If you are bisexual or lesbian and have a crush on a girl, in this article you will find several tips on how to move forward. Before we begin, the term "bisexual" can have different meanings depending on the individual. Some bisexual people are attracted to both men and women, while others have both binary and non-binary genders. To avoid offending her, make sure you understand what definitions she gives to various types of sexual orientation.
Steps
Step 1. See if you are interested in any girls at school or at work
If you've never had an interest in girls, it's possible you aren't bisexual or lesbian. If you are straight, don't force yourself to be attracted to a woman! You can give it a try, but it is unlikely to be successful, as it is impossible to choose who to feel attracted to. If you already like a girl, skip this step
Step 2. Get to know it
Unless you already have a close relationship, get to know her and try to make friends
Step 3. Flirt discreetly, without arousing suspicion
Smile and laugh quietly, make her laugh. If you can make friends with her, you might have a chance with her.
Step 4. Ask her if she likes girls
If you've gotten to know her, ask her if she's bisexual or lesbian. If you think she still doesn't trust you, don't ask her personal questions. Try to gain his trust first. How to do? You could tell her a secret. You don't necessarily have to share your innermost secret, choose one that you can tell without any particular embarrassment
Step 5. Invite her to go out with you
When two people like each other it's normal to go out together! If you consider her your best friend, offer her an informal outing, like going for a coffee or going for a walk downtown. Find out about her interests first, so you can take her to a place that matches her preferences
Step 6. Ask for her phone number
To strengthen the friendship, you should have the option to call or text her.
Step 7. Look for it on social networks
Whether it's Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat or Instagram, ask her to add / follow you on a social network to get to know her better
Step 8. If she is a true friend, confess your feelings to her
Do not be afraid.
Advice
- Accept people regardless of their sexual orientation, whether they are asexual, pansexual, transsexual, transgender, bisexual, homosexual or heterosexual.
- Be gentle.
- If women don't appeal to you, don't force yourself to like them.
- Understand the various types of sexual orientation. Bisexuals feel attracted to the male gender and the female gender. Homosexuals feel attracted to the same gender. Heterosexuals like the opposite gender. Asexuals don't feel any kind of sexual attraction. Pansexuals feel attracted to people for who they are, regardless of gender. Transgender people feel they are not of the sex assigned at birth, but of the opposite sex. Transsexuals are transgender people who decide to intervene to make a transition to the sex they feel they belong to.
- Treat yourself, wash your face, don't neglect oral hygiene, take a shower, style your hair, put on your make-up attempt).
- If you like an asexual girl, you can still be reciprocated. An asexual person can fall in love.
Warnings
- Romantic orientation can differ from sexual orientation. Remember that it is possible to fall in love only with men and feel attraction only towards women. If you're planning on having a long-term relationship with someone, make sure you know their romantic orientation.
- If the girl you like doesn't belong to the LGBT (Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transsexual) community, don't try to impress her, as she may not like women. If you think a girl isn't right for you, don't force yourself to like her or spend time with her.
