Scorpio is one of the most impenetrable signs of the zodiac. Even if you think you know a person born under this sign, you will always find a veil of mystery surrounding them. However, once you begin to lift that veil, it can reveal a deep and unparalleled emotionality. If you want to know more about how to approach such an elusive individual, try to find out what you can do to understand, talk and date a Scorpio man.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Understanding a Scorpio Man
Step 1. Learn to recognize the characteristics of Scorpio
Those born under this sign tend to be very powerful individuals, showing the impulse and energy of Mars, but also the dark force of Pluto. Scorpio men are often quiet and thoughtful. It is rare to see them in the guise of the current clown. Typically, they manifest the following qualities:
- Loyalty;
- Resourcefulness;
- Intensity;
- Passion;
- Jealousy;
- Seriousness.
Step 2. Decide what you want from your relationship
Do you want a relationship without commitments and bonds? Or a closer relationship that lasts over time and is a little more serious? Scorpio can be very strong and passionate immediately, but manages to transform their passion into a deep and lasting bond. However, to have a happy romantic relationship, learning to juggle these differences is essential.
- Scorpio can be an excellent partner on an adventure, making it the ideal lover in the short term. Sometimes, however, he finds it difficult to accept a lasting commitment. However, regardless of what you want, go ahead and try to connect, without being swayed by preconceived ideas about what a relationship with him should be like.
- Sometimes, those looking for a partner who belongs to this sign have a contempt for the sense of danger and love the unexpected. In short, he is looking for a "bad boy". Instead, try to get to know this type of man and get carried away by events.
Step 3. Evaluate your astrological chart
Dating a Scorpio is a great choice if water signs, such as Cancer or Pisces, prevail in your astrological chart. In fact, this predominance allows you to understand the moods, hidden emotions and unexpressed thoughts of the Scorpio man.
- On the other hand, if there are fire signs in your birth chart (Leo, Aries or Sagittarius), you risk constantly colliding with a Scorpio because you will not be able to tolerate all the dark and disturbing sides for which it is known.
- Generally, if there are many air signs in the astrological chart, such as Libra, Aquarius or Gemini, you risk not getting along with a Scorpio man when the Sun enters this zodiac sign, because your spontaneity could make him unhappy..
- If you are an earth sign, you can appreciate a Scorpio partner. However, your love of material things and pragmatism may clash with its idealistic, dreamy, and philosophical side. Sometimes the combination works, sometimes it doesn't.
Part 2 of 3: Talk to a Scorpio Man
Step 1. Behave naturally and prove your trustworthiness
Scorpio immediately understands if you are a fake person. She is a perfect lie detector, so she values sincerity and loyalty in her potential partners. You can be sure that he will never reveal a secret that you have revealed to him. Consequently, it is in your best interest not to tell others what he confides in you.
Never lie to a Scorpio man. Betraying his trust can be one of the quickest ways to make him escape and lose him. Even if you think the truth is painful, you would do well to be completely honest with him
Step 2. Show him that you are not superficial
Talk to him about what he is most passionate about. Many men born under the sign of Scorpio feel intrinsically led to get to the heart of things, unlike others who live life superficially. Therefore, show him that you too can enter the depths of the human soul. Invite him to discuss important topics, getting right to the heart of the matter. Scorpio can spot insincerity from a kilometer away and walk away when he sees it.
- It can be helpful to show interest in Scorpio's favorite topics, such as science, political power, and the occult.
- Learn about current events and events happening in the world. Give your opinion on what is happening and ask him what he thinks about it. Don't shy away from an interesting discussion. Challenge him on the topics you disagree on and stand up for himself.
Step 3. Tell him some secrets that belong to your innermost sphere
Scorpio is driven by the desire to get lost completely in the other, until reaching an almost mystical fusion with those who are able to make them feel regenerated, renewed and reborn. The Scorpio man intends to get to know you on a more intimate level, but sometimes he is afraid to take the first step.
- Be direct and answer her questions as sincerely as possible. When a Scorpio asks a question, it's not just a matter of education. He really wants to know and understand who he is in front of. So, give him some pointers on what you're passionate about.
- The man born under this sign appreciates deepening the knowledge of his partner, as he is literally suffering from an extreme need for emotional honesty. Often he has the feeling that no one can ever truly understand him, but he struggles to express himself without a little encouragement.
