Your girlfriend is tired, stressed and her heels hurt. She'll obviously let you massage her feet and maybe, if you do it right, you'll get something in return.
Steps
Step 1. Prepare well
If you're planning on giving your girlfriend a foot massage, there's a good chance she's tired. The time has come to transform yourself into his shining knight. Prepare or order dinner, wash the dishes and clean the living room. If your girlfriend suddenly finds herself comfortably seated in her favorite chair while you serve her food, clean the house and refuse to make her lift a finger to help, she will soon start having positive, happy thoughts - with you as the protagonist!
Step 2. Find a cozy corner
Assuming she has already accepted the massage, your next step is to arrange the accommodation. The bed is probably too obvious - even if it could be the final destination; try the sofa instead. Have her rest her head and neck on pillows, then sit down and place her feet on your lap.
Step 3. Start gently
Use your middle finger and thumb to very gently massage the heel, forefoot and his toes. Start by focusing on one foot at a time. Spend at least five minutes on this stage - it will pay off soon!
Step 4. Make intermittent eye contact
She will be looking at you all the time, so your expression and the direction of your gaze are critically important factors. Watch their feet as you massage them, making sure to at least flicker a smile (may require mirror practice. Most people's idea of a faint smile is anything but visible to others. Your goal is for your partner to know that you are enjoying it - and also that you want something more). From time to time look into her eyes and as you do, smile slightly more opening your lips slightly (the mirror is indispensable again. Practice makes perfect).
Step 5. Ask her how she wants you to massage her
"More delicate or stronger?" is the ideal question. If you are doing Step 3 right, it will almost certainly respond "louder". When she responds, pay attention to the tone of her voice. Is he starting to understand your intentions? If so, does she seem more excited or tired? If you're getting excited, that's it. If, on the other hand, she is tired, there is still hope, but from this point on it will be much more difficult to "hit the target".
Step 6. Start massaging with more intensity
By now her tendons will have relaxed and she is ready for something more. Start by using your thumb, fingers and the base of your hand to massage more firmly. Firmly, but NOT TOO MUCH! This is no time to try your manly strength - there is nothing more inclined to quench your woman's sexual desire than a sudden squeeze that causes her to jump off the couch in pain. He would never trust you to touch his feet again! Avoid massaging the entire mid-foot section as this area is filled with small, rather sensitive bones and tendons. Instead, focus on your heel, forefoot and toes (slowly with your toes!). Spend another five minutes on this stage.
Step 7. Show her that you like her
Emit soft murmurs (a deep, soft "Mmmmm" will work perfectly) and smile openly from time to time, to show her that you are fully appreciating every interaction with her body.
Step 8. Kiss her feet
As always, time is a very important factor. Don't start the massage by greedily sucking on her big toe because unless she's in the mood to jump to bed right away, she'll definitely find it annoying and irritating. Make sure you've done the previous steps well, then ask her if she's enjoying the massage. She will almost certainly say yes (what ELSE could answer without sounding rude?). If the answer is yes, slide off the couch, get on your knees and kiss her feet. Look her in the eye and ask her "and now do you like it?". Here, too, the answer will hardly be negative. Keep kissing her feet for at least another minute, but avoid using your tongue or putting your toes in your mouth (unless it's your sexual habit), or she may not like it, or even find it disturbing.
Step 9. Ask her if you can massage the rest of her body
This is a big step, so make sure he understands exactly where you want to go. It won't be very difficult at this point; simply ask "Can I massage the rest of your body?" it might work wonders on its own. If you think I'm in the mood and feel like trying something more seductive, try something like "The rest of your body seems to need a massage too. Can I take care of it for you?". If he says yes, that's it. "Oh, the clothes are in the way …". Got the idea?
Advice
- Once the "foot kiss" begins, let your kisses drift freely. Your hands should tease her thighs concisely and your lips should caress her ankles and calves.
- Kiss her first. Once you've chosen the position for your seductive massage, give her a quick (or not-so-quick) kiss on the lips before sitting down. It doesn't have to be anything dramatic or overly sensual. Just let her know that you love her… and that you want her.
