Geminis are curious, talkative, versatile and mentally active people. They always love to move in pairs, hand in hand, symbolizing their dual nature. While Geminis are active and fun people to date, they have two important weaknesses: they talk all the time and are always distracted. Don't worry though, this article will teach you how to get a Gemini without difficulty.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Knowing What To Do
Step 1. Listen and have a conversation
Being talkative by nature, Geminis love to talk. If you don't listen, talk, and interrupt often, you could make the other person believe that you are not interested or that you don't care about them. Don't worry too much about finding a topic of conversation - Geminis are creative people and they almost always know what to talk about.
- Geminis are curious and love to learn. If you are an expert on any subject, don't hesitate to share what you know. You will make a good impression on them.
- Geminis love to argue. They don't fight; they simply try to look at things from a different point of view and sharpen their mind.
- Geminis are known for their excellent communication skills. If you are experiencing problems in your relationship, don't hide them; rather, try to discuss it.
Step 2. Bring new elements into the relationship to keep the relationship interesting
Geminis love to be active and try new things. If you are dating someone born under that sign, be prepared to face new experiences. For example, when planning a date, try to find a different place to go to dinner each time.
If your partner really enjoys an activity, don't think it's the only thing you will do; he may decide to try something completely different next time you meet
Step 3. Be patient when she is indecisive or has mood swings
In some cases, dating a Gemini can give you the impression that you know two different people. It shouldn't come as a surprise; those born under this sign are represented by twins! A Gemini can be happy at one point and become grumpy and irritable the next.
When a Gemini is irritable, don't take it as a personal offense. Be patient and let the bad times pass. You can also try talking to him to find out what's wrong
Step 4. Welcome and encourage the child within each Gemini
Those born under this sign are more in touch with their inner child than other people. They love to joke and make jokes. Some of their jokes will be quite childish, but all of that is part of their charm. Don't try to get a Gemini to hold back and don't force them to change. Even if you are serious by nature, join in on his fun and allow him to express himself however he likes.
Step 5. Prepare for social life, but also expect some quiet moments
Geminis are social by nature, but in some cases they also enjoy the intimacy of home. Don't get used to going to parties every day and don't object if your partner asks you to stay on the sofa and watch a movie. If you are introverted or unsociable, make it clear right away. Try to find a compromise.
- An example of a compromise is going to parties with a few people, or other situations that are less stressful for you, but still fun for a Gemini.
- Another example of a compromise is going to a party one weekend and staying home the next.
- You can try to slowly enter the Gemini social circle. For example, you can start with parties attended by few people and uncrowded situations, to gradually get to the events with more guests.
Part 2 of 2: Know What to Avoid
Step 1. Don't force a Gemini to make a decision if they don't want to
Duplicity is the main aspect of those born under this sign. Because of this, they often get stuck between two choices. Some of them want one thing while the other has completely different interests. If you find yourself in a similar situation, try giving advice. Eg:
If your partner can't choose between sushi and Mexican food for dinner, you might say, "We ate fish last week. Why don't we try Mexican tonight? The new restaurant down the street looks great."
Step 2. Never betray a Gemini's trust
He may forgive you, but he will never forget what happened. If you betray a Gemini's trust, you may never be able to win it back. Also consider that they are curious people; they love to learn and discover new things. If you hide something from a Gemini, he will become suspicious and eventually discover your secret. It is always best to be honest and direct with someone of that sign. Sincerity is very important to Gemini: they appreciate the truth, even when it is not easy to accept.
Step 3. Don't try to keep a Gemini in check
They are very independent people. They don't need someone to always hold their hand, and most importantly, they don't appreciate being controlled. They want space to experience the world on their own. If you try to control a Gemini, you will end up having an unhappy girlfriend or boyfriend.
If, however, a Gemini asks you for help, always try to give it to them
Step 4. Don't get used to anything a Gemini can say, do or want
Those born under this sign are known to be full of contradictions. They are often spontaneous and want to try new things. Their personality has many different facets. Just because the person you're dating loves nature doesn't mean they'll always want to go hiking; in some cases, he will prefer to stay at home. When the Gemini you hang out with wants to try something different, they gladly accept; don't try to force him to repeat the same activity over and over. Learn to appreciate changes.
At the same time, if the person you are dating is showing upset or unhappy, the best solution is to always ask what is wrong rather than accepting the situation as the new "normal"
Step 5. Don't be angry if a Gemini suddenly changes their mind and cancels or changes their plans
Represented by twins, those born under this sign have fickle and constantly changing minds. They can change their plans even at the last minute. Don't take it badly, it's probably not a personal offense. Instead, try to accept the fickle nature of Gemini.
If this aspect of your partner's personality bothers you a lot, talk to her about it. Don't accuse her of always abandoning you, but instead tell her that you take your plans very seriously and that you feel hurt when she decides to suddenly change them
Advice
- If you and your partner don't agree on something, try to compromise.
- If you don't know what night to organize for a date, find something new. Geminis love to try new experiences.
- Gemini can be very passionate. This often leads them to feel too happy or too angry.
- If you're not sure what your partner wants, ask. Don't guess.
- Try to keep your relationship interesting, or your Gemini partner won't stay that way for long.
- Geminis have a tendency to offend others often, but they don't do it on purpose; don't take it personally. Instead, respond by explaining how you feel. Geminis don't like to talk about their feelings, but they want to know when they hurt you.
- Gemini can be seducers. They are still loyal partners, but they are very friendly and open towards other people. If this bothers you, talk to your partner about it, but don't accuse her of treason.
- Geminis are active, creative and fun people. Even if you're not particularly active, try participating in some of your partner's activities. You may even find a new hobby!
- Gemini, especially males, first fall in love with the mind. The heart will only follow later.
Warnings
- Don't be difficult for too long; Gemini are impatient, so they lose interest in what they cannot have.
- Not all Gemini are the same. Some may have the typical characteristics of those born under this sign, while others may be completely different. Get to know your partner as an individual.
- Don't try to control a Gemini or make him hold back. They are independent people who need space to grow and explore.