Step 4. Spend your time together contemplating the same things
Scorpio is a serious sign, which appreciates in the partner the desire to make challenging speeches or to reason together. For him it is not essential to have fun or chat all the time, but he feels the need to spend his time reflecting. When you are with him, it is best to stay together in silence. Do not look for simple solutions or trivial pastimes.
- Tell him about a book you've recently read or a challenging movie you've seen. Don't dismiss the conversation by saying "I don't like it." Rather, think, discuss, seek a comparison with him.
- When chatting, don't ramble. Your speeches must be rich in content and, at the same time, convey your hopes, fears and dreams to him. There is no need to update it with short, concise sentences.
Step 5. Give it your full attention
When you are with a Scorpio man, focus your attention on him and what you do together. Turn off your cell phone and put it away when you go out and talk, so it doesn't feel like you're being ignored.
Make eye contact while talking to him. Practice your listening skills by summarizing what they say and responding appropriately
Step 6. Don't interfere in his life, but listen to him when he confides in you
A Scorpio man takes pride in being mysterious and impenetrable, so it may take a long time to get to know him. However, he will appreciate your company if you know how to play your cards right. Listen when he speaks and look for opportunities to encourage him to open up more and more.
- If a Scorpio tells you something, take it into account. He will be impressed if you remember the smallest details, such as the name of his best friend from school or that of his favorite pet from childhood. These little details will let him know that you care about him.
- Don't make fun of him. If you want to add a touch of irony to some conversation, go sarcastic. The Scorpio man is not attracted to nonsense or platitudes that tend to weaken the liveliness of a speech.
Part 3 of 3: Dating a Scorpio Man
Step 1. See each date as an opportunity to experience an adventure together
If you are dating a man who belongs to this zodiac sign, try to keep the situation exciting. Try to experiment with something new, so that he always feels stimulated to let himself be fascinated by you.
- Change the way you express yourself when you propose something. Don't be vague when planning a meeting, perhaps just saying "let's see a movie" or "let's go out". Rather, express what you want to do with enthusiasm: "There's a terrific documentary we absolutely need to see" or "Let's go explore new places on the waterfront." Be more specific and engaging when you invite him out.
- Be willing to change plans at the last minute if something goes wrong or if they don't like something in particular. Learn to do things on the fly when dating a Scorpio man.
- Try to organize something exciting. Scorpio is a passionate type and, even if they don't seem so enthusiastic about trying their hand at a particular activity, they will get carried away by your intrepid doing.
Step 2. Make your encounters allow you to increase physical intimacy
Do you want to get close to a Scorpio? Get your adrenaline flowing and get moving. If you organize something where the body is in the foreground, you can nurture your intimacy, both physical and emotional. Try:
- Couple massages;
- Yoga;
- Outdoor sports, such as basketball, tennis, or golf
- I swim.
Step 3. Make your dating make you more emotionally intimate
The Scorpio man wants to bond and get to know a woman on a deeper level. Organize appointments that allow you to tune in and build something together.
- Spend your time taking long walks that allow you to talk, but also to be alone. Share moments of silence, taking advantage of your mutual company.
- Plan a few outings that allow you to talk for a long time. A dinner is always better than a movie that forces you to be silent.
- Attend cultural events, such as lectures, lectures or debates. Discuss it together once you are done.
Step 4. Watch out for the Scorpion's sting
Scorpios are known for their ironic streak and sometimes their rather edgy sense of humor. To date a man born under this sign, it is sometimes necessary to have tough skin and, therefore, you will have to arm yourself with it. Remember that a Scorpio's verbal attacks constitute a self-defense mechanism that has little to do with the object of his offensive.
Do not provoke his jealousy or possessiveness - these are the most common characteristics of the Scorpio. If your boyfriend is bossy and in control of your life, it would be more appropriate to end the relationship
Step 5. Show your passion when the time is right
You will not have to take the initiative with a Scorpio, as they have a passionate and fiery character. If you feel a strong transport towards him, don't hold back. Give yourself the opportunity to express what you feel and you will be able to unleash the innate loyalty that Scorpio has towards the people they love. For some, this is the deepest way to love.
