Taking revenge on a guy who has played with your feelings isn't easy. If he's a true Don Juan, used to breaking girls' hearts for years, revenge won't be easy to do without a plan. To have fun and make fun of him, here are the moves to study.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: In Love Who Flies Wins
Step 1. Ignore it at first:
you'll have to grab his attention. Do you think you have to flatter him, stroke his hair, or tell him he's sexy to attract him to you? Absolutely not. Start ignoring it. If you meet him at a party and he tries to impress all the girls, including you, pretend he's not there, stare at your drink or barely say hello before texting on your cell phone or going to the bathroom.
- He'll notice you just because you didn't notice him. Don Juan expect to be worshiped by every woman, so she will wonder why her magic doesn't work on you.
- You don't have to be rude to him or insult him, show yourself totally uninterested, like you have better things to do.
Step 2. You barely recognize it
After a few weeks or hours after the party, you can start to open up slightly. You should let him know that you have noticed, but only to make him curious. Introduce yourself, repeat his name when he says it to you as if it were the first time you hear him or smile at him from the other side of the room.
- Don't laugh at his jokes and don't let him invite you to dance or win you over with his compliments.
- If he insists on offering you a drink, you can let him, but don't succumb to his charm. Grab the drink, thank him and leave.
Step 3. Let me see how you have fun with other girls
Now that you have his attention and have shown some interest in him, you need to let him know that you have better things to do than be with him. Laugh with your friends and dance.
You can do this anywhere, not just in a bar. If this guy is your schoolmate or lives in the same city as you, you can be seen around while you have fun during your lunch break or shopping. One thing must be clear to him: you don't need him
Step 4. Let me see you dating other guys to reiterate the previous concept
Whether your friends or kids are interested in you, the idea is to let them know that everyone loves being in your company and that you like to receive lots of attention.
- Just chatting or laughing with other guys will make them understand that you don't need him. You won't have to kiss passionately the first one that comes along.
- Don't check if the player is watching you. It shouldn't even consider the possibility that you are using a tactic.
Step 5. Flirt a little
After ignoring him and driving him crazy, flirt with him to make him fall at your feet and show him that maybe (but maybe!) You might be a little interested in him.
- Be casual. Don't compliment him. You just have to let him know that you enjoy talking to him.
- Keep the atmosphere light and fun - he'll be looking forward to talking to you again.
- Make fun of him. Don't let him take himself too seriously.
Step 6. Stay immune to its enchantment
He'll need to understand that while you enjoy flirting with him, his usual tactics won't have any effect on you. You can tease him or make a few jokes about the fact that he has so many "girlfriends". You will drive him crazy and you will prove to him that you are truly different from the others.
If you don't allow him to charm you, he will become more insistent
Method 2 of 3: Get him to want you
Step 1. Be mysterious
It continues to be elusive. Don't open up too much, don't talk about your past, your hopes for the future or your biggest fears. Get him to ask questions about you. In the meantime, it just throws some clues about you, but you don't have to be completely honest.
- If you are talking to him and you need to leave, don't tell him what to do. Let me guess.
- Let him find out who you are and what you like. He will have to work hard to get information.
- Don't tell him about your schedule. If you're busy this weekend, you don't have to specify that you've been invited to your Aunt Maria's 50th birthday party.
Step 2. Be funny
Many guys use this Don Juan attitude because they're tired of girls falling in love or wanting serious boyfriends. You will need to look different, spontaneous and ready for anything, from swimming naked in the sea at midnight to running in the rain.
- Think lightness and freshness. Remember you are trying to make fun of this guy, you don't want to marry him.
- Talk about the fun things you're going to do today or this week, stick to the present. This person does not belong to your future.
- Laugh, don't cry. He shouldn't see your insecurities or what upsets you.
Step 3. Make him jealous
While spending more time together, the Don Juan shouldn't think he has won your heart. If you run into a guy you know, flirt with him. If you are going to date someone else, tell him about it. Knowing that your life is full of male connections, he will want to win you over and beat the competition.
- To make him truly jealous, you can also pretend that you are on a date with someone else.
- If a guy calls you when you are with the Don Juan, please answer. Joke and flirt with him.
Step 4. Don't be jealous
And you don't even have to let him know you care. If you see him with someone else or if he receives a text message, remain impassive. This type of seducers enjoy knowing they are contended and flirting with various women who are unaware of their true nature, so don't be like everyone else. If he becomes aware of your jealousy, he will try to exasperate it.
