Aries is one of the most formidable signs of the zodiac; the female of the sign is more powerful and elusive than the male. It takes a lot of skill and strength to date a person born under this astrological sign. This article is intended to offer general and universal advice (in the sense that it can be useful for everyone, men and women).
Steps
Step 1. When you want to show your interest in an Aries woman, be friendly, direct, and lighthearted
Being serious from the start could make you look 'desperate' and nothing turns off an Aries woman's interest quite like a clingy man. Be light-hearted, make jokes and most importantly keep things on the platonic level until she makes the first move. This is essential. Aries is a CARDINAL MALE sign, ruled by Mars, a symbol of war. Thus, you will be grappling with a fearless leader. She is an enigma: an extremely feminine woman who refuses to play by the classic feminine rules. She doesn't care what other people think and she certainly isn't attached to traditions. This testosterone-fueled creature won't wait for you to pay for her. While you're busy looking for your credit card, she'll have already paid YOUR share. She won't behave like the submissive, delicate girls you've dated in the past - you have to be ready for a tug-of-war or target practice … and she might even beat you! Since she is ruled by a masculine sign, it is essential that she makes the first move when dating. She'll quickly let you know if she's attracted to you sexually, verbally or through body language. Aries are generally not good at keeping a secret, no matter how hard they put in. Chances are that if, an Aries woman likes you, you'll find out right away. You may run into an Aries who looks shy, but if you open up to her, you will be instantly reciprocated.
Step 2. When you want to ask her out, be sure of yourself, look for her gaze and smile
Aries women have unorthodox interests… don't be shy, offer them rock climbing, roller skating or sneaking into the cinema without paying the ticket. Listen to it when it suggests something, it could take you to unexpected places!
Step 3. Listen to it
The motto of the Aries sign is I am and you will understand why from the first minutes of conversation. The Aries woman is one of a kind and often gets lost in the nuances of her own identity and goals. Give it positive feedback if asked and add your own. This kind of woman appreciates advice on her life paths and personality, but be careful how you choose your words so you don't step on her feet in an emotional sense. Also, don't expect me to follow your advice! This woman marches to the beat of her drum, with or without you.
Step 4. When talking about yourself, be as honest and direct as possible
Don't try to play mind games or hide some side of your character. Aries women hate dishonesty and double agents, so if she has any doubts about your honesty, she'll kick your butt fast enough to make you dizzy. Don't emphasize your achievements, but talk about your aspirations. Aries women are loyal companions and friends, and if they think your goals are worthy, they help you as much as they can.
Step 5. Don't be clingy
The Aries woman often has a full life, many friends and invests a lot of energy to achieve her goals. Let her set the pace for your relationship. Strengthen the element of friendship and spontaneity, and when you're together, keep things interesting and fun by finding new things to do, engaging her in some activity or a friendly competition. Silence your jealousy, because if you try to get between her and her friends, your relationship will end before it even begins. The Aries woman has no time for anyone who tries to give her orders. That's not how it works.
Step 6. A woman born between March 21 and April 20 has a very strong, loyal, rational character and is focused on her goals
It may seem rude to some at first, but don't judge it too quickly based on first impressions. Go further when dealing with women born under the sign of Aries.
Step 7. These women are very sentimental and sensitive
Try to understand the complicated emotions that mix and blend in their head. They are far from cold and, if you have had this impression, it is because they take a while to accept the changes. These women are warm, extremely loyal and loving.
Step 8. Trust has always been a problem for people born under the sign of Aries
Since they say what they think, unfiltered, they expect others to do the same… and they never learn. As a result, many are disappointed, robbed, exploited and used - repeatedly. No matter how many times their trust has been misplaced and faced painful consequences, Aries women always stand up, forget the pain and move on without learning their lesson, give their trust too quickly to the wrong people and history repeats itself. Depression is rare for the optimistic Aries spirit, although injuries can cause an attitude like I hope for the best, but expect the worst, or build a protective wall between them and… well, you. However, an Aries woman on average tends to blindly trust each other within five minutes. This is one of its most adorable features. It stems from her absolute lack of fear and her belief in the goodness of others (she thinks everyone is like her - and she would NEVER take advantage of people's trust). If you understand that this is one of his most attractive strengths (and also his weakness), then you will have to respect his trust given too quickly and never take advantage of it.
