Aries is the zodiac sign of people born between March 20 and April 19. It is the first sign of the zodiac, which is somehow consistent with its dominant nature. But once you get used to her competitiveness, straightforwardness and love of novelty, you have a very good chance of winning her heart. Here's how to make an Aries woman fall in love with you.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Making a Good First Impression
Step 1. Don't be put off by his masculinity
Aries is often considered a male sign, regardless of gender. So your woman may have masculine characteristics - straightforwardness, energy, and maybe a short temper - even if her more feminine sides are what shine in your eyes. The first step in making an Aries fall in love with you is to understand, accept and ultimately love these characteristics.
- Accept his way of doing things, especially in the beginning. Aries are known for being very dominant, which can be difficult to manage if you are too. If he can't decide what he wants because his ideas are different from yours, the chemistry between you won't be the best. Get carried away.
- Let it be crude. Remember the tactful young lady who always played Audrey Hepburn in old movies? Here, that is definitely not the typical Aries woman. He is capable of speaking very loudly, swearing, or being noisy, but you will need to be there, by his side, trying not to be crushed by the pressure. A difficult act, but one that will pay off well.
Step 2. Challenge its competitiveness
Like the Greek gods, Aries women are very competitive. This competition exists in work (where it usually aims for promotion or at least to have the support and admiration of its peers) as well as in everyday life. So how do you start attracting an Aries woman? Tease its competitiveness. Try one of these ideas:
Play board games, or even sports with her. Bring a deck of cards when you go to a bar and challenge her to Scala 40 or Gin Rummy. Whatever you do, don't let it win on purpose; she wants the satisfaction of beating you even though you did your best
Step 3. Be active
By force. Aries are very active signs, who prefer the excitement and risk of an adventure rather than the predictable domestic routine. To click an Aries, you need to enjoy this side of you. Gone are the days spent in front of the TV on a Friday night or Sunday; get ready to meet mother nature and sweat like a pig.
- Women usually love beautiful walks on the beach, but the Aries woman prefers water skiing. Or how about an impromptu swimming competition to the rocks and back?
- Go run with her. Yoga and Pilates are too quiet, so choose something livelier - something that really gets her heart racing. Many Aries love climbing.
- Play sports and watch it with her. It is thought that women are not interested in sports, but that is usually not the case for the Aries woman. She may not like the passive side of watching sports on TV, but she will definitely take the opportunity to play sports. Invite her to a soccer game with friends, or take her to a game on a date.
Step 4. Be patient with his impulsive side
Aries often act before they think. It can sometimes bring trouble, but Aries also enjoy the adventure of getting out of trouble. Don't be afraid to work on your impulsive side, or accept hers, when you are with her. Many Aries can't stand a partner who can't live day to day at certain times.
Give her a surprise. Try to show up unannounced and take her to a sculpture class, followed by a drink. If she, by any chance, has other plans or isn't ready to jump down the rabbit hole, don't take it and try again. Don't complain and don't take it personally. It will make her angry
Step 5. Don't show too much shyness, even if it's part of you
Aries don't understand why there are shy people. They are outgoing and communicate their feelings with ease and readiness. If you are shy, do not bring out this side of you in the first few outings. It's not that she can't love him, she just doesn't understand him. If you can show her from the start that your shyness doesn't define you, then there's a chance she might learn to live with it and love her.
Part 2 of 3: Make her fall in love
Step 1. From freedom and independence
Aries needs to feel that they are free to do whatever they want, even if that's not really the case. Don't stand on her like a predator and its prey. Keep her in sight and involved, but never smothered. As soon as you complain that she never has time for you or that she is going out too often with another guy, you will have an attempt on her freedom. You are warned.
Don't force her into a relationship. If you do things together but haven't started calling yourself a couple, don't panic. It will take her time to get into that perspective. Even if she doesn't introduce you as her boyfriend, you have all the benefits of that role. Do not forget
Step 2. Prepare for hot but transparent sexuality
Aries women know what they want. They don't get lost in the complications of sex like other signs, even if they love it. Aries women will be clear to you. They will tell you what they want and expect to get it, unless you can give them a valid reason not to.
