If you've found the love of your life and intend to spend the rest of your life with him, maybe it's time to get married. However, you live in the United States and don't know how to seal your union in court. So, this article is for you.
Steps
Step 1. Go to the local court and register to receive the marriage license
It will cost you a small tax that varies from state to state (for example, in Nebraska it is $ 15). If you are planning to get married in court, you need to choose a judge and a date and there is a fee for that too (for example, in Nebraska it can range from $ 50 to $ 100). The issuance of the marriage license can last from half an hour to two weeks, but it also depends on the state in which you request it.
Step 2. Once you have received your marriage license and have arranged for the judge, date and court, you also need to get two witnesses
They must be adults, i.e. over the legal age of 18.
Step 3. Purchase the wedding rings if you wish
Step 4. Once the legalities are in place, arrange the pleasant ones
What are you going to wear? Remember that it is a day that will last forever, even if you plan to wear your most beautiful dress or go to the store and find something at an affordable price that will make you feel gorgeous. Maybe you do a manicure and style your hair, even if it's a friend or family member doing it: it's your day and you have the right to feel special.
Step 5. Organize the flowers and photos
Flowers always give a special touch to everything. Any choice will work regardless of the price: you can order a particular bouquet, choose your favorite roses, make a bouquet with a ribbon and the flowers from your garden. Also, make sure you have at least one person next to you to take some photos on this special day.
Advice
- Don't forget the important things: where will you go? Perhaps, to eat out with those who have shared this extraordinary moment with you. Maybe a nice romantic dinner at home or a picnic in the park. If you can afford it, a night at the hotel can add some fun.
- If you don't live in the United States, beware of the practicalities of court marriage. The above steps are not universally valid.
- Treat yourself to something, maybe some massage oils, a bottle of wine, champagne or chocolate. No court wedding in the US is complete without one of them, at least in the opinion of some.
- Ask the guests to observe the respect to turn off their cell phones during the ceremony.
Warnings
- Don't skimp on the reception because you have little money. You can always gather friends and family at your favorite café, have a nice outdoor barbecue or a picnic in a park. If you don't intend to celebrate now, you can always organize a reception later - even a year later.
- Make sure you marry with love and joy in your heart and appeal to the affection and happiness that characterize this day even in difficult times. Remember to cherish, support and be guided by these feelings in times of need. Congratulations and may your marriage be filled with everlasting love and happiness!
