If you want to find a girl who treats you well, it is important that you learn to recognize a woman's character quickly. Here are some key signs to be on your guard when meeting a woman for the first time.
Steps
Step 1. See if she talks negatively about many other people, including all of her ex-boyfriends
If he only has bad things to say about anyone, chances are he won't think very highly of you after a while. On the other hand, if she tends to focus on the good in people, she'll probably be a much better girl for you.
Step 2. Pay attention to how he treats others
For example, if you are in a bar, restaurant or coffee shop, how do you treat employees, waiters and waitresses? Is he rude or sensitive? Kindness is free, so there's no excuse to spare it.
Step 3. Ask her what values are most important to her, and ask her to be specific
If she focuses on things that are purely superficial, like fame and wealth, chances are she won't stick with someone she's in a relationship with during all of life's tough times. On the other hand, if she values loyalty, honesty, trust, and health, chances are she'll appreciate a good man who treats her well.
Step 4. Behave in an easy and relaxed manner
This is important, because in order for a woman to reveal her character, it is essential that you do not make her feel judged for being herself. So try to be as relaxed as possible when interacting with a woman. Ask her about her values so that she doesn't feel under scrutiny. Don't give the impression that you are too serious, or he will only introduce you to his "formal" side which is more of a pose than his true way of being.
Step 5. Make a note of whether he is a nice person who can apologize and acknowledge his mistakes
If he is unable to do this, he will be a horrible person to be in a relationship with, because his ego is so big that he cannot admit mistakes or learn from them.
Step 6. Pay particular attention to how he behaves when he is under stress
If she still behaves in a kind, honest and sensitive way, she is proving to be a great woman. Otherwise, if she becomes treacherous, angry or aggressive, it is an indicator of what she will be like in the future during stressful situations. And life is sure to be filled with stressful moments, so you can be sure this woman will misbehave again in the future.
Step 7. Listen very carefully when speaking, because most people reveal their personality quickly without realizing it
This is because most people don't try to misbehave subconsciously, so they all think they're great even when they're being rude or cruel.
Advice
- One of the most striking signs of a woman's personality is if she makes a particular effort to understand you. If she makes a consistent effort to try to understand you and make you feel respected, this is definitely a reason to keep seeing her.
- Make sure you don't ask questions constantly, and tell them about yourself.