Did you find out that you fell in love with your friend? Are you thinking how you can turn his friendship into love? Then this is the article for you.
Steps
Step 1. If you still don't know the person very well, look for general information that can help you
Step 2. Try to behave in a slightly different way, so that your friend can see you in a different light and understand that your interest goes a little beyond friendship
Step 3. Look your friend in the eye, do it often even with a quick glance
Look the person you like in the eye and try to keep eye contact a little longer than usual. It's a quick and clear tip.
Step 4. Ask your friend to go out with you sometimes, but make sure you don't appear desperately looking for his attention
When you are only being a friend together, be yourself and let him know that you are a dynamic and fun person! The second time you go out with your friend, they will surely feel more comfortable in your presence, at which point you can start behaving in a slightly different way, showing special attention, which goes beyond friendship. Watch his reaction …
Step 5. If you have his phone number, try calling him even just for a question about schoolwork, or just to say hello
Step 6. If you still don't have his phone number then it's time to ask him
This may suggest that you have some interest in him.
Step 7. Show changes in your attitude
If you are a girl you can blush the moment she looks at you (even in boys it could be a very tender detail), pass your gaze from her lips to her eyes, look your friend in the eye, with intensity, while you speak, if you are a girl you can blink sometimes, or find an opportunity to make physical contact and touch it.
Step 8. If you are familiar, let him know how much you like him, or tell him clearly
Your friend is likely to have the same feelings for you too, but he doesn't want to admit it. People often try not to turn a friendship into love for fear of losing a special bond. Behind a great friendship a great love can easily hide but the transition from one state to another could be intimidating.
Advice
- Many love stories began with a friendship.
- Be spontaneous and gentle, do not suddenly change your behavior or your friend may get scared and think that he has someone else by his side.
- Take the clock test. If you think your friend is watching you while you are in class, suddenly look at the clock hanging on the wall and then suddenly turn to that person, if at that moment he is looking at the clock it is because he was looking at you first and following the steps. your movements by reflex.
- Remember to have a good dialogue with your friend, he may be trying to avoid a relationship just out of shyness. Try to understand what she really wants and interpret her body language.
- Suggest that we go out together sometime and watch the reaction …
- Compliment him often. But only on things you really appreciate, on all the aspects that make it special and that attract you.
- Do not be a braggart and do not ask your friend to help you perform tasks, such as doing homework or fixing something.
Warnings
- The changes in your behavior must be very subtle and subtle.
- Be well informed, check that he is not already busy!
- Don't stare! Your friend will feel uncomfortable and you will destroy any chance of being in a relationship, unless you are already sure that they like you a lot!
- Don't suddenly become obsessive.
- You can't force anyone to have feelings for you.
- Remember that people in general are afraid of losing a good friend to start a relationship, so take one step at a time and if you understand that they would not be well prepared for a story, try to at least save the friendship.
- Don't state yourself too abruptly and unexpectedly.
