If you want a guy to notice you, learn how to develop the right personality. Generally, people are attracted to someone who is self-confident, kind and independent. Take care of your appearance more. Wear clothes that showcase your best figure and features. Try to flirt when interacting with the guy you like, so watch his body language to react accordingly and smile when you talk to him.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Having a Charming Personality
Step 1. Behave confidently
People are drawn to those who trust themselves, so don't be ashamed of who you are. For example, a touch of extravagance isn't a problem if it's part of your personality - use it to impress the right guy.
- To be confident, openly enjoy the things you like, without feeling uncomfortable. Whether it's dancing, playing video games or reading, have fun and don't worry about having to look "smart" at all costs.
- However, remember to always believe in yourself. Don't argue with others by bringing up your opinions, tastes or ideas, but feel free to express yourself without shame.
Step 2. Be kind
If a guy sees you being kind to others, he won't hesitate to date you. Be understanding and loving with the people around you, such as friends, family, and even strangers, to increase the likelihood of liking them.
- Small gestures can show how nice you are. Keep the door open when someone walks by, arrive on time when you have an appointment, ask your friends how your day was and smile at the people you meet on the street.
- Kindness is also revealed by being patient and understanding with others. If a friend responds badly to you because she has had a bad day, accept her apology without weighing her down on her rudeness.
Step 3. Be open to news
Your goal is to make the guy you like want to spend time with you and share everything that excites him with you. People are usually drawn to those who are willing to try new things, so don't hold back if there are different foods to try or movies you wouldn't normally watch.
If his passions are a bit unusual, he may appreciate having someone who shows a sincere interest in what he likes to do. For example, if he collects strange objects, ask him a few questions instead of being perplexed
Step 4. Be positive
Generally speaking, people are attracted to those who have a positive view of reality. Try to focus on the little things in life that can bring sunshine even on the worst days, like an interesting conversation or a savory dish. If you go out of your way to be positive in daily life, you will also infect others with your energy.
You will probably have to go all out to be optimistic. Try to recognize negative thoughts and look at the situation from another perspective. For example, if you're tricked into thinking "I'm late for school and I'm going to get in trouble!", Try saying to yourself: "Fortunately I'm not used to being late, so for once the world won't fall."
Step 5. Give him his spaces
A guy wants to feel free to be himself and have the ability to manage time on his own. Respect this need, cultivating your interests and practicing what you like to do even in his absence. Make it clear that you have your group of friends, your hobbies, and your interests. If he sees that you are an independent person, he may want you more.
For example, if she asks you out one night when you plan to be with your friends, don't mess with your plans. If you quit all of a sudden, he may get agitated that you are too focused on him, so offer to see you the next night
Step 6. Make conversations interesting
Don't let conversations get boring or repetitive. If a chat seems to have reached a dead end, close it or change the subject. Avoid the situation from becoming awkward.
- To keep a conversation going, ask interesting questions. For example, if he tells you about a book he is reading, try saying, "I love it too! What struck you?".
- You can always investigate his interests. For example, if he's a cinephile, ask him what his favorite films are.
Part 2 of 3: Flirting Effectively
Step 1. Look for physical contact
To show your interest in the guy you like, try to touch him gently and let him want to deepen the physical contact. For example, while you are talking, touch your elbow a little bit or lightly touch your forearm. If he reciprocates the gesture, it means that he is interested too.
Even if your goal is to let him know you like him, don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. If you feel that physical contact is too much the first time, just try to stay close to him until you feel more comfortable
Step 2. Give him some compliments
Put some small appreciation into the conversation. Whatever you say, make sure you are honest, because he will be able to tell if yours are words of circumstance. Take the right opportunity to spontaneously point out what you like about him.
- When you start flirting, try to use some general phrases, like: "It was so good to see you yesterday!".
- As you deepen his knowledge, give him a few more direct compliments. For example, if he doesn't know what clothing to wear for a weekend sporting event, try saying, "You always dress flawlessly. I'm sure you'll find something nice to wear."
