He left you but you still want him. Winning back the person who has inflicted a disappointment on you is a rather difficult undertaking. It takes time, patience and a more valid motivation. Find out how to do this by reading these tips.
Steps
Step 1. Do you really want to win him back?
Because? It is often better to move on.
Step 2. Think about why he left you
Is there anything about you that he doesn't like? Is there anything you could improve yourself on? Did he leave you for another one? Has anyone pressured him to leave you, for example his parents? If the circumstances that prompted him to make that decision have not changed, there is a risk that you will run down once again. Or worse, maybe he's teasing you because he doesn't know how to make you know it's over anymore.
Step 3. Sometimes kids regret leaving someone but don't know how to come forward
Often you don't really appreciate a person until you have lost them. If you want to win back the guy you love, it might be enough to give him a chance to get closer to you. For example a message to tell him that 1) you are sorry that things didn't work out between you 2) you recognize your mistakes and you will try to improve in the future 3) you still love him 4) specify that he can call you whenever he wants.
Step 4. Sometimes it takes time
If you are an adult the break may be longer, if you are a teenager it may be easier. After some time, if you really want it, try to resolve the situation. If it was a misunderstanding, clarify yourself and make sure it doesn't happen again in the future.
Step 5. Share your life with him
Once you are back together, look for common interests, such as sport. By doing this you will have more opportunities to see each other and strengthen the relationship.
Step 6. Plan your life
Cultivate interests that have nothing to do with him. Think about yourself too, take care of your appearance, always find the space for your life. So when you see each other you will have something interesting to talk about.
Step 7. Don't be mysterious
The mystery is only interesting until it is revealed, so always be yourself. You can still try to improve yourself, and ask him to do the same.
Step 8. Don't be her doormat
It is okay to show yourself available, and express the will to get back together, but not to live according to him. There are many other guys in the world that you might know, maybe next to another person you would feel even happier.
