If you want someone to look at you with the eyes of passion, learn to seduce. While it may seem complicated, some attention to detail and a few changes in body language can help you. Being seductive requires personality and the right approach in non-verbal communication. Therefore, make eye contact with the person you like and be gentle when you touch them in an attempt to make physical contact. Listen to what she says and make her feel special. As for clothing, choose clothes that flatter your figure and attract attention.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Using Body Language
Step 1. Make eye contact
The best way to seduce a person is to look them in the eye. If you want to impress, make eye contact with whoever you are trying to conquer and keep looking to get their attention.
- If he comes over to get acquainted, keep eye contact while you speak. People are attracted to those who pay attention to them. So, looking at your interlocutor, you will make him feel special and you will look very seductive.
- If you are not talking, just look at the person to be seduced for a few seconds. Don't give the impression that you are staring at her.
Step 2. Pay attention to the expression on your face
Some facial expressions are more seductive than others. When trying to get someone's attention, delicacy is the key to getting the right expression. Instead of grinning through toothy teeth, he hints at a smirk. You will be much more seductive if you look him in the eye and, at the same time, smile in an elusive way.
Step 3. Get into the right posture
Posture can convey involvement, an element of strong seduction. If you close your body by crossing your arms or looking away, you risk communicating detachment and indifference. Instead, try to keep an open posture to show your interlocutor that you care.
- If you start talking, stand in front of him.
- Remove your arms from your chest. Do not keep your bag or other bulky items on your lap.
- Lean forward slightly. Doing so will convey a clear interest in him, which will help you seduce him.
Step 4. Touch it gently
If your interlocutor seems to be flirting, try touching him lightly. Physical contact can awaken sexual desire. However, don't overdo it. It must be light and delicate.
- For example, lightly touch their arm or wrist as you speak.
- If you are seated, try touching his knee under the table.
Step 5. Use the right tone of voice
Pay attention to the tone you use when you speak. Make it pleasant and persuasive. Don't raise your voice and don't talk animatedly, or they may get nervous and lose interest in you.
Part 2 of 3: Developing the Right Personality
Step 1. Make people feel special
People become curious when someone expresses interest in them. Generally, they are more easily seduced by those who make them feel special and put them at ease. If you want to be seductive, learn to compliment and relax them.
- Show genuine interest in what others are doing. Ask a few questions, such as, "Is it interesting? What is it like to teach?"
- To make those in front of you feel unique and special, give them some compliments. For example, say, "You work hard at your job. I bet you put in a lot more effort than most of your colleagues."
- When giving a compliment, try to seduce with your body as well. In this way, you will be irresistible.
Step 2. Listen and respond
People are attracted to those who are willing to establish mutual understanding. When you try to seduce, listen to your interlocutor and, at the right moment, also talk about you. If you show yourself capable of opening up, you will exert much more charm.
- When talking to someone, use body language to show your attention. Nod, smile, and laugh at appropriate times. Repeat what he said every now and then to make sure you understand correctly.
- When you speak up, answer all the questions your interlocutor asks you. Be willing to talk about your work, friendships, life, and family. Do not monopolize the conversation, but create a climate of intimacy by openly talking.
Step 3. Smile and laugh
Sometimes, a nice smile and a laugh allow you to express all your seduction as you speak. Remember to smile in a slightly mysterious, almost elusive way. However, when faced with a joke, don't hesitate to be more expansive and give a good laugh. People will feel flattered seeing you laugh at their jokes.
Step 4. Make yourself wanted
A pinch of mystery helps to seduce. When you are meeting someone, try to be the first to end phone conversations, appointments and other encounters. If between the two you are the first to say goodbye, the other person will be tempted to look for you.
However, don't make fun of people. Only go away if you have a real reason. For example, if you're arriving late for an appointment, take it easy. Don't melt it just to seem elusive and increase your charisma, because you risk alienating the other person
Part 3 of 3: Choose Seductive Attire
Step 1. Wear clothes that flatter your figure
There is no single type of clothing capable of unleashing the sex appeal of each person. You will have to experiment to find a match that allows you to impress. Make several combinations before you find the most flattering one. A shirt, suit, suit, or pair of jeans may be fine for one person, but they will look inelegant on another person.
You want to choose something that highlights your best physical characteristics. For example, if you have very muscular arms, wear a short-sleeved shirt or a shirt with a button-down collar
Step 2. Go for a delicate lipstick
If you like lipsticks, the bolder ones risk having a counterproductive effect rather than helping to seduce. Lipstick can be a weapon of seduction, but try not to overdo it. Choose a soft pink or a bright or vibrant color.
Step 3. Choose a captivating scent
If you smell delicious, you can be tremendously seductive. So, choose a perfume or cologne with pleasant fragrances. Before you go outside, spray some on your wrists or behind your ears. A fresh and delicious scent can help you impress.
Make sure it's not too strong. Go for something delicate, like vanilla, instead of going for a more intense floral fragrance. Some people be bothered by strong smells
Step 4. Dress in red
People tend to be attracted to red. If you want to be seductive, try adding a hint of red to your outfit. Wear a suit or suit with an under-jacket of this color. Try a red blouse, shirt, or button-down shirt. Even a pair of red pants can make you more seductive.
Remember that even if it is an explosive shade in clothing, it can be excessive on the lips
Step 5. Make sure your hair is clean and shiny
There is no hairstyle that allows anyone to be irresistible. However, try to look attractive by taking care of your hair. Wash them before going out and use a small amount of mousse or gel to make them more shiny.
