Whether it's a new engagement or a long-lasting relationship, every woman wants her man to be thoughtful and attracted to him. As relationships evolve and change, it is normal for the once-crazy passion to wane or express itself in different ways. Sure your boyfriend loves you and wants to be with you, but you can still make him lose his mind. You need to make sure he feels wanted and also encourage this passion by trying to be a pleasant and charming companion.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Make It Feel Wanted
Step 1. Compliment him
With this strategy, you will be able to make him feel loved and appreciated. You can show him that you accept him as he is and that you like everything he says and does. So, congratulate him when he gets a big hit, but also compliment him on the smallest things. For example, you could tell him:
- "How nice! It was an incredible kiss."
- "You looked so sexy and manly while you were mowing the grass."
- "You played a great game today. It's so exciting to watch you."
Step 2. Look him in the eye
Eye contact is an effective way to communicate interest without speaking. When you like someone, you are more likely to look them in the eye. Show your boyfriend that you love and accept him by using this technique. If he reciprocates how you feel about him, he won't hesitate to do the same.
Step 3. Kiss him passionately
Kissing allows you to gauge how much transport there is from your boyfriend, so it's very important. Plus, it can fuel the attraction and passion he feels towards you. To kiss well, keep in mind a few things:
- It is normal to leave with your mouth closed and move on to a more passionate kiss, as long as the atmosphere allows.
- Make sure you have clean teeth and fresh breath before approaching.
- Focus exclusively on your boyfriend when you kiss him. If you get distracted, the passion of the moment may die out.
- Try touching the back of his head or neck or stroking his arm while you kiss him. Physical contact will allow you to build momentum.
Step 4. Surprise him
Nothing helps arouse or rekindle passion like a pinch of naturalness and spontaneity. This way, you can break the routine and show your man you're crazy about him, making him lose his mind over you. So if you flirt and enjoy every moment, he'll always be thrilled to be around you. Here are some ideas to consider:
- If you get a flat tire in the rain, don't sit in the car waiting for it to be fixed. Jump out of the car and start dancing with him on the street.
- If you normally watch his favorite team's games at home, surprise him with a couple of tickets to the stadium or take him to a restaurant with a projector to watch the game.
- Choose a sexy character and play the part for an entire evening.
Step 5. Encourage him
To ignite the spark of desire in your partner, you need to encourage them to be comfortable with themselves. Encourage him to achieve his goals as if you were encouraging a friend. Tell him that you will stay close to him and support him.
For example, if he's worried about a job interview, you can cheer him up by saying, "You'll be great! They wouldn't have called you if they didn't think you were a great choice for this job!"
Part 2 of 3: Being a Desirable Companion
Step 1. Believe in yourself
Self-confidence is a very sexy quality for most people, so don't hesitate to be confident when you are with your boyfriend. For example, you could tell about the goals you have achieved and acknowledge your strengths.
Keep in mind that some people feel a little intimidated by overconfident people. If your boyfriend has low self-esteem, such behavior risks inhibiting his desire for you
Step 2. Talk about yourself
By trusting something in your life, you will have the opportunity to nurture how he feels about you. Tell him about everything, including your interests, your goals, and your family. However, be careful not to unbutton too much too soon. By maintaining a little secrecy about certain aspects, you will add an aura of mystery to your relationship and, as a result, you can increase his interest in you.
Step 3. Pay attention to what he is attracted to
There are probably certain things that appeal to him, so be careful when he tells you you're sexy. Maybe she loves lingerie outfits or sees you more flirtatious in a tracksuit after a workout. Here are some things to consider:
- Put on makeup. It has been shown that some men find women with makeup eyes more attractive. So, try applying eyeliner, eyeshadow, and mascara when you go out with him.
- Use fragrance-free or lightly scented products. It is important for your boyfriend to be able to perceive your natural body odor. In this way, the attraction he feels towards you may increase. Try using neutral deodorant and bath products so that she can smell the natural scent of your skin.
- Wear red clothing. One study found that men are more attracted to red than any other color. So, put on a red suit or sweater on a date with your boyfriend and find out what happens.
Step 4. Spend your moments together in a light and fun way
In addition to being sexy and desirable, to drive your boyfriend crazy you need to be carefree. If you want him to want your company, let him know that you are someone who is ready to have fun. You don't have to pretend to be different than you are, but know that there are many ways to have fun. Here are some ideas:
- Suggest that he go on a mountain hike and challenge him to get as high as possible. A nice and fun competition will help you to create a particular understanding and will make you much more interesting in his eyes.
- Take him and his friends to a sports match and leave everyone impressed with your knowledge of the game.
- Play truth or dare and show him that you can be silly and funny.
Part 3 of 3: Increase Your Desire
Step 1. Stay close to him
Proximity has been found to increase a couple's feelings. In other words, the more you see someone, the more likely you are to like them. To make it work for you, try talking to him before he enters the classroom, suggest that he study together, or think of other ways to meet him more often.
Step 2. Respect their personal spaces and enjoy yours
To make your boyfriend lose his mind, you need to give him the option not to be with you all the time. Often the passion and the initial spark diminish due to habit. So, try to make him miss you and, at the same time, let him know that he is not your only source of happiness.
Go out one night a week with other girlfriends and encourage him to do the same with his friends
Step 3. Imitate his movements
In this way, the attraction he feels towards you may increase. For this strategy to be effective, try to imitate his attitudes from time to time. For example, if she adjusts to her chair and leans on her right hand, wait a few seconds and do the same. Make sure you use your left hand in a posture that mirrors his.
Be gentle. Often, we imitate the movements of others in a completely unconscious way, so it is important that the gestures are not too obvious, otherwise they may seem strange
Step 4. Be precious
Even if you are already engaged, you can make your boyfriend continue to feel a strong transport towards you by making him want you. Here are some easy ways to get tough:
- Wait 15 minutes before replying to a non-urgent text message or avoid answering his phone calls from time to time.
- Asking to change plans when she invites you out and you're already busy.
- Refuse to kiss him every now and then.
Advice
- Always stay true to yourself. If you find that you are faking your boyfriend, it may be that you are no longer compatible. Find someone who goes crazy for you when you are yourself.
- Don't put yourself in situations where you feel uncomfortable with your boyfriend. You don't have to do things you don't want to do or don't feel ready for.
