Physical looks aren't everything, but it sure doesn't hurt to have a good looking presence. Thankfully, genetics alone don't have a decisive power on the look (and neither do the jeans you wear, for that matter). In order to look good, you need to cultivate the right attitude and style. Here are the aces to have up your sleeve.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Refresh the Look
Step 1. Take some time to dress well
Try to choose clothes that are comfortable for you; when you mirror yourself, you should be satisfied with the reflected image. Remember that being comfortable doesn't mean dressing like you just got out of bed. At the same time, don't forget that being chic doesn't mean chasing every single trend: never wear a dress that doesn't flatter you just because it's trendy.
- Try to have style and understand what kind of body you have, whether you are a man or a woman. Choose colors and cuts that make you look slimmer.
- Always dress appropriately for any occasion. Will you go to the cinema? Choose casual clothes. Do not wear evening dresses for daily life. When you're attending a formal event, leave Converse at home and dress to make an impression.
Step 2. Find out what look you would like to have
Do you want it to be elegant? Business casual? As a skater? This will help you determine your priorities. Either way, make sure you don't mess with a friend's style. It hardly ever works, especially since you have different physiques and gaits.
Don't be afraid to make mistakes. Looking good and creatively curating your image are skills you can learn little by little, and they're often not foolproof. If you get compliments or feel comfortable, you are well on your way
Step 3. If you are a woman, learn how to wear makeup correctly
A badly applied make-up will not enhance you at all, on the contrary. Do you tend to overdo the products? Experiment with natural makeup. To make your eyes stand out, you should also learn how to shape your eyebrows.
- The secret is to be minimalist. A light makeup almost always allows you to look good, while applying three fingers of foundation and doing nine strokes of mascara does not.
- Sometimes makeup covers facial hair, sometimes it doesn't. If yours are dark and you want to camouflage them, at this point it is better to wax yourself, or remove them with depilatory cream or tweezers.
Step 4. Make a new haircut
Choose one that flatters the shape of your face. Don't leave your hair long if this look doesn't suit you at all. You may be reluctant to cut them because you have worked so hard to make them grow, but a shorter hairstyle could give you a more chic air and make the hunk vital.
And, if you don't believe in the power of a bad haircut, just do a quick Google search to find several images of your favorite celebrities. They often change their hairstyle for a role, going from a sensual look to an awkward one in an instant
Part 2 of 3: Stay Fit and Take Care of Personal Hygiene
Step 1. Drink lots of water
Not only does it help you lose weight, it also allows you to have clean and glowing skin. Try to drink two or three liters a day (it is also contained in various foods). The bigger your build, the more water you should consume.
Try to stay away from drinks that dehydrate you, such as coffee and sodas. By the way, they're just full of sugar and empty calories. Water is the best choice for feeling good inside and out
Step 2. Take care of your personal hygiene
One of the easiest ways to look good is to take care of your exterior. There are details that make a big difference. After all, who wants to be in the company of a person who doesn't even know how to take care of themselves? Focus on:
- Cleaning: Shower every day and wash your hands regularly.
- Smell: put on deodorant, apply cologne or a light perfume if you like.
- Skin: Apply sunscreen. Apply a moisturizer every day to soften it. If you have acne, try to get it under control.
- Hair and hair. Make sure your hair is neat and tidy. As for unwanted hair, you can shave or wax it off.
Step 3. Don't forget your hands and feet
Keep your nails tidy by cutting and cleaning them. If you are a woman and you have them long, give them a shape and polish. Often it's the little things that make the difference.
- On the rest of your hands, apply a cream every time you wash them so that they are always soft and smooth.
- Feet are also important. Apply a cream after taking a shower, keep them clean and remedy bad smells.
Step 4. Brush your teeth and floss
Do this at least twice a day, especially after drinking coffee or smoking. Nobody likes to be around someone with bad breath. Flossing is also important: Did you know it can reduce the chances of heart problems (as well as allowing you to have minty-smelling breath)?
