So you decided to spend time with an escort, now what? Your first phone call could be nerve-wracking and you don't want this woman to escape you! Follow the steps below to make things easier for you and your potential date.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Prepare for the phone call
Step 1. Try to be as calm as possible and try to be yourself
Most of the escorts are professional and they will not judge you if you show normal emotions of human nature such as anxiety. Remember that the escort is also a human being.
Step 2. Review the laws in your area and make sure you are not breaking any
Step 3. Read the adverts, website and additional information the escort has provided:
there will be a reason why they exist and reading them will protect you from unpleasant reactions in case you and the escort do not agree.
Step 4. Make sure you know the escort's phone number and her name
Calling her and then asking her "who you are" will not make a good impression on her.
Step 5. Check her hours before calling her
An escort who works during the day will not be so happy to talk to you at 4 am.
Step 6. Examine the reasons why you are calling an escort
Do you want to have a romantic relationship with her? Do you think you are allowed to offend her or treat her like a blow-up doll? Do you just want to say vulgarity on the phone? Are you trying to get caught to make your wife jealous? She won't put up with any of these behaviors.
Method 2 of 2: Make the phone call
Step 1. Take a deep breath, smile and think of something nice about you and dial the number
Remember that most escorts will not answer a private number.
Step 2. When she responds, calmly and confidently tell her “Hi, my name is (any)
Do I speak to (any)?”. If it is an agency, you will find yourself talking to his agent and so, consequently, you will have to adapt the previous advice when talking with him. If it's the escort, keep smiling.
Step 3. Tell her you've seen her ad, tell her where you saw it and you'd like to arrange an appointment
Don't ask her "How's it going?" Talk to her as you would with other professional service providers.
Step 4. Ask her about anything that isn't clear to you, but don't get her to repeat exactly what is already written on her website
She is short on time and expects you to be able to read.
Step 5. When you ask her about her possible activities, avoid vague code words
Your idea of what to expect in a meeting may differ from hers. Instead, ask her specifically if she likes the things you would like to do or ask her if there is something she doesn't want to do. Don't try to argue about the answer she will give you and don't try to bribe her to change her mind.
Step 6. Ask her if she is free during the time you would like to meet her
Don't make her choose if she doesn't know what your possible commitments are. If she can satisfy your requests, she will. If she can't, she'll be the one to suggest the right moment.
Step 7. Make sure you provide your name and surname, address and telephone number or hotel room number
You will want to verify this information to make sure it is not a phone prank and that it can let you know where you will be. If you meet her in a place that she indicates to you, do not pester her to know the exact address. Remember that she doesn't know you yet and doesn't want to find herself in an unpleasant situation with someone who shows up in the morning or visits her in the middle of the night. She wants to make money, so she is unlikely to want to leave you hanging. Just be patient.
Step 8. You will probably have to call her again to let her know that you are ready to meet her or if you meet her in a place of your choosing, she will call you
Step 9. Remember that you invest time and money to get ready, for the driver and / or for the security deposits and to devote time to you
If your appointment is still several hours away and you change your mind, call and cancel. Politely state your motives and apologize. If you are near her home or almost there, politely tell her that you have changed your mind and pay the first half hour or her taxi and in addition give her some money for the time she has wasted. Don't hurt her feelings and don't be hard on her unless you love being treated this way at work.
Step 10. Have fun, be a gentleman and be careful
Advice
- She doesn't judge your body, how old you are or your sexual performance. She looks after how you treat her and how you treat escorts in general.
- It is possible that you love your job. Many escorts love it and bondage is rare in this business as in any other. If you have clear evidence that she is not there of her own free will, pay her, apologize and walk away. Slavery is a crime and should be reported, but to assert that the escort is unable to make adult decisions is a gross disrespect.
- Search for information and find all listings where the phone number is available on escort sites. You may notice something you don't like or it may even be dangerous.
- Pay immediately by placing the exact amount on the table. It would be rude if the escort were to ask you for the money. Remember this is his job.
- Be funny if you normally are. Girls love funny guys.
- The steps seem complex, but for the most part they are things you need to know. The call should take less than five minutes.
Warnings
- If you break the laws, be prepared to pay the consequences. If you think the law is unconstitutional, contact someone in the government to let them know that you are in favor of the change.
- Meeting an unknown person is risky. Learn about the area and how to behave in dangerous situations.
- Most of the escorts do not work without a bodyguard and the police are responding more and more promptly to the complaints raised by the escorts. If you intend to cause dangerous situations, know that she will do everything to protect herself.
- Not all escort photos are true. You may also like it when you see the escort in person, but remember to be realistic.
