It's hard to go through life and be truly happy when you have to worry about something as trivial as being able to afford to go to the dentist. Money problems are one of the main reasons for divorces. It is understandable that someone wants to eliminate this problem from their life and relationship by marrying a rich person. But how is it done? If you want to get married and live the good life, start with Step 1.
Steps
Method 1 of 4: Part 1: Becoming Desirable
Step 1. Don't be cliché
You know what I mean: the beautiful (and silicone-coated) girl who spends all day sunbathing by the pool. You certainly don't want your millionaire to want you just because you fit a certain image, also because if that were the case you'd be very easy to replace. It doesn't make you different from the others - it's super easy to find hundreds of girls who match that picture. But it's hard to find one who excites him and shares with him the things he loves or desires in his life.
Another aspect of the cliché, of course, is that you only love him for his money. It's okay to look for a guy who can take care of you, but choose one who is able to and who you really love, someone you have a deep connection with. He doesn't want a dowry hunter, because he knows perfectly well that she will make a fool of him in front of his peers. He wants to feel loved
Step 2. Respect yourself
Most men, including rich ones, want a woman who respects herself. Why should he like you if you don't act like someone you like? Prove your worth by taking care of your body and appearance (eat healthy, work out, dress well, and have good hygiene).
Step 3. Study
Usually, rich men don't want a goose. They are often quite intelligent, and they want someone who can keep their pace. This is more interesting! Study a lot at school and keep your interest in culture alive even after you finish your studies. Go to university if you can, and if you can't, take free online courses on platforms like Coursera and stay up to date on current topics. br>
Step 4. Increase your cultural background
Rich kids usually take part in cultural events and you need to be able to enjoy them and integrate into that environment. Develop your musical, artistic, literary and film interests. Understand and explore foreign cultures, history and politics (since wealthy men travel frequently).
Step 5. Conclude something in your life
Nobody wants to be with a superficial person, an empty shell who never does anything. That's boring! Go out and do something with your life. Cultivate hobbies and dreams for the future (and work hard to make them come true, don't sit and imagine how great it would be to be a star). It will add complexity to your character and make you appear a more complete person.
Step 6. Develop your talents
Talent is always sexy and makes you interesting. Learn a new skill or develop one you already have. The easiest way is to become an excellent cook (a very useful skill), but you can also learn to draw, paint or play an instrument.
Step 7. Be passionate
Be a passionate lover but also in the way you live your life. When we are with someone who enjoys life and pursues their dreams, we are inspired to do the same. That's why passion is so sexy! Follow your interests. If you've always wanted to do something, do it. Once you find your millionaire, he will be very impressed.
Method 2 of 4: Part 2: Finding Your Man
Step 1. Hook it up early
Hang out in bars and clubs around the main medical and economic faculties: it will help you meet guys who are about to become doctors or financial tycoons. If you meet him when he is young, he is more likely to be single and he will not be afraid of a woman being with him only for his money. You will have to deal with the pressing pace of a graduate student, but it will be a point in your favor. You will show him that you can support him through thick and thin.
Step 2. Go to the right places
Go to places frequented by rich men. Forget the cliché of country clubs and opt for bars and restaurants in corporate areas. Try the bars in the "in" neighborhoods in the evening.
Step 3. Go to auctions
The wealthy often have expensive hobbies, and collecting rare and valuable items is one of them. Rich men often collect vintage cars, vintage toys, comic books or autographs. Develop your interest and knowledge in these things and then participate in auctions when items in one of these categories are sold.
Step 4. Go to charity events
Charity events often feature important appearances. Find out about the theme of the evening and the work done by the association. When you go, be prepared to talk to people you don't know. Making friends in the right environments can also help you meet someone to marry.
You don't have to make a donation when attending a charity event, but it might be a good idea. Organizing such events is usually very expensive and these organizations depend on the donations they receive to go ahead and organize more
Step 5. Work in the right place
Do you know that 22% of married couples met in the workplace? Find a job at a large communications company or other growing industry and cultivate friendships!
Step 6. Make friends with rich people
You can use any of these tactics to make friends with wealthy people. Maybe, through these friends, you might meet a potential husband! If you make good friends, you can even ask them to introduce you to someone! It is a useful path to take, because in this way it will be more difficult to be mistaken for a social climber.
Step 7. Use services specifically for this purpose
There are many online and offline dating services that help you find a wealthy partner. Pick a reliable one and see where it takes you. These services aim to match people for compatibility, so don't forget the previous steps on working on yourself as a person.
