You've noticed a guy who seems to totally respond to your tastes - he's smart, cute, interesting. He may even seem happy to talk to you on a regular basis. But the next step, pointing out that you are the right person for a romance, is not happening. Ok, even if you can't "force" him to fall in love with you, there are still many ways you can try to persuade him!
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Respect Yourself
Step 1. Have respect for yourself first
Be confident in your appearance and personality and let it show. He will be drawn to your ability to keep your feet on the ground and be comfortable with yourself.
Step 2. Make an effort
Present yourself well, in appearance and manner. You will be more likely to notice your more attractive side if you are communicating well and taking care of your appearance. It's not about buying expensive clothes or putting on makeup; it's about making an effort to present yourself in the best conditions and to converse with him in an intelligent and fun way.
- Buy clothes that fit you well. They won't necessarily be the ones that look good on popular girls or your best friends, but that doesn't matter, as there is no shortage of alternatives these days. Dress to like you.
- Go easy on the makeup. Guys love the natural look and don't end up with the lipstick mark or the smell of foundation. Also, letting your skin breathe will reduce pimples.
Step 3. Maintain a great hairstyle
If your hair is your thing, wash it regularly and keep it well brushed, braided or however you like. And if your hair isn't that good or you don't have any at all, don't worry; wear a scarf or decorate your scalp. The goal is to make it interested in you, not your hair.
Step 4. If you want to give a particular image of yourself, do it
Just make sure this makes you feel comfortable and isn't pretending that you like something you don't really care about. For example, if you want to look sporty because he is, but that's not really the case, well, that's a waste of everyone's time. Be a sporty girl only if that's what you really want, don't force yourself.
Step 5. Get the right sleep
Whatever you think of this guy, he's not worth losing sleep on. Your brain needs to recharge for study, activities and the next day, every day. And your skin, face, eyes, immune system and posture will also benefit from abundant and regular sleep.
Part 2 of 2: Get his attention
Step 1. Smile often
Being kind and positive when you are close to him is a sign of encouragement. Your positive attitude will make him feel comfortable around you. Laugh at his jokes, praise the things you notice he does well, and give him moral support from time to time.
Be nice to everyone, not just this guy. You will show that you care about people in general, and this is always an attractive quality
Step 2. Make eye contact
As social beings, we like to know that there is a real connection when we talk to another person. With this guy it's no different; you can show genuine and sincere interest by looking him in the eye and using this attitude as a form of communication. Show interest, confidence and respect when used sensitively.
There is a big difference between making eye contact and staring at someone. Staring can be annoying; don't turn a romantic moment into a competition to see who looks away first
Step 3. Flirt
Start slowly, then notice how she reacts to see if it's time to increase the dose. You will notice if it lends itself to the game or not.
- When you meet him in the hallways or outside, smile at him.
- Don't be silly when you meet him. That's not flirting, but being servile and false.
Step 4. Realize that you may not be the only one trying to get his attention
High school can be a place full of competition. If you suspect others are interested in this guy, take note of what's going on but don't make a big deal out of it. If he wants to be with you, it will happen. If not, that's not the only person you should focus on. Either way, it's always worth a try, but don't get too involved or you may find yourself heartbroken.
Step 5. Talk to him
If you're just smiling at him, winking at him, and flirting from afar, he won't get your message right. He may simply feel gratified, but not courted. Get close and have a real conversation, finding out what interests him, what his hobbies are and what he thinks about his future. Stimulate his interest by showing that you are attracted to him as a person and not as a possible conquest.