- If you are not jealous, he will consider you different from everyone else.
- If someone calls him or sends him a message, don't ask him worriedly “Who is it?”. Try to appear bored or disinterested while talking on the phone.
- If you meet a girl he knows, be particularly nice to her. Show him that you are not afraid of his competition.
Step 5. Limit your communication
The Don Juan receive a myriad of phone calls and messages from the others. Always to stand out, just call or text him every now and then, let him get in touch with you. If he calls you, don't answer right away as if you have nothing better to do than wait for his call.
- Don't waste time looking at his Facebook profile. Do other things online.
- If you know he's out, don't text him and don't call him, or he'll think you're obsessed with him.
- If he knows you went out and texts you, reply the next day. Let him worry.
Step 6. Maintain your independence
It is important to limit communication exchanges. You should have a busy life, friends and even a few guys to see. Your existence will not have to revolve around him. Let him change his plans to match yours.
- If you cancel an appointment, don't let me reschedule it for the next day. Say you have already been "booked" for the days to come. He has to understand that he lost so much for standing you up, and he won't do it again.
- When you are with him, talk about your friends, about all the pleasant things you do that are not about him. Your life is great even without him.
Step 7. Defeat him at his game (optional)
If you want to win, you have to be better than him. Tell him you like it while flirting with two or three other guys. Flatter him and make him feel special while knowing that your words have no meaning. Either way, this only needs to be done to beat it - it doesn't become an integral part of your lifestyle.
Method 3 of 3: Push it away
Step 1. After showing yourself mysterious, sexy and independent, he will have fallen at your feet
Perhaps he is even obsessed with wanting to win you over and your immunity to his charm.
- When this time comes, you will understand. He will always call you, he will give you lots of compliments, he will be jealous of you and everything you do, he will always want to be with you.
- You will also notice a different look. If he was distracted at first, now he's just staring at you.
Step 2. The time has come to say goodbye
You will have to do it at the peak of his interest. If you do it first, all of this will slip right over him.
- You can always say goodbye when you get tired of playing. In fact it is a lot of work.
- If he gets attached to you and says he loves you, and seems sincere, walk away right away.
- If you wait too long before walking away, you risk starting to have feelings for him. Don't forget that you will have to protect yourself.
Step 3. Get away for good
You don't have to confess your strategy, but tell him that you are tired of him, that you have better things to do or that you don't like him. You don't have to think about it too much or take him out to dinner to end the relationship. Tell him about it at a convenient time for you.
If you really want to hurt him, start letting him see you in shady attitudes with another guy. Pretend to be surprised or embarrassed when you "realize" that the Don Juan was looking at you
Step 4. Have no mercy
Your decision is final. If he's hurt you or a friend of yours in the past, you've long since realized this guy doesn't respect women. So why should you respect him?
- If you give in to the urge to see him again, he won't respect you. If he's a true Don Juan, he'll only want you if you don't want him too much.
- Defeated a Don Juan at his own game, be more careful in the future and take cover from these guys.
- Stay humble. Don't get mad. This game is sure to boost your self-esteem - you will start to think you could hook any guy - but the situation can turn around at any moment and you could end up in the network of some other dude who knows this game better than you.
Advice
- Start dieting and playing sports if you don't have these habits yet. You will see and feel better, so you will be more confident and attract the opposite sex. The Don Juan will get jealous or will want to conquer you.
- Don't answer all his phone calls. Call him back a day or two later, so you can let him know that he has no control over you. When he asks why you didn't speak up earlier, tell him you were entertaining a friend.
- Be positive and don't get down on yourself. Remember that you are doing all of this to heal or to make fun of him and that, as this process is complicated, the result is not immediate.
- Maintain a very healthy dose of self-esteem.
- If you feel you are not successful, perhaps you need to change your approach to the situation. Your plan can develop over a few days, weeks or months.
Warnings
- The key to this is that you are USING this person. Don't let your mind cloud over remembering your illusions about him.
- Do not think that the Don Juan cares about you or that he loves you. This person is not sincere. He cares about you because you are one of his sources of entertainment. So separate your heart from your interactions with him.
- Don't spend too much time with him.
- If you have sex with this person, be careful. A woman who sleeps with many girls may have contracted a sexually transmitted disease.
- Don't spend your time exclusively with him. Show him that you have lots of friends and other suitors to make him understand that your time is not monopolized by him.
