If you go to school, you spend most of the day in class with the teachers. If a teacher doesn't like you or you don't get along, your school life can become much more difficult. However, gaining good grades and pimping is not enough to gain good graces from a teacher. What it takes to become the "master's coconut" may surprise you.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Show Enthusiasm for Your Work
Step 1. Ask interesting questions in class
Asking questions shows that you are passionate about the subject. It also makes it clear that you are paying attention. Some people are afraid that by asking the teacher something they seem unintelligent. In fact, asking questions is an indication of great intelligence and a desire to learn.
- To ask questions, you need to be careful. For example, if you asked "What is the date of the test?" and the teacher has just finished saying it, he would think you are not listening.
- Be careful not to ask so many questions that they interfere with the lesson, thus preventing the teacher from completing it.
Step 2. Complete all tasks on time
This is not an easy thing to do when you have a lot of work to do or if you have a tendency to procrastinate. However, handing in your assignments on time shows the teacher that you are prioritizing their subject and will also help you get good grades.
- Teachers have busy lives and they need time to relax, just like you. The Italian teacher may have planned to correct all of your class assignments on a Wednesday night. If you were to hand him the essay on a Friday, he would probably be annoyed because he would be forced to correct your work over the weekend.
- If you know you won't be able to meet a deadline, tell your teacher beforehand. It might give you a few more days.
Step 3. Do your best to do your job
It is always a good idea to do more than the bare minimum. For example, you could re-tie a report to make it more presentable or do additional research for a science project.
- If the teacher imposes a minimum length for a report, you can try to write a little longer than required, but not too much. This will show that you haven't written only the bare minimum.
- If you turn in a report that is too long, the teacher may think you are trying to impress him or he may be bothered by having to read too many pages.
Step 4. Get more help if you need it
Asking for support shows the teacher that you want to do well. Many professors look for this quality in students, because if you want to be successful you will probably listen carefully to their suggestions.
- Don't be afraid to approach the teacher in her free hour or at the end of the school day.
- You may need help understanding a topic or completing homework. You should always feel comfortable asking for help when you need it.
- Asking your parents for help is also a good option - they can explain the topics to you from another perspective and will certainly be happy to help you out.
Step 5. Respect the teacher's authority over his subject
The professors have studied a lot and have chosen a profession that allows them to share their knowledge. Maybe you know a lot about a topic, but the fact remains that you have to treat teachers with the respect they deserve as experts in their subject.
- From time to time, it's not a mistake to correct your teacher. After all, everyone happens to be wrong.
- Many teachers dislike "know-it-all" students. This attitude not only risks compromising the relationship with the professor, but can also attract the dislike of classmates. Nobody would like to have a know-it-all as a friend.
Part 2 of 3: Be Yourself
Step 1. Let the teacher know who you really are
Professors can tell when students are playing a part. For example, if you are a science fiction fan or a competitive athlete, these traits define your personality. Never try to hide these aspects to look like the perfect student.
- If you are funny by nature or "the clown of the class", you need to learn to control yourself so that you don't interfere with the lessons. However, many teachers have a good sense of humor and appreciate a few silly jokes in the classroom.
- Don't let your personality distract your classmates from the lesson. For example, if you have a very busy social life, you can wait for the bell to ring to distribute invitations to your party. Don't do this during the lesson.
Step 2. Value the things you and the teacher have in common
This is probably the only thing that can really lead a student to become a professor's favorite. You might remind him of what he was like at your age or of a loved one. Maybe you share interests or a hobby. If the teacher understands that you have something in common, it is very likely that he will choose you as a favorite.
- In some cases, your teacher may think you have similar personalities. For example, he may identify with your shyness or your tendency to easily demoralize.
- If you know you share the same interest as a teacher, you can use this to connect with them. For example, if he loves art, you can have him read a review on the latest exhibit at the local museum.
Step 3. Be honest about your difficulties
It is certainly not easy, especially if you are shy. However, almost all teachers appreciate honest students who confide in them. If you are having trouble at school or at home, informing the teacher will probably help you to be grateful.
- If you have problems outside of school (for example at home or at work) let your teacher know. It may give you a few extra days to finish your homework or help you talk to a counselor.
- Be careful not to give the impression that you are complaining too much. Teachers can tell the difference between a student who is really struggling and one who simply doesn't want to work.
Part 3 of 3: Treat Your Teacher Like a Normal Person
Step 1. Remember that your teacher also has a life outside of school
He loves to relax and have fun on the weekend, just like you. In some cases you may think that he exists only to make your life hell, but you must consider that he has probably chosen to become a professor because he loves working with young people and helping them learn.
- Be interested in your teacher's life. You can ask him what he did over the weekend or what plans he has for the summer vacation.
- Don't talk badly behind his back - sooner or later he'll find out and you'll end up in trouble.
Step 2. Smile and act friendly
Imagine arriving at work and everyone has a bad temper. A teacher in a class of sulky students can have that feeling. Being friendly and happy to see your teacher can improve his day and make him feel appreciated.
- Teachers know if a student is being sincere when he is friendly or if he is trying to be a pimp. Don't overdo it and don't behave falsely.
- Sometimes, a simple "Good morning!" or "Goodbye!" to brighten up a professor's day.
Step 3. Accept the grades you take
You and the teacher may disagree about the grade you deserve. However, he probably evaluated you after careful consideration. If you contest the grade, they will think that you are more interested in academic achievement than in learning. He may also get the impression that you are questioning his authority.
If you are concerned that you are not getting the grades you want, ask the teacher what you can do to improve
Step 4. Help the teacher
Being a teacher is difficult and he gets tired just like you. If you see that he needs a hand, help him. He will notice and appreciate your attitude.
- You can help by erasing the board, handing out papers, or picking up something from the office.
- If you get to class early, you can ask him if there is anything you can do to help prepare the lesson.
- You can make a good impression on your teacher by helping other students who are struggling with that subject.
Step 5. Talk to your teacher if you feel like you are not being treated fairly
If you have received unfair treatment, you have every right to speak up. Ask them if they can talk to you during their lunch break or after school. Even if you currently feel like you hate yourself, managing to have a mature conversation with him will likely lead to him changing his mind. Your teacher will understand that you are interested in both your relationship and their subject.
- Be calm and respectful when talking to the teacher. You can say, "I'm not sure if he noticed, but I feel like I'm not being treated fairly in class."
- If you can, give specific examples so that the teacher understands what you are talking about. You can say, "When Maria made that joke and the class laughed, so did she. But when I was joking and everyone laughed, she sent me to the principal. I don't think it was right."
Advice
- Always behave politely with the teacher. Will appreciate it.
- Always be ready for the lesson. Make sure you have all the materials you need and are ready to go.
- Teachers often appreciate small gifts at the end of the school year. Don't choose fancy items. Find something simple that shows your appreciation.
- Never text, don't make phone calls, and don't surf the internet in class. These behaviors will surely make you disliked by the teacher.
- Never talk to other students during the lesson unless absolutely necessary and focus on what the teacher is saying.
- Try to get to class early. Always being late will prevent you from following the full lesson and will irritate your teacher.
- From time to time, pay some compliments to the professor.
- Keep the door open and show your affection.
- Never be rude. Even if you disagree with him on some point, don't be impudent and communicate your doubts politely.
- Complete your homework on time or maybe a little early. Do your best. Ask your teacher questions when you need them, and do your best in everything you do.
Warnings
- Becoming the teacher's cuddly can draw your peers' dislikes. Be careful not to compromise your friendships just to get in the good graces of a professor.
- Never try to add your teacher as a friend on social networks.