Step 3. Smile and look him in the eye
Smiling is a great way to flirt. When talking, try to keep a smiling expression. You can also try to laugh lightly at his jokes and smile more when he says something sweet or interesting.
Eye contact can also help. Try looking him in the eye for a few seconds and then look away
Step 4. Imitate her body language
It may seem strange, but people are attracted to those who subtly mimic their gestures. You don't have to repeat all his movements, but imitate the smallest and most discreet gestures. For example, if you see her cross her legs, do the same.
- Try repeating hand gestures. While he is talking, if he tends to wave his hands or point out something by moving them, try using them in the same way.
- If it tilts in your direction, come closer too.
Step 5. Pass him a note
You could write him a couple of lines, but a slightly catchy text message can work too. Don't flirt excessively if you haven't already established that kind of chemistry. Just let him know you're thinking about him.
- For example, you can send him a short text message to say, "I just wanted to say hi!".
- Also try texting or texting him with a quick question, like "How was your day?".
Part 3 of 3: Choosing the Right Clothing
Step 1. Choose clothes that highlight your shape
Wear clothes that accentuate your best physical features. Some cuts are better suited to particular body types, so it's important to choose the right ones for your outfit.
- If you have very looser shapes, choose tight pants and looser tops, such as tunics.
- If your body is pear-shaped - meaning your hips are wider than your shoulders and bust - opt for baggy pants, tailored jackets and flattering skirts.
- If you're in the shape of an hourglass, go for high-waisted pants, V-neck sweaters, and bodycon dresses.
- If you have a more boxy physique, opt for flared pants and fitted jackets.
Step 2. Wear something sexy
Choose clothes that you like, but at the same time make you feel attractive. Depending on your shape and personality, you might wear tight dresses, low-cut tops or skirts and shorts that show off your legs.
- Opt for V-neck sweaters, as they give the body a taller, more slender look. Those with a round neckline can also be sexy.
- If you like skirts and / or shorts, they must reach above the knee to highlight the legs.
- A pair of skinny jeans and a t-shirt can also be sexy, especially when paired with an accessory such as a watch. If you want to look a little more extravagant, add a sports jacket.
- Opt for dresses made of heavier fabrics, because they drape better on the body and bring out the figure.
Step 3. Wear something red
Men tend to be attracted to people dressed in red. Therefore, when you can, choose shades that turn red, but taking care to make the right combinations. However, pay attention to the hair color. It is not advisable to wear too much red if it does not suit you.
- Red-haired people usually look better with green or blue, so add some accessories of these colors if you're wearing a red shirt.
- Give blondes blue or purple. Try wearing a red lipstick or scarf with a purple blouse.
- Women who have darker hair, for example brown or black, look better with red. Try wearing a red shirt, dress, or suit.
Step 4. Don't neglect your hair
Choose a cut that flatters the shape of your face and makes you feel comfortable. Also, take care of your hair and don't forget to brush it before dating the guy you like.
- Some men prefer long hair, so if you have nice long locks, don't pick it up. However, if you are not very tall, loose hair could weigh down your figure. So, try to do a half crop.
- If you have short hair, make sure it is neat and combed when you need to go out. You could also use some gel if you want to add a touch of style to your hair.
Step 5. Use the right makeup
Use a thin line of eyeliner, mascara and some eyeshadow to accentuate the shape of your eyes. If it looks good, a veil of makeup can highlight the complexion and grab the attention of the guy you like.
Men tend to be attracted to red lipstick. If you wear lipstick, choose a red shade
Step 6. Try to smell delicious
Men love women who smell good. Usually, all it takes is to smell clean, so shower regularly. Also try sprinkling some perfume or using a scented lotion.
- Avoid floral scents, as they may be too strong. Instead, choose a more natural fragrance, such as orchid or woody essence. Vanilla can also be subtle but seductive.
- Citrus scents also attract attention, so look for a cologne or perfume with these fragrances.
Advice
- Do not overdo it. If he doesn't like you, don't push him. You just risk putting him under pressure and getting him away.
- Be yourself. If you have to completely betray your nature to conquer him, he is not the right guy for you.
