In the age of the Internet, it is always easier to choose an escort. You can find all kinds of online, specialized in any kind of performance and with the physiognomy you prefer. However, it can be risky to meet an escort, even if she is professional in her work. It is therefore necessary to know the jargon of this environment, to know where to keep the money and how long to spend time with her. Fortunately, it is very easy to find the best escorts at the price you are willing to pay.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Finding an Escort
Step 1. Find a reliable escort site
You will come across a flood of adverts posted by escorts that you can peruse. You can tell if it's a good site if most of the ads are updated monthly. The ones to avoid are the portals where the escorts post daily instead of monthly adverts. One of the reasons behind this difference is that daily ads are cheaper and, therefore, attract second-rate escorts.
Step 2. Search to find an independent escort or escort agency
Agencies can be an interesting option because you can expect some consistency in the types of women they offer you. If you find an agency you like, the booking service can give you some advice based on your tastes. The downside of agencies is that the cost is higher, as you have to pay these intermediaries a commission which is included in the price.
Step 3. Narrow your selection to the type of escort you want
Some categories include: mature, brunette, blonde, busty, VIP and so on. You can also make a classification based on age, physical characteristics and / or height. You can also decide if you prefer a quick meeting, a date or spend a whole night.
Step 4. Establish your budget
Keep in mind that you get what you pay for. If you only have $ 100-200 to spend, you should consider saving some extra cash. Once you've clicked on the girl you like, scroll down and see the price. If it's not in your budget, then don't waste any more time reading his ad.
- Do not try to negotiate the price with the escort. If it is not indicated, its services usually cost a lot.
- If you have found a woman who attracts you and can afford it, make sure additional fees or "tips" are required once you meet her.
Step 5. Make sure it's the girl in the photo
Escorts who use fake photos will never tell you that, in reality, it is not them. Many girls who use images of others can blur their faces, but many charming escorts who post their own photos adopt the same technique for privacy reasons. Maybe, by looking for comments from other customers, you can figure out if the girl in the photo is the one they met.
Use an image search service. It will allow you to check if the photos have been stolen from an adult website or a collection of professional shots (such as those from Playboy)
Step 6. Google his stage name
This way you will be able to see how long she has been working in this industry and how it has been rated by customers. If you have only been in this profession for a couple of weeks or months, be aware that you are running a higher risk. Also Google their phone number and contact email to see if they are real and legitimately match that person.
There are numerous sites that provide reviews and ratings on the appearance, personality and availability of various escorts. In Italy the most popular are Gnoccaforum and Escortadvisor
Step 7. Discuss your plans and services discreetly with the escort
Once you have chosen the girl, make sure you get an idea of what will happen during your meeting. If you discuss the services it offers over the phone, make sure you know the correct language to indicate which services you prefer.
If you use terms that are too direct or descriptions that are too detailed, there is a risk that you will hang up your phone and ignore your calls. Her "manager" may also be speaking on the phone, so keep in mind that if a female voice answers you, it won't necessarily be the girl you meet
Step 8. Imagine the place he has chosen to meet you
A cheap motel in a seedy neighborhood is by no means a great idea. Make sure the parking lot is not visible from the street if it is near your home or where you work.
Part 2 of 2: Meet an Escort
Step 1. Be careful when you arrive
When you reach the appointed meeting place, look around. If you notice something suspicious (lots of people hanging around, busy with maintenance or cleaning jobs, and looking at you) or you get a weird feeling, walk away. Remember that most hotels set housekeeping in the early hours of the day and maintenance is rarely done in the evening. Be careful and take no chances.
Step 2. Take your wallet and hide it in the car
Do this before arriving at the meeting place. It is not appropriate for an attacker to see your maneuvers. Carry only your mobile phone, cash and keys. If you have a spare wallet, use it. There is a risk that the escort will steal what you normally use and steal what it contains.
Step 3. Show the escort the agreed money
When you enter the meeting place, show her that you have the agreed sum with you and place the money in a visible place, on a bedside table or table. Please note that prostitution is not prohibited in Italy, nor is the purchase of paid sexual services prohibited. In other countries, however, it is illegal. Therefore, if you are in these places, consider that the money you give is only for the time you spend, not for receiving illegal benefits. Don't try to get sex for money. It's against the law.
Step 4. Make sure his age
Ask her if she is at least 18 and make sure. If you are not of legal age, you are breaking the law.
Step 5. Wash yourself if the escort asks you to
Some escorts may invite clients to wash their hands or even take a shower. However, when you go to the bathroom, you run the risk of leaving your money unattended, so you might say you just did it (and you should do it anyway, both before and after the meeting). An established escort is less likely to run away with your money, so keep that in mind if you're dating a new girl who doesn't have any reviews or a lot of information online. You could take the money to the bathroom, but you are likely to view this as an offense. Grab your wallet, cell phone and keys and take everything to the bathroom.
Step 6. Get comfortable
Once he sees the money and realizes that you are serious, he should have no problem undressing. However, as has already been mentioned, the laws vary between countries with respect to what is considered legal and illegal in this area. To be sure, find out about the legal framework governing paid sex in the country where you meet your escort.
Step 7. Use escort jargon in your conversations
Escorts are very careful when talking about money, sex, dating etc. They can use code words like "offer" or "company". When you speak, try to use them too. Don't be direct by explicitly asking to have sex. Use phrases like "get comfortable" or "get to know each other".
Step 8. Leave immediately when the meeting is over
Pay attention to this moment because you certainly don't want to be robbed of your belongings while you are asleep. Also, it is better to leave the meeting place and move the car in order to avoid the possibility of any acquaintance discovering you. Remember not to leave at the same time as the escort leaves. It is not recommended to go out together.
Advice
- When you arrive at the meeting place, bring only the exact amount you need.
- Always call the escort by her stage name. Don't use terms like "small" or "love".
- Get to know it first. You will have the opportunity to chat online and talk to her. Ask her what her performance and price are.
Warnings
- Do not try to have sex with an escort if it is prohibited in the country where you met her. Prostitution is illegal in many places. Induction into sex can be punished by law.
- Check the escort's age first. You could induce a minor to have sexual intercourse, which is punished with very severe penalties.
- Always be on the lookout if you notice anything suspicious. The escort could be an undercover police officer.