Method 3 of 4: Part 3: Conquer Your Man
Step 1. Show him that you are not interested in his money
Your future spouse must understand that you are not aiming for his money. He has to see that you really love him… and you should really love him! Relationships are difficult, and they only really work if you are deeply attached to that person. Don't talk about money (especially in the first few months) and try to be frugal. If he wants a prenup, don't object. You can also suggest it yourself, if that can make you feel more comfortable.
Step 2. Create a context of trust
Since rich people are often in danger of being exploited, it is easy for them to find it hard to trust. You need to create a context of trust - this will make you stand out from other people and show them that you are the one they should marry. Be that woman who can be trusted, who doesn't judge him, and share your secrets and insecurities.
Step 3. Make your appointments unforgettable
Don't be the kind of woman who lets things happen. Be an active part in organizing your appointments! You suggest places to go, even if they aren't beautiful. Be flexible and be ready for anything in case things take an unexpected turn. Ask him questions about things he likes to talk about.
Step 4. Bring some fun into her life
Everyone wants to marry someone if they are convinced that it will improve their life. When you are rich, you don't have to worry about finding someone who can provide for you; instead, you are looking for someone who makes your life interesting and fun. If you want me to ask you to marry him, you have to be that person. Get him out of his shell, have him do something fun, something he's never done before. Always be positive and avoid complaining: she won't be able to do without you anymore!
Step 5. Love him deeply and sincerely
You must be a teacher in the art of love. We're not talking about sex (although it wouldn't hurt) - you need to be able to love it and help it fall in love with you. You don't have to be selfish in your relationship. Your goal must be to make him happy. Surprise him every now and then with small gestures of love. Be mushy. It's a nice thing.
Step 6. Make sure you always want yourself
Don't play all your cards right away. You can sleep with him if you want, but don't do it too often and don't spend all your time with him right away. Why should he marry you if he gets what he wants by keeping you as a girlfriend or lover?
Method 4 of 4: Part 4: Other Considerations
Step 1. Don't rule out the possibility of getting rich on your own
Try it if you are young. Study and try to understand which sectors offer the most. Put some money aside in a dedicated account - no matter how much, start saving it. If you work, try to be the best in your field.
Step 2. Realistically evaluate your appearance, your intelligence and your personality
If you look nondescript, lackluster and have a weak personality, forget it. Write a list of things that need improvement and work on it. You must appear as rich and powerful as the man you want to conquer, but don't forget your personality and your style.
Step 3. Don't be taken for granted
Don't talk about how much money he has or how much he earns. If he talks about it, be polite but don't ask questions. Don't turn him into the center of the conversation.
Step 4. Behave like a lady
Don't swear, don't overdo alcohol and drugs, avoid laughing too hard or being too aggressive, and don't dress too flashy. Work on a more elegant style. You have to be classy and not obvious, not a cliché. You want to be his girlfriend and then his wife, not his mistress.
Advice
- Wear simple jewelry, no tattoos or piercings, and apply light but flattering make-up - throw away brightly colored or glittery eyeshadows. Better to have little make-up than too much.
- Be a good lover. Learn the art of massage and use it on him. Give 100%.
- Learn to cook well. As a gourmet. Wealthy men want women who are able to receive guests flawlessly. Make him some fabulous food.
- If he is a "self made" millionaire, he wants a woman next to him who knows how to do it with money, not with pierced hands. Make sure you are trustworthy and responsible. Don't accept money from him if you are not married. If you do, in his head you will enter another category, such as: "human case", "scroccona", or "social climber" (instead of a true friend or wife). A real man wants an equal, not an employee.
- Dress in shades of blue, brown, black, beige and white. Avoid too bright colors - with some exceptions, perhaps for a particular evening. Go for classic, well-made garments in natural fabrics - 100% cotton, linen, silk, wool, cashmere and so on. It is better to have a few pieces of good quality than a lot of shoddy clothes. Avoid branded clothing that is too prominent.
- Don't pressure him to make a serious commitment to you - you'll just push him away. But if you have been with him for five years and there is no ring on the horizon, leave.
- Take some time for yourself and make him miss you. Get a life, make friends, and follow your multiple interests. Transform yourself into an interesting and fun person to have around.
- Develop a toned body but don't show too much skin. Forget that breast augmentation to show off with microscopic tops. It's out of the question. Get into the perspective of the ideal "wife".
- Always behave like a lady. Inspired by Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn. Learn etiquette and always respect it.
- Women with children can only be attractive if they like children.
Warnings
- If you're a woman, don't get pregnant to hold onto a wealthy man - it's a disaster.
- Don't let him know your family too soon - he may be horrified. When they get to know each other, make sure it happens appropriately and that your family is doing well.
- Don't accept gifts, not until you're engaged. Don't let anyone buy you, because that way you won't be respected.
