Scorpio is the zodiac sign that runs from October 22nd to November 21st. Those born under this water sign are very intelligent, passionate and faithful. They are often emotional people, highly sexually charged, pretentious and love control; all factors that complicate relationships with them. Before you try to seduce a Scorpio, make sure you're ready for a wild adventure filled with passion, emotion and maybe a little jealousy.
Steps
Method 1 of 2: Seducing a Scorpio Man
Step 1. Start a good intellectual conversation
Scorpio men love to be intellectually involved in the topics they are passionate about. These kinds of discussions mentally excite them. Try to avoid the mundane chatter about the weather and keep his interest high.
- Maintain an upright posture and make eye contact with him;
- Talk about your profession with confidence;
- Try to focus the conversation on something that interests both of you;
- Some of the most suitable topics for a conversation with a Scorpio man are politics, social issues, current affairs, and the television programs he appreciates.
Step 2. Show confidence when interacting with him
Scorpio men are able to tell when people feel insecure and this is a trait they don't appreciate. They love to be in control, but they also admire people who know what they want, in specific situations and in life in general. Those born under this sign often attract more suitors, so you'll likely have some competition if you try to seduce one.
- Since they often prioritize their careers, they appreciate those who do the same and who are independent; just make sure your goals don't conflict with hers.
- Don't be too arrogant. If you adopt an unusually aggressive attitude, he will interpret it as a negative signal, because he will be able to understand that you are not being sincere.
Step 3. Wear sexy and provocative clothes
A Scorpio's libido is insatiable, so appealing to their physical desire is the perfect way to get their attention. The attraction he feels for you will increase in the course of your conversations if they are pleasant, especially if he does not have the opportunity to make direct contact. The longer he is visually stimulated, the higher his desire will rise.
- Wear dark red clothing, as this color has been proven to make women more attractive to men.
- Wear something snug, but not too short.
- Choose clothing that highlights your best shapes.
Step 4. Flirt openly and provoke him
Scorpio men are passionate and have a great sexual drive, so they love to flirt openly. By being playful and funny, you will attract a lot of attention from the guy you like and may persuade him to hunt you down. Make sure you are confident and don't give in to all of her pretensions. Try touching it gently, such as a pat on the arm, hand or back. Also remember not to reveal too much information about yourself right away. Make him work to get to know you better. Those born under this sign love to discover new things about people, so the more you stay on yours, the more he will chase you.
- In the beginning, tease him with words but don't go into physical acts. The cat and mouse game will excite him.
- Don't pay too many superficial compliments to a Scorpio, or they'll get suspicious.
- Flirt with him, but also remember to carry on the conversation.
- Don't look desperate or too aggressive. Let him invite you to his home.
Step 5. Act like you are the only man in the world
The best way to spend time with a Scorpio is to dance with them. Those born under this sign love attention and are notoriously jealous. When trying to seduce one, make sure he has your full attention. Don't mention past relationships and don't mention your male friends.
- If you see someone you know, say goodbye briefly, then go back to focusing only on Scorpio.
- Don't always look around. Keep your gaze fixed on him.
Step 6. Pamper him and move on to physical contact
Do not do anything that makes you uncomfortable, but consider that Scorpio men have a great sexual drive and love the feeling of physical passion. After provoking it and cultivating mental attraction, it's time to get down to business. Get close to him and let him control the situation, as those born under this sign often have dominant personalities. If he tries to kiss you or do more, satisfying his physical desires will definitely win him over.
- You should be able to figure out if he wants to go through the physical act before the end of the evening; if you notice his interest, go ahead.
- Since Scorpio men are aggressive and dominant, you make his desire rise for you and force him to have no choice but to want to be with you.
Method 2 of 2: Seducing a Scorpio Woman
Step 1. Be interesting and mysterious
Scorpio women are curious and love to solve puzzles. The more you pull back, the more she will want to know you. If you reveal too much information about yourself in a short time, you will quickly lose interest. Instead of talking too much, let him chase you - the more he finds out, the more he wants to know.
- Don't talk about something you are talented at. When the conversation turns to that topic, you can tell about your experiences and impress her positively.
- Be honest. Lying to a Scorpio woman is betraying her trust and is an offense she won't easily forget.
Step 2. Avoid digging into his past
Scorpio women are very reserved and don't like to be questioned about their past. You may even push them away by insisting too much on knowing a few details of their life. When you talk to a girl of this sign, let the conversation develop naturally and allow her to open up when she feels ready.
- Accusing her about her past could ruin your relationship with her.
- Try to keep the conversation going about the present and future aspirations, not past events.
Step 3. Let her be in control of her life and be patient
Scorpio women get mad when someone tells them what to do. If you want to conquer a girl of this sign, try not to make all the decisions and let her be independent. Likewise, she won't appreciate people rushing her, especially in intimacy and romantic relationships, so wait for her to feel comfortable.
- Don't let it control you. While Scorpio women love to lead, they also hate other people's weaknesses.
- Some girls of this sign avoid intimate contact in the beginning to see how willing you are to work for them.
Step 4. Tap it
Scorpio women have a great sexual drive and seek partners with the same characteristics. Don't be afraid to experiment with new things in the bedroom. A too conservative sex life can push them away, because intimacy is often key to them. Start with innocent contact, such as trying to hold her hand. You can also put your arm around it. If she doesn't like it, take a step back and let her be in control of the situation.
- Don't be pushy and don't expect anything. Let her develop an attraction to you and her desire will be insatiable.
- You don't have to go out of your comfort zone, but try new things that seem fun to you.
- Don't deny physical attention to your Scorpio partner. If you neglect it, it will have a negative effect on your relationship.
Step 5. Try to kiss her at the right time
If the conversation went well and you are in a secluded place, there's a good chance she wants to kiss you. Make sure you've already initiated contact, such as holding her hand or putting an arm around her shoulders. Wait a moment of silence and look her straight in the eye, bringing her face close to hers. If she comes too close and isn't looking down or away, try kissing her.
- NEVER try to kiss her if she hasn't given you signals that that's what she wants.
- It won't be as effective, but if you really have any doubts, you can ask her if she wants a kiss.
Warnings
- Seduction requires consent. Make sure the person you are trying to conquer reciprocates your feelings.
- Those born under the sign of Scorpio are very competitive and incredibly jealous.
- If the Scorpio person you have your eyes on rejects you, don't get down on yourself. You will meet someone more suitable for you.
- Try seducing a Scorpio man only on a date or if you convinced him to drive you home after meeting him.