Also, going to the dentist regularly will reassure you that you don't have tooth decay or other problems. If necessary, whiten your teeth. You can do this using home remedies or with the help of a professional
Step 5. Value your health
Healthy-looking people look good. And being fit is the best way to look like it. If you don't take care of your body, now is the right time to start. Start with the basics: drink more water, eat healthier, and get fit.
- Get a good night's sleep. Have they ever told you that resting helps you to be more beautiful? And it is said for a very specific reason. Sleep for the required amount of hours and you will get better.
- Stop smoking and, if you drink, get rid of this habit as well. Both of these habits age the skin, bones, tooth enamel, hair, and organs.
Step 6. Get fit through physical activity
Interval training is ideal for fast fat burning and improving cardiovascular health. If you're ashamed of going to the gym, working out at home is a discreet (not to mention savings) way to sculpt your body. The important thing is to have a routine to follow constantly. Do you like to take a walk after dinner? Great. Do you love cycling around the city? Fantastic. What matters is that you commit yourself regularly.
Taking care of your body by exercising is essential to looking good. Sport has countless advantages for a person, both internally and externally. From a purely aesthetic point of view, it improves muscle tone, so you will correct your posture, stand up straight and move with greater confidence. Exercise also improves circulation in muscle tissue and skin. This will give you a healthy and radiant glow
Part 3 of 3: Having the Right Attitude
Step 1. Believe in yourself
Self-esteem can make you change a lot. To begin with, improve your posture in order to project self-confidence. Hunching over or being perpetually frowning doesn't allow you to be sensual, no matter how generous Mother Nature has been to you. In the meantime, learn to relate to others through body language to look approachable too. To have sex appeal, you need to exude self-esteem.
- For good posture, pull your shoulders back and raise your chin. Look in front of you, not at the ground.
- To make it clear that you are accessible through body language, do not cross your arms and hold your head up, do not stare at your cell phone.
Step 2. Be a good person
Try to strengthen the character through integrity, put in tune interior and exterior. Be humble and honest. Allow people to appreciate you on a character level as well. Surely you have met sensual but intractable people, just as you have met nice but not particularly attractive people. As they say, the dress does not make the monk, you must also discover someone's interiority.
It happens to everyone. You may encounter an aesthetically unpleasant person, but then you discover that they have a wonderful character. Conversely, you walk into a place and get enchanted by someone's look, but then that person opens their mouth and the magic wears off. An individual's attitude can change your mind about him
Step 3. Be different
Human beings are attracted to rarity and uniqueness. You are unique: no one else in the world is like you, and you should remember that it is an advantage. Socially, constant pressure is exerted to conform to others, but no one remembers a clone. Be yourself and brag about it.
Emphasize the aspects that make you unique, be it your hair, height, body, eyes and so on. Make your look reflect your unique personality. This is how you will emerge
Step 4. Smile
Constantly frowning around is like putting on a sign that says "Stay away from me!". A slight smile is enough to light up your face, making you look friendlier and, consequently, more attractive. What could ever be more inviting and welcoming?
A beautiful and sincere smile is the answer. Beauty doesn't just come from the look, it comes first from facial expressions and body language. Try to be polite and happy, but don't look fake - people will notice
Step 5. Don't compare yourself to movie stars or models, don't get sucked into the whirlwind of cosmetic surgery
Everyone has something beautiful, be it the eyes, the smile, the hair and, in particular, the personality. Always try to have a neat appearance by cultivating it, but never make comparisons with someone else.
- Looking good doesn't mean walking around in heavy makeup and designer clothes all the time. It means being yourself.
- Whatever your best trait is, make it your focal point. You may not have the body of Barbie or Ken, but no one has. Your body works and allows you to do whatever you want, and that's the important thing.
Advice
- The physical appearance attracts people, but it is the personality that they fall in love with.
- Be yourself and be proud of who you are. Don't listen to others, do what you think is best for you.
- If you love yourself, others will feel attracted to you. Nothing is more magnetic than a sunny and serene attitude.
- Follow a balanced diet, so your body will always function properly, you will not gain weight, your hair will be shinier and your skin smoother.