Step 9. If you take it right, he can be very friendly, helpful, and loyal
At some point he will find himself being the person you will turn to in any situation. He is someone you could depend on and trust even in the worst moments of life. He might be the one person you know for sure he won't let you down in these situations. When the enemy is at the door and there is no one to support you, Aries will always defend the underdog with heroic courage. He doesn't need anyone by his side. He will boldly tell anyone what he thinks - including armed maniacs. He will also be the person who will understand your pain and rejoice with you. Aries is an empathic sign and actively supports those who struggle for survival, but does not tolerate those who complain constantly and those who are depressed without a valid reason.
Step 10. The most important thing to remember is never to underestimate her in any way - and especially not in front of her
It is very resistant. She is stronger than you and if you need her call her and she will come. He will not give up easily and will only relax when he has achieved what he had in mind. If you don't doubt her and take her freedom away from her, she will respect the trust you responded to in her, staying true, trusting you and never betraying you.
Step 11. Never take this woman for granted
She will not like it and will rebel. He must have the respect he deserves. Make her feel special. These women love surprises. They love gifts, perfumes, flowers, good food and long car rides. Make her understand the importance she has in your life. Cook her favorite dishes if you can. Sing for her or dedicate songs to her and write her love letters. Even a few short poems wouldn't be a bad idea. Try to always make her feel special and she will be yours forever. Most importantly, fight for her when she's down in the dumps and you'll never lose her.
Step 12. She will appreciate what you have done for her and will do everything to keep the love and trust in your relationship alive
Aries is a woman of action. It is also consistent with what it says and does not change its mind based on the weather or the seasons. She may have small tantrums, but don't take them too seriously because they are probably due to work or are a natural sign of frustration that she is missing something or someone in life. Show her love, affection and all your support and she will always be grateful and loyal to you.
Step 13. One last thing:
few know that strong women are looking for a man who can stand up to them. Very few men are able to stand up to and care for an Aries woman. Maybe a Leo man who spurs her into pride. Or he might fall in love with the intense gaze of a Scorpio (yep, Scorpio brings out the best in an Aries lady). However, remember that the woman of this sign likes to command by day, but to be submissive at night. Are you strong and confident enough to handle his pride and audacity? Here's a clue: If you have to ask her to let you be the boss for a while, it means she's the one dominating.
Advice
- Aries is a free spirit. If you have won his heart, there is a reason.
- First, if an Aries man or woman no longer loves, it is because they have felt unloved, appreciated, or betrayed. These are attitudes that hurt them deeply.
- Go to her house, try to meet her by chance if possible, show her affection, make her laugh, tell her you miss her, that you trust her and be open. He will appreciate you more than you think.
- Aries women also love 'hunting', but they won't hunt until they are certain of the relationship at stake. Never take anything for granted with them, because if they feel they are not appreciated, they will abandon the hunt and also the relationship very quickly. Once you have distanced yourself, it is difficult for you to go back, because it sees you as a failed experience. She was convinced that I was her other half (or soul mate). He'll look for another one and quickly forget about you.
- Be honest, communicative and creative in the bedroom and you will be well rewarded.
- Aries women are very materialistic, but they appreciate the gesture of a gift like all women. However, best gift her something that is connected to her most recent obsession. Don't worry, you'll know what it is, if you've listened to it. He'll tell you ad nauseam for months.
- Make her laugh, flatter her and smile with her. Be affectionate - you will warm her up.
- Be tender and patient and he will show you his gratitude.
- Build a relationship based on trust. If he doesn't trust you, he won't respect you like he used to.
- It can be very mysterious and this explains why it is sometimes difficult to understand an Aries woman. But, since she is direct by nature, she can't keep a secret for too long.
Warnings
- Don't you dare lie. It'll get you through a bad quarter of an hour bombarding you with questions. You will be so tired that you will eventually give up and tell her the truth. She will always expect you to tell her everything and make her understand things well.
- Ruled by Mars, Aries woman's passion and anger are legendary. If you make her angry (God help you if it happens), don't challenge her with screams and throwing objects, and don't even make the situation escalate by returning fire. Instead, take a break, spend some time apart, and wait for him to calm down. Proud as she is, Aries' anger passes fairly quickly and she'll let you know when she's ready to speak.
