Tired of being mistaken for your little brother? In fact, you can look bigger and more adult than you are. You just have to pay more attention to the way you dress and behave, and people will start giving you a few more years.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Wear the Right Clothes
Step 1. Don't wear clothes that reflect teenage fads
You know, people judge based on physical appearance, and clothing is one of the first things that are noticed. What you wear can affect how others think about you. If you are trying to look older, stop dressing like a teenager. Start shopping in different stores. Leave out the outlets for teenagers and prefer the ones for adults. Shops for children and young people usually sell clothing made of cheap, light and semi-sheer fabrics that make you look smaller. Instead of cheap fabrics, choose better-made clothing.
- Girls should avoid girly trends, like Mary Jane shoes and Peter Pan collars. In addition, we must forget the lace, as well as skirts and sweaters with ruches.
- Avoid sporty styles. Sweatpants, basketball shorts, baseball caps, and gym shorts can make you look lazy and sloppy. In addition, they are very popular among the youngest.
Step 2. Wear clothes of your size
Replace loose fitting clothing with ones that flatter your body. You shouldn't wear clothing that wraps around you and hides your body - they can give you an unflattering and unkempt look. Similarly, avoid too tight clothes. In fact, they can make you look smaller.
- If you are a boy, choose shirts only after measuring the shoulders. If the hem of this area extends beyond the end of the actual shoulders, the shirt is too large and will not fit you.
- If you are a girl, choose clothes that accentuate (but do not mark) your shape. If you have narrow hips, wear an A-line skirt to bring the gaze outward, giving the illusion of more shapely hips. Choose crew neck and V-neck sweaters. Buy jackets and sweaters that fit your silhouette.
Step 3. Don't bring printed t-shirts
Wearing a t-shirt with a logo or a witty phrase immediately reveals your true age. This category includes the shirts of the bands, or those printed with a brand or logo. If you want people to consider you older, avoid t-shirts entirely.
- If you're a boy, try plain colored or striped shirts. Go for bright colors, such as light pink, yellow, and orange. Dressing up in an adult way is not synonymous with wearing boring colors.
- Henley shirts and polo shirts have a typically masculine cut, and can replace t-shirts.
- If you are a girl, prefer sweaters or tops decorated with delicate patterns. Try plain blouses in bright colors or prints. Either way, stay away from fluorescent or overly flashy colors.
Step 4. Wear quality jeans
Denim is a must in anyone's wardrobe, at any age. However, if you want to look bigger, choose carefully which jeans to wear. Buy high quality ones with elegant cuts. Make sure they are not too low or too high waisted.
- If you are a boy, choose straight cut jeans. If you're a girl, try flared, wide-legged, or skinny ones. Have you chosen skinny jeans? Make sure they aren't too tight.
- Replace faded or ripped jeans with darker washes. Avoid those decorated with rhinestones or other flashy elements.
Step 5. Wear the right shoes
Complete your adult look by wearing the appropriate footwear. Avoid sneakers or canvas shoes. Don't wear overly flashy ones either. If you are a girl, do not use too high or trendy heels. Whatever your gender, avoid flip flops. Instead, choose comfortable, classic shoes.
- If you are a boy, wear boots. Black boots go with just about everything. Brown and lace-up leather ones are just as good for almost any outfit. If you don't want to wear these shoes, boat shoes and moccasins are just as suitable. Even polished leather shoes allow you to achieve an adult look.
- If you are a girl, wear pumps. Make sure your heels aren't too high. Don't want to wear heels? Choose comfortable ballet flats. Sandals are ideal in summer.
Step 6. Dress well
Another way to look older is to dress carefully. Present yourself with a refined and formal look. This allows people to see you as more of an adult, and not a kid.
- If you are a boy, wear khakis or dress pants. Pair them with a polo shirt or a shirt tucked into them. Put on a nice leather belt and quality shoes. There is no need to add a tie, but it will help you look more adult.
- If you're a girl, wear dresses that come to the knee and don't show too much cleavage. You can also try wearing a nice skirt and blouse. Pair the dress or blouse with a cardigan or blazer. Choose comfortable shoes.
Step 7. Get rid of the backpack
When you have to go out, don't bring your backpack - it will make you look younger. If you are a boy, choose a shoulder bag or a leather briefcase. If you are a girl, you prefer a simple clutch or a quality hobo bag.
Method 2 of 3: Healing the Outer Aspect to Look Bigger
Step 1. Choose an adult haircut
Certain cuts and hairstyles can make you look much younger. There is no one-size-fits-all method of combing hair for the purpose of looking bigger; nevertheless, there are factors you can avoid in order not to give the impression that you are too young. Don't dye your hair crazy colors or keep colored locks. Stay away from extreme hairstyles, such as mohawks, half-shaved heads and dreadlocks. Choose a classic hairstyle.
- Tousled hair makes a guy's face look much younger. Replace them with a short, defined cut. Crewed, long or other hair styles may make you look smaller.
- If you are a girl, you could go for a bob, a pixie cut, or choose another chic style. Long straight hair can also make you look bigger. Avoid wearing too many hair accessories, such as headbands, ribbons and colored rubber bands.