- Aries can have an emotional selfishness which can penalize the spiritual side of sex. If you are expecting sex to be a tantric fusion between two souls, just wait. Aries probably has another idea of sex.
- On the other hand, many born under the sign of Aries have a romantic side, which seems to clash with their personality. If you learn to nurture this romantic side, and you will over time, then you can expect sex to be definitely different than it was in the beginning.
Step 3. Never overcomplicate things
Aries is simple, they won't play mind games with you. An Aries doesn't expect you to know anything if they don't tell you. An Aries won't dwell on the meaning of love if it doesn't translate into something practical for her at the end of the day. Learn to understand this part of their personality and behave in the same way. Keep it simple without boring her to death.
Step 4. Take risks with her, but make her feel present in every step
Tease that adventurous and childlike side she loves so much and don't be afraid to take risks. Consider:
- Travel with her. Nothing is more romantic for an Aries than an adventure than a journey. Being in a new place, with different sights, sounds and people, will ignite the fire of his passion. Make sure she's ready to go on this adventure with you.
- Start a new career or take a new direction in your life. While this is more for you than for her, it can affect her more than usual because she likes to experiment with new things as a reflex. Make sure the direction is right for you.
- Be selectively liberal with the money you spend. The key word here is selective. Aries are usually big spenders, so you need to balance his carefree mode with tact. But you don't have to scare her by counting every single penny she spends, learn to let it go on certain occasions. It will make her feel considered.
Step 5. Quickly recover from crises and setbacks
Since Aries are often bold, commanding and boisterous, it will be inevitable to argue with her, or have different points of view. Try to be calm and conciliatory during the discussion. Tell her something like Better talk about it when we've calmed down a little. Don't attack it; she is impulsive and wants to win at any cost, even if it is to prevail in an argument.
- What you will have to face is to teach her the art of compromise. She sees it as a defeat and avoids it at all costs. Your goal is to explain to her that a compromise is not a defeat - in fact, it is essential in any relationship.
- Learn to communicate your needs to keep the relationship going. Aries can ignore your needs unless you make them clearly present. She is outgoing and communicative, and expects you to do the same.
Part 3 of 3: Determining Compatibility
Step 1. Aries women look great with Leo men
Aries women are fine with all fire signs in general, but Leo (July 23 - August 24) is what excites them the most. Both are dominant and alpha types, but Leo's generous and encouraging nature makes Aries melt. But sometimes his dramatic nature can clash with the clearer and more direct side of Aries.
Step 2. The Aries woman gets along well with the Sagittarius man (sometimes too much)
It's not a heavenly match, but it works better than the others. Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21) and Aries share the proud and independent nature, supporting each other. But he's so independent that he could beat her on his own turf and walk away before the relationship even starts. Plus, they're compatible in bed and love their sense of humor.
Step 3. The Aries woman is fine with the Gemini man
A fabulous relationship if neither of them tries to dominate the other, Gemini (May 20 - June 21) and Aries have in common the restlessness and the sense of adventure. He can be fickle, and Aries might scare him if he's too hard.
Step 4. The Aries woman gets along very well with the Libra man
Since Libra (September 22 - October 23) wants to be dominated, the bossy part of Aries plays to their advantage. It gives her the romance she needs, and she gives the drive he craves. However, she can become frustrated with her indecision.
Step 5. Aries women look good with Aquarius men
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18) loves the impulsive nature of Aries. It's not the same when it comes to sex, but they are surprisingly sexually compatible. He may be too distant and introspective for his outgoing and undisciplined tendencies.
Advice
- The Aries woman often falls in love with: Sagittarius, Libra, Leo, Aquarius, Gemini.
- Take these astrological tips with a grain of salt.
- The most compatible signs with Aries are: Leo and Sagittarius.
- Aries has a 50% chance with: Virgo and Scorpio.
- Aries is semi compatible with: Taurus, Aquarius and Pisces.
- Aries is not compatible with: Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn and Aries.
Warnings
- If you make her angry (so get by) don't try to shut her up. The Aries sign is famous for the passion and anger of those born under him. Let it simmer, stay away for a while.
- Give positive advice if needed, but don't expect her to always follow it.
- Aries women want everything to be perfect right from the start. If you don't give them all your attention and treat them with respect, they may get angry enough to never give you a second chance.
