If you are in fifth grade and need tips to be popular, read this article!
Steps
Step 1. Dress in an original way
Be the trendsetter of the school. Bring casual but cute clothing from brands like Under Armor, Nike, Aeropostale, Abercrombie, Hollister, Gap, North Face (especially jackets). Uggs (you can find new ones on eBay for a good price) and skinny jeans are a must. Make sure you match your clothes, avoid crazy color combinations.
Step 2. Find out about the most popular sports among your peers
As soon as you spot one that interests you, start training right away. You may not get great overnight, but you can improve over time. Usually, in the fifth grade, popular girls are very flexible. Try cheerleading.
Step 3. Play sports
Playing sports is also ideal for dedicating yourself to an activity that goes beyond school and home. You have to work hard, but that's not all. Choose a sport that interests you, whether it's swimming, rhythmic gymnastics or football.
Step 4. Do not copy any
Be yourself!
Step 5. Maintain good personal hygiene
Nobody likes dirty hair and armpits and feet that give off bad smells. Instead:
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Shower often (especially in the gym) and bathe (especially at home).
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Use the gloss.
- Use deodorant.
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Always carry a packet of tissues with you, in your pocket or backpack. You definitely don't want to be in a runny nose situation and you won't have anything to control it besides your fingers. When you take out a handkerchief, you will give the impression that you are a neat person (and that's cool).
Step 6. React calmly to embarrassing situations
Let's take an example. You are at the cafeteria and you are carrying the lunch tray. You drop a napkin and your fork falls when you reach down to pick it up. Once you get up, you run into a classmate of yours, spilling water and pizza on yourself. Don't run away to throw everything away and take refuge in the bathroom. Have a laugh. The embarrassment will go away on its own. You must always give the impression that your life is perfect the way it is. But don't laugh too much, or they'll think you're weird.
Step 7. Do not murmur or shout
Never speak too loudly or too quietly. Make sure you always move your lips sharply.
Step 8. Do not follow anyone, otherwise you will always look for a leader to refer to, even when you are older
If you admire a cool person and have something in common, talk to them. Once she gets to know her better, walk away, she will probably be fascinated by you. Never say: "Oh, where did you buy these pants?", "Oh my God, I have the same shirt!".
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Never depend on popular girls.
Step 9. Don't be on anyone's side
If some girls are fighting, stay away. By taking a stand, you could end up in trouble.
Don't gossip. This will only prove that you are childish. Cool girls don't behave this way. But, if a situation arises where you have to tell an adult that something is wrong, take action. There is a big difference between snitching and doing the right thing
Step 10. Organize parties at your home
Always be an impeccable host. At a sleepover, you can offer popcorn, movies, games like Truth or Dare, and dance music. However, don't throw too many parties and don't send out too many invitations if you know that only two girls will be able to come. Otherwise, you risk looking unpopular.
Step 11. Don't spend time alone with a group
Small groups usually behave badly towards those who are not part of them, and therefore you will have less chance of making friends with other people.
- Keep in mind that if you can do something interesting (like a back flip), you will become popular because others will want to learn from you!
- Practice different activities to meet new people, in order to have friends in various places.
Step 12. Do your homework
Studying will allow you to lay an excellent foundation for the future. Also, if you do well in school, your parents will allow you to do other things. It is not pleasant to go to class without having done your homework, you will feel embarrassed.
Step 13. Take part in numerous activities
For example, after you've found a sport you like, play it and get noticed. But you don't have to appear desperate for attention, but rather relaxed.
Step 14. Behave in a sophisticated way
Don't act without giving importance to the rules. You have to look mature. If you are always unruly, people will feel annoyed by this attitude and nobody will like you. You don't have to be too serious either, or they'll think you're boring and no one will attend your parties. Find a balance.
Step 15. Buy a cute phone case
Enter a password so no one will peek at your personal stuff, like text messages.
- Try to listen to a good variety of cool music, such as Trapped Under Ice, Jay Sean, Black Eyed Peas or any other popular band in your school (make sure you have songs from different artists and lots of songs!). If you only have 10 songs on your mobile, you won't seem like a music lover.
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Add as many people as you want on your social networks and use popular apps, like YoVille, MyFish, etc. Also, download an app that allows you to send online tickets or other stuff to your friends. As a profile photo, insert a nice, recent one. Don't give too much away or try to look older, there are maniacs online looking for little girls. You can be cool without looking desperate for attention with heavy makeup or flirty clothes. Also, just add your friends. Your password shouldn't be easy to find out, for example don't use your first name, last name or name of your best friend.
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If they send you a nasty email or message, just ignore it. While bothering you, don't reply and block the person who sent it.
Step 16. Try to have a best friend and lots of friends
You don't just have to get close to popular people to be cool, you have to have friends who are different from each other.
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Don't befriend unsympathetic girls. Ignore them if they behave badly towards you. What do you care?
Step 17. Make sure you believe in yourself
Girls like having a self-confident best friend. If they insult you, respond witty or look at these people in a funny way and walk away.
Advice
- Never disappoint a person who counts on you.
- Stand up for bullied people. Stand up for yourself, and you could make new friends.
- Don't try to humiliate others, you won't make a good impression.
- Always be up to date with what is happening at school on a social level.
- In winter, wear leggings under shorts and combine them with a nice sweater. It is a very nice outfit!
- Don't copy other girls, under any circumstances.
Warnings
- Remember that just because you're popular doesn't mean everyone will like you.
- Don't be nasty, this won't help you have more friends, on the contrary, you'll lose some, so be careful.