Step 2. Let your beard grow
If you are a boy, facial hair can make you look bigger and more adult. According to a recent study, a beard can make a 10-year-old man look older. If you decide to let your beard grow, make sure it looks good on you. Some teens just can't get enough hair to make a goatee or bear a beard.
- Make sure you trim and care for your facial hair. An untidy and neglected beard is unsightly.
- If the growing beard is not very thick, it is better to have a clean face. Patchy growth hair will make you look even smaller.
Step 3. Put on light makeup
If you are a girl, makeup can make you look older. Use eyeliner to outline the eyes. Choose neutral colors, such as gold and brown. Don't wear bright or pastel colors. Add a thin layer of foundation to even out the complexion.
- Use concealer to hide dark circles.
- Avoid teenage products, such as thick, bright glosses or baby pink nail polishes.
Step 4. Cover acne
Visibly clean skin will surely make you look bigger. Use a concealer to conceal blemishes. Adopt a healthy skincare program. Try over-the-counter acne products, such as mattifying creams and wipes to soak up oil.
- Wash your face twice a day with an acne cleanser. Use a moisturizer. If you have oily skin, apply an oil-free product. If it's dry, choose one that helps you fight dryness.
- If you are a girl, in addition to wearing makeup, you could wear bangs to hide imperfections on your forehead.
Step 5. Exercise
This will not only help you melt fat, but it defines muscle, which helps teens look bigger. If you are a boy, you may want to focus on upper body exercises, so you will broaden your shoulders and build muscle mass in your arms. If you are a girl, you should slim the waist and sculpt the chest and buttocks to accentuate the feminine curves.
Interval training is an excellent way to burn fat quickly, and using dumbbells helps you build muscle mass. Join the gym or focus on exercises like pushups and squats to get more muscular
Method 3 of 3: Behave as an Adult
Step 1. Believe in yourself
Nothing more than self-esteem conveys maturity. While your looks, unique personality, or interpersonal skills aren't what you want, that doesn't have to stop you from gaining self-confidence.
There is a blurred line between believing in yourself and being arrogant or haughty. Having self-esteem means feeling good about yourself, Not believe yourself better than everyone else. Don't flaunt your successes excessively or speak in a way that communicates disdain towards others. This is classic immature person behavior.
Step 2. Change the way you pose physically
Hunching over is another typical behavior associated with teenagers. Keep your head up and your back straight. Learn to walk safely and improve your posture. Start by standing straight wherever you are, whether you are walking down the street, sitting in front of your desk, using your computer or standing in line. Correct yourself whenever you notice that you are on the verge of hunching over. Soon, it will come naturally to you.
Changing the way you pose goes hand in hand with self-esteem. Keep your head up, don't stare at the floor. Look people in the eye when you speak
Step 3. Become more socially composed
Speak slowly and confidently, not aloud. Remember good manners using "Please" and "Thank You". Listen carefully to what others are saying to you. Few things are more indicative of maturity than the ability to listen.
- When people finish telling you a story about them, don't immediately start talking about yourself. This makes you seem self-centered and uninterested. Instead, first express your reaction to what you were told, then use your experience as a means of relating to the other person.
- Learn the art of small talk for its own sake. Ask people how they are doing. Talk about the weather. Ask about their families. Be polite and have light conversations with people.
Step 4. Complain less
People who do nothing but complain are immature and self-centered. As you grow up, you learn to accept the ups and downs, and that everything happens for a reason. Ruminating on life's difficulties will not help you improve it at all. Venting to your friends can be beneficial for cathartic matters or asking for advice directly, but the constant complaints about irrelevant happenings are rather childish.
Step 5. Enrich your vocabulary
This doesn't mean stuffing your daily conversations with unnecessary big words, because otherwise you'll seem desperate for attention. Work to eliminate childish words that clearly reveal your true age. Speak slowly and consciously. Think about your lexical choices to make your words matter.
- Learn some sophisticated words and use lots of synonyms. To do this, you can consult a classic vocabulary and a dictionary of synonyms and antonyms. For example, say "This idea is innovative" instead of "This idea is new". Ask someone to be "straight" to you instead of "honest". A richer vocabulary will make you look more adult and cultured.
- Try not to overdo the use of slang. Avoid repeating "like" over and over, yelling "Oh my God!" and emphasize sentences with unnecessary fillers, such as "that is". Try not to use words like "cool" or "like" (when referring to a guy or a man).
Step 6. Stand up politely but firmly
If someone disrespects you, feel free to put a stop to that behavior. After all, learning to command respect is important in cultivating one's maturity. Be direct and communicate what you want. Avoid making excessive use of sarcasm and do not act as if you have been seriously offended in situations where someone does you wrong. Even if you only intend to joke when making irreverent comments, they won't let you look good or get the results you want.
- For example, if someone interrupts you, they say, "One moment, please don't interrupt me."
- Don't make statements like, "Hey, why did you interrupt me? You just can't tell when you should shut up!"
- Know when to turn a blind eye. Sooner or later, everyone experiences negative social exchanges, but you need a bit of wisdom to learn how to choose your battles. Being treacherous, resentful, or cruel will make you look immature.
- Often, when people don't know how to take you right or offend you, they don't even realize it. Respect their feelings by ignoring their mistakes or, if necessary, clearly explaining that they have wronged you.
