You have been chosen as a witness of the groom: in addition to the responsibility of keeping the rings, and making sure that the groom arrives on time at the altar, it will be up to you to organize the bachelor party! If you are not sure how to do it, don't worry, the information you will find here may be of help.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Decide What Your Stag Party Will Look Like
Step 1. Prepare a list of possible activities
The groom chose you as his best man because he knows you know him better than anyone else. Think about his personality, his tastes. In your list you can include activities such as golf, a dinner out, a night on the town, a camping trip, a weekend of wild fun, a party at your home or in a rented room, etc
Step 2. Collaborate with the groom in decisions, try to combine his tastes with your possibilities
When making decisions, remember that organizing the night is your job, so think about something that is within your budget and within your means. Remember, however, that the bachelor party is dedicated to the groom, so make sure he can meet (and even exceed) his expectations
Step 3. Decide the tone of the evening
Discuss seriously with the groom before starting the organization of the bachelor party. Make sure you know what they might like and what they don't. If he doesn't like a good night with a final stop at a strip club, then it will be up to you to make it clear to all the other attendees
Method 2 of 3: Plan and Plan the Bachelor Party
Step 1. Prepare the guest list
- The guest list should include the groomsmen, school friends, colleagues, any relatives of the bride the groom may wish to invite, her male relatives, and possibly the father, if he deems it appropriate.
- Before finalizing the list, get the groom's approval.
Step 2. Choose a date that suits both you and the spouse and set the bachelor party
Step 3. Send out the invitations
In the invitations, be sure to indicate where and when it will take place, and specify that you need to confirm participation
Step 4. Book
- When you have the list of confirmed participants, book the services or spaces you have chosen for the evening. If it is a rather large group you will need to book well in advance. If you have thought about including more activities such as golf, dinner out or camping, try to organize the sequence of events as well as possible and confirm the booking of each.
- If you are thinking of a night on the town, you could add the rental of a vehicle with a driver, so that no one has to drive. Book everything in advance.
Method 3 of 3: Make it a Memorable Night
Step 1. Organize a collection so that everyone can contribute to the groom's special evening
