Guys are attracted not to just one type of woman, but to all beautiful girls, whatever their features and shapes. While your appearance may catch someone's attention, only your beaming smile, self-confidence, and generous heart will keep their interest alive.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Emphasize Your Beauty
Step 1. Wear clothes that you feel comfortable and confident in
A dress can make you extremely conscientious or boost your confidence. So, try to choose clothing that accentuates your best features, hides your flaws and fits you perfectly.
- For example, if you have a wasp waist, bring sweaters, sweaters, and tight dresses that make it stand out. If, on the other hand, you want to hide the central part of the body, wear a skirt, a blouse or a peplum dress (or adorned with a sort of drapery at the height of the belt).
- If you are not comfortable with a crop top (a short shirt that leaves part of the belly uncovered) or a low-cut dress, don't feel like you have to wear them.
Step 2. Emphasize facial features using beauty products
Make-up is an excellent ally to emphasize the natural features of the complexion, not to mask them. Try different products to find out which kind of makeup works best for your face.
- Try to make the skin of the face even and perfect, covering the defects with foundation and concealer.
- Enhance your eyes by creating natural shades with eyeshadow. To make it more penetrating, apply eyeliner to your eyes and mascara to your lashes.
- Give your cheeks a natural glow using blush, bronzer and highlighter.
- Complete your look with a shade of lip gloss or lipstick that matches your skin tone.
Step 3. Don't neglect your image
The small details, like having tidy nails and a glowing complexion, are able to attract the attention of the boys. So take the time to take care of your skin and hands.
- Take steps to cleanse, moisturize and exfoliate the skin.
- Protect it by applying sunscreen.
- Trim your nails, use the file to grace the shape and apply the nail polish.
Step 4. Use a particular perfume
Perfume is a powerful elixir. When you put it on, the guys will remember it and associate it with your person. So before you go out, spray some on your hair. When you meet a guy you like, move around letting your hair sway, so that it spreads slightly in his direction.
Step 5. Smile more often
Generally, boys and girls are more attracted to smiles than people who keep a frown. A smile also has the power to bring joy to you and those around you.
Laughter also makes people more attractive, because it lights up the face
Part 2 of 3: Discover Your Inner Beauty
Step 1. Get to know yourself better
When we are aware of ourselves, we have the opportunity to begin to accept ourselves for who we are and to feel more comfortable among others. Keeping a journal or blog is a great way to improve your self-awareness and to keep tabs on your personal growth. As you write, consider the following points:
- Recognize what you like and what you don't like.
- Establish your dreams.
- Identify if there are areas in your life that need to be improved.
Step 2. Accept your flaws
With the media bombarding us with their stereotypes of beauty, it is easy to forget that perfection is not attainable and that beauty does not correspond to perfection. Your flaws are what make you unique, so accept your imperfections and start using them to your advantage.
- Instead of focusing on the negative aspects of your appearance, appreciate the physical characteristics you love.
- Surround yourself with positive people who make you feel beautiful and loved.
Step 3. Do everything to be a positive, generous and enthusiastic person
Beauty goes beyond the external aspect: through your thoughts, your way of acting and the interests you nurture, it has the possibility of externalizing the person you are. You can enhance your inner beauty and external attraction by placing the needs and feelings of others above your own.
- Instead of judging others, appreciate them.
- Freely donate your time and energy to those who need your help.
- Be kind and generous to everyone you meet.
- Follow your passions: when you do something that makes you happy, you will touch the sky with your finger.
Step 4. Surround yourself with positive people
People in your life can have a huge impact on your self-esteem. If your friends and loved ones constantly criticize you, or scold themselves, you will have a hard time seeing yourself beautiful. Therefore, choose to spend your free time with someone who is able to increase your self-esteem, has a character that complements yours, does not judge you and is self-confident.
Part 3 of 3: Striking a Boy
Step 1. Become a body language expert
Non-verbal cues are a powerful form of communication. When flirting with someone, use your body language to let them know that you are available and interested in them.
- To show your willingness, keep your chest, torso and abdomen open. Avoid crossing your arms.
- To show that you deserve trust, keep your hands in sight. Don't hide them in your pocket or under the table.
- To express your sensuality, expose your neck. Tilt your head back slightly when you laugh.
- To get or keep the attention of the guy in front of you, touch him on the arm. Physical contact puts into circulation hormones capable of getting you in tune with those around you.
Step 2. Engage him in a deeper interaction
To establish a genuine bond with a guy, conversations need to go beyond simple small talk and touch on more important topics. So, as you talk, don't be afraid to show yourself vulnerable: share your interests, show your clumsy side, and tell him about your fears.
- When people talk about their passions, they become enlightened, they are more enthusiastic and immediately become more attractive in the eyes of others. Furthermore, they unconsciously associate these positive feelings with those in front of them.
- Make eye contact with the guy you like while having a conversation. This way you will not only let him know that you are listening to him, but you will also be able to exert a stronger attraction.
- Appreciate something that is clearly important to him, such as his determination to be a brilliant student or make a name for himself in a sport.
Step 3. Be precious
Clingy and overly helpful girls can be boring or overwhelming in the eyes of boys. The conquest of a mysterious girl, on the other hand, is often a pleasant challenge. Instead of giving up everything to spend your time with the guy you like, try to be deliberately elusive and vague from time to time. When he calls you, don't answer the phone right away; if he asks you out, tell him you're busy. If he's interested in you, he'll do anything to get your attention.
Step 4. Maintain your independence
Guys are fascinated by independent girls, so show them that you have goals to achieve and interests to nurture. Talk to him about school, explaining what your favorite subject is and why. Tell him your dreams, sharing the experiences you would like to have.
