Have you wanted to kiss that special boy for too long? Does it seem like he never wants to kiss you, even if the mood is right? He is likely to be nervous and does not know how you will react. Follow this guide to let him know you want to be kissed.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Creating the Atmosphere
Step 1. Make sure you have fragrant breath
Remember to brush your teeth and also brush your tongue before leaving the house. Bring some mints or chewing gum with you if you're going to a party where you hope that guy is there. There's nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath, so do yourself a favor and fight bad breath.
Step 2. Find a suitable place where you can be alone
Ask him to accompany you to a place that will be the outline of your kiss: go out for a walk, go to the cinema, etc. If you are at a party, ask him to accompany you out or find another way to meet him alone. If there are friends around, they will probably spoil the atmosphere and he will feel pressured. If you really want to be kissed, find a way to be alone with him.
Step 3. Try to be sociable once you are alone with him
Be confident and friendly. If you are nervous, try not to show it. Maintain an open and welcoming posture, don't keep your arms and legs crossed, and make eye contact as you talk to him. Laugh at his jokes and compliment him on the things you like about him, for example: 'This shirt looks great on you, it makes your blue eyes stand out.' Make him feel comfortable.
Step 4. Come closer
If you haven't gotten close yet, take a step forward and minimize the space between you. If necessary, find a ploy to do this. Chances are he's looking for a way to get close too, and your makeup may give him the opportunity he craves to kiss you.
If you are outside, shiver and tell him that you feel cold, then approach him. If you are indoors, tell him he has an eyelash or something on his face and lean towards him to take it off. Look him in the eye and don't move
Part 2 of 3: Send Physical Signals
Step 1. Break the barrier of physical contact
It is an invisible line around two people who are interested in each other. Try to be the first person to cross this line, tap your boyfriend on the arm while laughing, lean your leg against his when you're sitting close, and so on. By touching him, you send him the message that you are ready for physical contact (including kissing). If the guy breaks this barrier first, try to respond positively: touch his arm or hand, let him know that you are comfortable with what is happening.
Step 2. Prepare the lips
Before you even think about being kissed, make sure your lips are inviting. Dry, chapped lips aren't much to kiss! Make sure they are well hydrated, apply petroleum jelly or lip balm before bed to prevent them from drying out. Make them irresistible. A typical way to do this is to nibble them when you flirt with them. Make sure you keep eye contact while doing this.
- If you went out for dinner, do something that draws his attention to your mouth. If you are eating something that can drip (like ice cream, strawberries, or watermelon) let some juice wet your lips and then slowly lick it off. Just try not to look like a clumsy child who can't eat without getting dirty.
- Put on your lip gloss while he looks at you. His eyes will be captured by your lips. Be careful not to overdo your make-up: lip glosses are very sticky. Alternatively, you can use lip balm or conditioner.
Step 3. Flirt with your eyes
Eye contact is very important when you're trying to get a guy to kiss you. This will show him that you are confident, but that you can also pretend to be reserved. One way to let him know that you want to be kissed is to look deeply into his eyes, slowly lower your gaze to his lips, and then back to his eyes. If the guy gets the message, now is the time to kiss you. If it doesn't, try it one more time later. But don't overdo this technique, or you will make him feel uncomfortable.
Another technique is to pretend to be shy. Maintain eye contact for a moment, then lower your eyes with a faint smile. Go back to look at it and show off your most 'seductive' look
Step 4. Kiss him
Who said the boy has to make the first move? If you want to be kissed, why don't you kiss him first? Guys can get very nervous when they are around girls, so why not get rid of this "responsibility" and step forward? Security is very seductive. Take your kiss!
Part 3 of 3: Send Verbal Signs
Step 1. Flirt
This way you let him know that you are interested in him without it being too obvious. Start a conversation and joke with him (without being cruel). You can even joke that she hasn't kissed you yet (this should be a very clear invitation).
Flirt with text messages. Funny, flirty messages can be a great way to 1) let the guy know that you are a funny girl. 2) show him that you are interested and 3) make him think of you even when you are not together. Just make sure you don't flood him with hundreds of text messages, if he feels overwhelmed he might take a step back
Step 2. Make him feel good
Make him feel like he's the only guy in the world, the strongest and sexiest. Give him a boost of confidence and he may feel safe enough to get over his nervousness and kiss you!
Ask him to help you lift something or open something for you. When he does, whatever it is, say something like, 'Wow what muscles!' Even if you decide to simply tell him 'I like your eyes' you will be sure to have increased his self-esteem
Step 3. Ask him to kiss you
Sometimes it is necessary to be direct. If you sent him all the messages that were available to you without sounding crazy, then now is the time to be blunt. Just remember that this attitude has its pros and cons. On the one hand, you might get your answer (hopefully a kiss) right away, or it might say 'no'. If this is a very shy guy, he may need some time to get ready to kiss you on his own initiative. Or he's not as interested in you as you thought; if this were the case, don't suffer too much. There will be many other guys who will kiss you.
You could give your request a sexy tone, so that it is clear that you want to be kissed immediately. When you approach him (as we described earlier while pretending there is something on his face) whisper "kiss me" and touch his ear with your lips. Your direct request and touch is very likely to break down his shield of shyness and prompt him to kiss you
Advice
- Remember not to overdo it with petroleum jelly, lip balm or gloss. They would make the kiss sticky.
- If the guy doesn't want to kiss you, don't force him. Let it all happen naturally.
- Before trying these tricks, make sure the guy is single. If it isn't, you could get yourself in a lot of trouble.
- Don't feel rejected or hurt if you can't get kissed, he's probably not ready or doesn't like you enough. The world is full of kids!
