Are you tired of being the only person at a party who sits alone in the corner watching everyone else dance, chat, make new friends, and have fun? Everyone wants to get noticed at social events and parties from time to time. Yes, even shy people! If you are a generally shy person, some of these things may be difficult to do in the beginning. Do not worry! It's normal. When you force yourself to do it once, you will notice that it will get easier. It will all be natural to you. Before you know it, you'll be the life of the party!
Steps
Step 1. Keep your appearance neat and clean
Make sure you take a shower before you show up for the event! Cleanliness and personal hygiene are essential. (Girls: Use natural makeup; overdoing it is not a good idea.) Put on deodorant, brush your teeth, clean your ears, put on a nice perfume, sport a new hairstyle, pluck your brows, get a manicure / pedicure. Study a fun new look that matches your personal style.
Step 2. Wear fun, bright clothing
Make sure it makes you feel beautiful! Your confidence will benefit and people will notice you.
Step 3. Feel good about yourself
Be yourself. Be a free spirit. Don't pay too much attention to what other people think. Be sure of yourself. If you are not - pretend you are. This can mean challenging yourself in ways you never thought of before, but you will marvel at the good feelings you will experience when you do. When talking to someone, don't think about what the other person thinks about you, unless they are visibly dazed by you. It would make you nervous, and it would show. Instead, focus on the other person. Ask questions, smile, pay attention to what she says and look her in the eye.
Step 4. Show off a dazzling smile
Is critical. Smiling all the time will cast positive vibes and make people feel more comfortable around you, as well as make you look more approachable.
Step 5. Be polite and friendly
If someone talks to you, be interested in what they have to say. Nod occasionally, say "Sure", "Yes", "That's true" or other phrases that suggest you are listening and not sleeping. If you like someone's shoes, tell them! Compliment people. A nice thought about someone is worth nothing if you don't say it out loud. Don't be fake though. Don't say you love a person's hairstyle if you think it's awful. Be sincere and honest. Your opinions will be appreciated.
Step 6. Try to talk to everyone
Don't always wait for others to initiate conversations. If they don't get vibrations from you, they probably won't be very interested in talking to you either. So, talk to people! Ask how they are doing, are they enjoying themselves, have they met friends, what has recently been happening in their life, etc. Don't limit yourself to a group of friends all evening. Move, try to interact with as many people as possible. Introduce yourself to people you don't know. Smile, make eye contact, strike up a conversation, and show that you are a person with a wonderful personality that is worth getting to know. An important rule of having a good conversation is to disagree with everything being said. You are an individual. Express your opinions! -
Step 7. Show your sense of humor
You know when to be serious, but making a joke from time to time or making a bright comment can help lighten the mood. Share a funny situation that happened to you. Laughter is the best way to attract a crowd. Everyone will remember you as a funny person whose company is pleasant.
Step 8. Do something unexpected
Jump into the pool, go wild on the dance floor, make a funny joke, prank someone, do something crazy! People will remember you - and what you do may be the best time of the party. Don't overdo it, though. You would risk looking like an attention-seeking person or with some wheel out of place. Be original and tasteful, not silly and annoying.
Step 9. Let go when you laugh
A self-confident person laughs openly, and a person who laughs heartily attracts attention. Laughing at jokes or in funny situations will show your strong sense of humor and entice people to be around you.
Step 10. Be happy
To sum up all the previous tips, be happy! Smile, be nice, laugh if someone makes a nice joke. You will give off a positive aura and let everyone know that you are ready to have fun.
Advice
- L' Entrance: keep a correct posture. Walk straight when you enter. Try not to have a lazy posture. Smile and look people in the eye. Look around and find someone you know. Say hello to the people you know. Say hello if you meet any friends. Introduce yourself to people you don't know.
- Body language can contribute to the first impression others have of you. Don't always look at your phone and don't look busy or bored, or people won't approach you.
- L' Exit: let everyone know you're leaving. Thank the host and say you enjoyed it. Say "it was nice meeting you" to the people you just met. Smile when you leave.
Warnings
- Trying too hard to get noticed can be a double-edged sword. Other people will know if you are overdoing it, so avoid doing it. Let it all happen naturally
- Remember that you go to the party to have fun, not just to impress people. Trying to get noticed won't give you much satisfaction if you don't genuinely enjoy the party.
- Don't try to be something you are not. You don't have to change to get noticed, you just need to challenge yourself in a few ways. Be yourself.
- Don't be too silly or crazy, or people will think you're weird.
