Sending hot messages is the perfect way to intrigue a person you like and move to the next level of intimacy - as long as you send them to the right subject at the right time. If you want to find out how to write hot text to excite someone, read the following steps.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Starting a Hot Message Exchange
Step 1. Probe the terrain
The person you have been dating for months may not feel comfortable with this type of communication. For this reason, it is important to understand how you feel before sending a message that is too explicit and impertinent. Start with a greeting like "Hey, sexy" and see how she reacts.
- If you're not too outspoken right away, you can deny your attempt to hot message if this person gets angry or accuses you of doing so.
- Start with a simple sexual innuendo. If you stick to a simple "How are you?", It will be harder to warm the mood, so it's best to start with the right tone so the other person knows what to expect.
- You can say "I'm bored. A little excitement wouldn't hurt me …".
- Also try: "I was watching a movie and an actress looked a lot like you. She was really sexy, but never as sexy as you."
Step 2. Wait for him to respond in kind
If her reaction is what you expect, take the ball and increase the sexy level of the messages, but gradually. Try to be patient in the exchange. If after a while you notice that the conversation is not progressing according to your plans, you may lose inspiration, so put it off for another day.
- Don't keep sending hot messages if you don't get a reply. If this person finds a series of hot text messages on their cell phone, they may feel embarrassed.
- Also, if he doesn't seem in the mood, don't insist. Quickly apologize and get on with your day. You have no reason to make a fuss of it.
Method 2 of 3: Carry the Conversation Forward
Step 1. If he reacted well, make the messages more explicit
You can even start suggesting that you want to meet her to turn words into action. If, for example, the girl you're texting with tells you she's in a sex education class at school, you can ask her if you can go to her for some hands-on demonstration. Here's how to up the ante:
- "Wait, get dressed and run to you."
- "It's hot in here. Better take off my shirt."
- "What are you wearing to sleep? It's hot tonight."
- "What if I did what I told you?".
- "Can you guess the color of my underwear?".
Step 2. If he responds favorably and seems to want to continue this dialogue in person, continue to raise your tone
You can propose to meet you or tell her that you are stroking your body or taking off your clothes.
- "I took off all my clothes. Now I'm naked under the sheets."
- "I can't write anymore. I prefer to close my eyes and imagine you here."
- "What would you do to me if you were here with me?".
- "It's cold in here. Why don't you come and warm me?"
- "Sorry if I don't answer you right away. My hands are a little busy."
Step 3. Be creative
If the atmosphere gets hotter, you can continue until you masturbate alone or plan a date. Whatever happens, add a little imagination and creativity to your texting so that the other person doesn't get bored. Try to be as detailed and descriptive as possible and respond quickly to let her know she has your full attention. Here's what you might tell her:
- "If I were here, I would start stroking your hair, and then move on to something else …".
- "I'm so excited I can't even write."
- "I'm wearing a tight shirt. Do you want me to take it off for you?".
- "I'm taking off your belt, I'm thinking of using it as a whip …".
- "I just got out of the shower and I'm completely wet. Do you have a towel?".
Method 3 of 3: Happy Ending
Step 1. If your trade is moving in the right direction, you will end up undressing and touching yourself
This activity can be fun and challenging if you are both involved. Tell yourself what you would do and how you are touching yourself.
- All you have to do is forget about inhibitions and continue with hot messages until both of you orgasm.
- You can write: "I want you [verb] on [body part]". This can make the experience feel more real.
- Tell the other person what feelings you feel, describe them in detail, even if they were about the toes.
Step 2. Arrange a meeting
Exchanging these messages is fun, but so is dating in person. If the spicy conversation is heading in the right direction, then you can invite her over to your house and be even more explicit. Here are some ideas about what you might tell her:
- "I'm imagining you touching yourself, but I'd rather see you in person."
- "Why don't you come to me? I want to see if you're as good as I think."
- "I guessed the color of your underwear. But how do I know if I'm right?".
- "Why don't we continue facing each other? I don't want to use my hands to write anymore."
- "Can I come to you? I'm nearby."
Step 3. End the conversation
When you're done messaging, you need to be delicate, regardless of whether you've decided to meet or whether you've both got what you want. Sometimes it is necessary to interrupt the conversation, even if you are having fun, just because it is time to do it. In any case, you have to be nice and keep a sexy tone until the end.
- Don't just write "Hello!" or "See you!", but: "I can't wait to exchange more messages of this type with you". Leave her wanting to talk to you again soon.
- Don't start another topic. For example, do not write "By the way, are you going to Chiara's birthday tomorrow?". You will ask this question at another time.
- If you are ending the conversation to visit her, write to her: "I can't wait to continue live."
Advice
- Generally, girls prefer sensual and romantic messages, while boys prefer words.
- Through texting it is difficult to express your tone, so if this person gets offended, you can always tell them you were joking.
- You can test the waters by sending a normal message, but capable of arousing hot thoughts, such as "I'm eating a lollipop."
- Pick the right time. As much as this person loves to exchange such types of messages, you should send them when they are free. If she is working or taking an exam, she will not be receptive to your advances. Also, if you want texting to lead you into personal contact, you should make sure he has nothing important to do. It is usually best to do this in the evening or at night when the other person is alone, bored, and thinking about you. By the way, this moment is even sexier.
- Send messages to the right person. If you just met her or she gave you her number the night before, don't text her, especially if you like her and would like to have a relationship with her. Also, you will need to make sure she likes this type of communication, to avoid shocking her. You can start sending them to the person you date or to someone who is very sexually explicit and who says they are ready for anything.
Warnings
- Start slowly, don't scare her; always tests his mood.
- Remember that messages can be saved and used for blackmail. Don't text those you don't like and those you don't know well. Among other things, they can lose their mobile phone and anyone could read the messages.
- Pay attention to jokes. Everyone can pretend to be someone else via text message. If you don't know the person you're messaging with and from their description of themselves they seem very sexy, it's probably a joke.
