of you enjoy and do them together; it will be the special moment between you two.
- Don't do the things he asks you not to do.
- If your sister plays precious because she's older, show her that it can be played at any age.
- More than talking, listen.
- If you are arguing, try saying nice things; it helps.
- Don't bother her just for fun. It might seem funny at first, but it quickly becomes irritating.
- If you feel left out, ask your sister if she wants to play.
Warnings
- She will always try to treat you badly, but you need to get respect and make her understand that she is not the boss.
- Despite all your efforts to get along, unfortunately it takes two to want it. Maybe she doesn't want a sister: accept it, and live your life.
