There are several ways to behave in a sophisticated way. Sophisticated people are similar to classy people, even if financial resources are not as important in this case. Being sophisticated means being, among other things, intelligent and mature. If all of this doesn't come naturally to you, these tips may help you.
Steps
Step 1. Try to take care of your physical appearance
- Girls: If you want to wear makeup, learn how to do it and go ahead. Red lipstick is very sophisticated. Are you not interested in make-up? Just keep your face clean. In the morning, before getting dressed, choose clothes that flatter you. It is useful to have style, but it is useless if the item of clothing you have chosen does not fit you. Avoid masculine-cut clothing, as it will make you look scruffy.
- Boys: Avoid feminine cut clothes and tight shirts. While you want to show off your muscles, doing so would not be sophisticated.
- Both genders: Shower every day. Put on the deodorant. Only wear clothes that fit your physique, this is the first factor to consider when opening the closet. Sure, it's important to have style, but you don't have to choose clothes that don't fit you just because you think they're sophisticated.
Step 2. Stand straight, never hunch over
Being sophisticated also means never looking tired.
Step 3. Bring the right accessories
If you have pierced ears, wear earrings every day, otherwise, opt for necklaces, rings and bracelets that are simple and suitable for your outfit. Nothing fancy!
Guys: It's best to avoid accessories, except for the watch
Step 4. Socialize with both adults and children
Some adults will put on airs, while others will become your best friends. You won't get along with everyone, that's normal. As for the children, try to show interest in their lives; for example, ask them questions about the sports they play, how school is doing, etc.
Step 5. Check yourself in public
Don't run, shout, vigorously wave your arms when you see someone you know. A slight wave of the hand and a smile are more than enough.
Step 6. Wear appropriate clothes for the occasion, nothing too youthful or too flirtatious
For example, if the context requires it, opt for a formal match.
Step 7. Tidy up your room or house; everything must be perfect and stay in place
Clean the space you live in every day. You will no longer be stressed out at the last minute, looking for the house keys under the sofa. Once a month, take a tour of your room, find what you no longer need and throw it away. If you find it difficult to always order, just make sure the floor is clean and there are no clothes strewn on the floor once you get back from school. Step by step you will have a perfect room.
Step 8. Be on time
Always arrive at least 10 minutes early for an appointment, class, or work. Get up early. People won't take you seriously if you're constantly late. Unreliability will disappoint people and their expectations.
Step 9. Eat responsibly
Learn the main rules of etiquette and use cutlery correctly. You also need to know when to start eating if you are sitting with other people. Be prepared to stick to etiquette when dining out by ordering properly, tipping, and most importantly, having interesting conversations throughout the meal.
Step 10. Cultivate good manners
People like to surround themselves with polite people. You don't have to be politically correct, just polite. In fact, you should tell others what your true opinions are. Don't chat about this and that for the duration of a meal, but don't skip this part.
Step 11. Be confident, but not arrogant
Presumption, pride, and an air of superiority discourage people who would like to befriend you.
Step 12. Take care of your hair
Here's what to do:
- Girls: styling them is essential. If your hair needs more body, buy some volumizing products and befriend hairspray. Do you have wavy hair and want it straight or curly? Use the straightener or define the curls with a foam, even if many types of wavy hair are already beautiful on them. Curly hair, however, does not have to be dry, so buy products to define it, fighting frizz. The length should not exceed the middle of the back, otherwise they will look poorly groomed.
- Guys: keep your hair in order. If you happen to have unruly wisps, it's best to keep them short to cultivate a sophisticated look. Don't let them go over your shoulders, even if you think long hair looks good on you.
- Both genders: Don't dye your hair unnatural colors or shades that are too bright. Here is a classic example: if you have a dark complexion, don't switch to blond, otherwise your look will look decidedly fake. And always comb them.
Step 13. Remember the classic good manners:
chew with your mouth closed and do not rest your elbows on the table.
Step 14. Be prepared for any eventuality
Bring extra cash with you. If you have a mobile phone, always make sure it is fully charged. You may have an emergency, and you will be forced to fend for yourself. You will be grateful for putting your phone in your backpack or purse.
Step 15. Mute your cell phone or other electronic gadgets when attending a social gathering
If you really need to respond to a text or phone call, apologize to the group and do it privately.
Advice
- Don't overdo your makeup: it should be discreet and suitable for your age.
- Put on a pleasant perfume or cologne. Again, don't overdo it!
- Black and gray are two simple but sophisticated colors. Tailored garments feature clean, elegant lines, but remember, they need to flatter you.
- Read books dedicated to different topics, so you will have a broad culture. Try reading the classics.
- Don't overdo the accessories and don't mix gold and silver.
- When you type on your computer, use a tool or program to do a spell check. Everyone makes mistakes.
- Browse the dictionaries and vocabularies of synonyms and antonyms to always learn new terms. If someone uses a word you don't know, go find it.
