How to Be a Good Miss: 11 Steps

2024 Author: Samantha Chapman | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-12-17 09:13

Would you like to be a respected and respectable young lady? Read on to find out how to do it, in a few simple steps. You can be no matter where you come from or what school you go to.

Steps

Step 1. Take care of what you have

Getting agitated because you are not five centimeters taller, or because you have green eyes and not as blue as you would like, makes no sense. You have to work on what you have.

• It is essential to wash once a day. You need to wash and moisturize your face once in the morning and then again in the evening before going to sleep. Shower often, and remember to shave your legs and armpits. Prepare a hand towel, towel and towel as a rug. Put it on the floor in front of the shower, and keep the towel and towel close. When you're done, don't leave them in the bathroom.

  

• Your nails need to be taken care of. Don't eat them and don't keep the nail polish peeling.

  

• Your hair must be cared for and kept healthy; you don't have to dye them in an unnatural color. If you decide to dye your hair anyway, don't wait for regrowth to show. You should always wear a neat, clean and appropriate hairstyle for the occasion (for example at the gym you can put a headband on your hair for comfort, and make a bun for a formal occasion). You don't have to straighten your hair or make ringlets, but if you like you can do it, that's okay.

  

• Make-up must be natural during the day; a tinted cream is perfect if you have fair skin. If you have pimples or other blemishes on your face, opt for a light mineral foundation. A concealer suitable for your complexion can be useful to cover any imperfections, but don't fall into the trap of 'the more the better', because that's not the case; looking like a frosted cake certainly does not suit a good young lady. Heavy eye makeup is only allowed for evening events, as is red or dark-colored lipstick. In any case, red lipstick should not be worn with heavy eye makeup; you have to choose either one or the other.

  

• The perfume must be chosen with care; you can put on a classic and light perfume for every day; something stronger for when you go out, but remember to never wear anything that you feel you will never be able to take off.

  

• Brows are a very expressive facial feature, and they need to be taken care of. In any case, do not thin them too much, it is neither necessary nor recommended. The teeth are also very important and often overlooked; brush and floss them at least twice a day. Mouthwash is also quite effective.

  

• If you have fair skin, it is good to wear sunscreen to preserve your type of beauty. Not only is tanning harmful, it can also become a nightmare when you start peeling.

  

• Even those with olive complexions and tans easily need to pay attention, because white fine lines are as bad as a sunburn, and should be avoided.

Step 2. As for clothing, put on what fits you

Anything that is enchanting about you - a fabric, shape or texture that suits you. Adapt clothing to occasions. Never wear anything that isn't neat and tidy, doesn't match the rest of your clothing, or is overly decorated with appliqués. When it comes to clothing, always focus on the quality of the garments. You also need to have your own style. Don't wear something because it's trendy or to fit a social norm.

Step 3. Remember that knowing is power

A good young lady must be educated. Jane Austen, George Orwell, Shakespeare, Bronte, Dickens, Oscar Wilde, Henry James, Virginia Woolf are all authors you should read. You can also try reading the classics, but don't leave them halfway. There are sites with critiques and explanations about the books, so even if you don't understand them now, over time you will make it.

• Try to read at least two different newspapers every other day; it is essential that you keep yourself informed about what is happening in the world around you, from different points of view.

  

• It would also be good to have a vast knowledge of music and art, especially music today. Don't just listen to what's on the radio. Be adventurous and discover other genres. Listen to classical and Renaissance music, two genres full of history and culture.

  

• If you are still in school, continuing to study is very important, study the subjects you like and do well. But do your best in all subjects, and try to be interested in everything you do. In any case, don't pretend that you know something that you don't really know. The truth will eventually come out in the most embarrassing way you can imagine.

  

Step 4. Be consistent with your principles

You should have a code of conduct to adopt in all situations, regardless. Don't go to bed late, don't bullshit, and always be polite.

Step 5. You must have a hobby, such as sports or playing an instrument

This will make you a more interesting and talented person. Having a passion is very positive. You will show that you are not lazy, that you strive to improve yourself and that you are diligent.

Step 6. Help the children and the elderly

Regardless of the material benefits of your help, from a personal point of view helping others and developing your sense of compassion for any type of person is very enlightening. Volunteering and charitable work are two ways to open your eyes and understand people, increase your personal skills, and be a positive different individual.

Step 7. Pay attention to your speech

Try to pronounce the vowels and consonants well, do not use the dialect outside the appropriate contexts and do not swear. Try not to abbreviate words and use others that you don't know well the meaning of. Pause and think for a second before opening your mouth, and don't speak too fast or too slow.

Step 8. Be polite

Social skills are of the utmost importance if you are preparing to become a charming, respectable young lady. Say hello with a smile, a vigorous handshake (self-confidence), or a kiss, whichever suits you best in a specific situation. If you are wrong, apologize, and if someone does you wrong, accept their apology. Maintain relationships with people, book events in time, respond to letters and emails. Don't go out with a guy just for fun, and don't brag to others. Don't lower your moral standards for other people. Strongly affirm who you are. Ask others who they are and give them a chance to talk about themselves. Listen to what they tell you, even if you don't care remotely. You will have to learn how to pay attention. It's super important to learn how to control a conversation, but once you learn it, you'll save yourself a lot of boring or awkward conversations. Saying "please" and "thank you" is very important, and unfortunately we do less and less these days. Refrain from talking about politics, religion and money and you should be okay.

Step 9. Think about health

Health will give you that beautiful glow that cosmetics will never be able to give you. Try to get at least eight hours of sleep a night, more if possible. Exercise, eat healthy foods, and make sure you eat enough fruits and vegetables every day. Drink a lot of water, as it will do wonders for your skin. Don't smoke, because it's not sexy, it's not cool, but it's a disgusting and ugly habit to look at. Moderate your alcohol intake. Stay away from spirits and cocktails. Go for regular check-ups with your doctor to make sure you are always well.

Step 10. Respect yourself, and others will respect you as well

Step 11. Don't be afraid to say something nice to someone

You can't know what it will answer you.

Advice

• Never stop growing as a person and educating yourself.
• Listen carefully before you speak.
• Listen carefully.
• Speak correctly.
• Use proper vocabulary and articulation.
• Respect the elderly.
• Be neat and organized.
• Never stop loving yourself.
• Don't swear.
• Cross your legs and cover the neckline, otherwise you will look vulgar.
• Help the family.
• Stick to the rules.
• Value the opinions of others.
• Don't get together with a guy without your parents' approval.