Has anyone ever offered you the world and then left you? If you've been cheated on and want a fun and legal revenge, this article is for you.
Steps
Step 1. Get over it
If you feel like crying, do it - you should manifest what you are feeling. You will also feel angry for a while and that is also normal. Usually, once there is a breakup you start to slip into sadness and eventually anger prevails, enough to make you want revenge or make you want to go back to your ex.
Step 2. Be happy
Try to be as happy as possible, especially in front of him. It's super effective, because if your ex sees you sad he'll feel great - you can't live without him. Don't let it get the best of you. When he talks to you, smile and act like you are happy. She'll think you've gotten over it and it's the worst feeling she can ever have.
Step 3. Go out with lots of friends
If you have a group you've been dating since you were little, hang out with them. If you have other male friends, go out with them too, just to make him a little jealous. Be socially active, go to parties, go to the movies, text and talk to others - in short, act as if you've never met him. It must seem that you have forgotten what her face is like.
Step 4. Send him a message to flirt "by accident"
If you really feel the need to get some revenge, do one minimal thing. Write a malicious SMS for another and send it "by accident" to him.
Step 5. Post statuses that tickle him
If you are friends on Facebook or another social network, post a status that includes the nicknames he used to call you. For example: "This Little Princess just got a manicure!" to others it will mean nothing, but it will put the flea in his ear.
Step 6. Mess up his ideas a bit
If you see it in public, be empathetic. Tell him that you have heard of his "problems" or that he is not happy and that you hope things will settle down for him soon. He'll want to know what you've ever heard, but won't have the courage to ask.
Step 7. Consider dating someone else
If you have a crush on someone else and feel ready for a relationship, you can ask them out. Don't do it just to get revenge though - ask the guy you like right now out because you really want to date him. If you invite someone of the same sex as you, it will be a good slap in the face for your ex. It will make him lose his sense of masculinity.
Advice
- If you go to school, devote your energy to studying. You will appreciate the results when your report card is better than his.
- You appear committed. If your ex learns you have a lot to do, he'll feel like you never really needed him. Become Miss Independent.
- Forget it was your boyfriend or that you had a crush on him. If you're in the same class, you act like you're not sad at all, even though you're broken inside.
- Try to get on with your life. Pick a new hobby like playing an instrument, playing a sport, etc.
- Hang out with one of his friends and post it on Facebook so he can find out.
- Argue with your best friend and act sad so that you think you need him. As soon as he turns to you, bring in another friend to pretend to be your new boyfriend.
Warnings
- Remember that your ex isn't necessarily the only one who can ruin a relationship. Think carefully if by any chance you misunderstood something or how you treated it. Don't blame yourself entirely, but acknowledge that everyone makes mistakes and acts badly at times.
- Don't sleep with a line of other guys just to get him back. This way you will make a bad impression on everyone.
- Don't do anything illegal. It's stupid and you will pay high in the end.
- Don't be cruel by overdoing it.
- Remember that petty and exaggerated forms of revenge usually come back. Why invest your time and energy in something that will only make you feel more miserable, jealous and mean?
