Family nudism is a fairly sensitive issue due to the cultural values with which we grow and live, but it can be a healthy practice. In fact, the fact of considering nudity as something natural can favor the development of a healthy image of their body in children and help them to live more serene relational experiences during their growth. However, it is important to practice family nudism safely. You can do this by teaching it to your children, setting rules and boundaries, and addressing any problems.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Teaching Nudism to Children
Step 1. Teach children that nudity is natural and not about sex
Depending on the culture you grew up in, you may be sexualizing nudity. However, the state of the unclothed body is also the normal biological condition of man. When you are naked with your children, behave naturally and casually. Encourage them to accept nudity as an ordinary aspect of life rather than as a sexualized act.
Nudity does not necessarily have to involve sexual attraction. Keep the concept of sex and nudity separate in the family, so that you can practice nudism in a healthy way
Warning:
it is best to introduce nudism into the home from when your children are small. In any case, if they are older, it is preferable to practice it when they are not there, unless they feel comfortable.
Step 2. Explain sexual diversity from an early age
One of the biggest challenges of family nudism is dealing with the difference in sex. Children have many questions about this and some people may feel uncomfortable with your decision. Introduce your children to nudism between opposite sexes from birth or as early as possible. Teach them the differences in the morphology of the human body and which behaviors are safe and appropriate.
- Answer all the questions they ask you about the differences between the bodies of each family member, such as genitals and hair. You could say, "I have more hair than you because I'm an adult. Someday you will have it too" or "You have a penis and your sister a vagina, that's why you are different."
- Explain what can be touched and what cannot. You might say, "If someone touches you and makes you uncomfortable, that's not good. Besides, no one has to touch your private parts."
- If this practice is not sexualized and if children feel comfortable, there is nothing wrong with children seeing naked parents.
Step 3. Show that you have a healthy image of your body when naked
One of the greatest benefits of practicing nudism in the family is to educate children to build a healthy body image. When you are naked in their company, behave with ease and self-love, avoiding physical criticism when they are around.
Instead of saying "I'd like to get rid of this belly", try "I'm glad my body gave you the chance to come into the world."
Step 4. Avoid expressing your sexuality when you are with your family
Although sexuality is a normal and healthy aspect of human life, it should only be shown in private. Otherwise, children may get confused about what can and cannot be done. If you get excited, cover up or go to another room. Likewise, don't touch your partner's private parts if your kids are around.
For example, don't touch your partner's breasts or genitals if the babies are watching you, otherwise they'll think it's an acceptable pattern of behavior since you're exhibiting it
Step 5. Explain that there are different social and cultural norms regarding nudity
Each culture has its own values about discovering certain parts of the body. For example, Northern European cultures are more open about nudity in the family and in public, while others are more modest. There is nothing wrong with having different cultural values or questioning those that belong to the society in which you live. However, talk to your children so that they understand that there is something different between their way of life and that of their friends.
You might say, "In our family we feel close to nature and we value our bodies. This means we have no problem being naked among ourselves. Some friends may think it's inconvenient because they have different family values."
Part 2 of 3: Establishing Limits and Rules
Step 1. Take care of personal hygiene when practicing nudism
When you are naked, you need to pay more attention to your family's hygiene. It is possible to accidentally contaminate furniture and the floor with traces of fecal material, vaginal discharge or menstruation. Make sure your family members bathe often and clean themselves well after using the bathroom. Also, consider using a towel wherever you sit.
To clean the genitals and anal area after you go to the bathroom, take a bidet or, failing that, use wet wipes
Step 2. Give each family member the opportunity to make their own decision
You will probably want to practice nudism indoors because you think it offers some benefits. However, other family members may not feel the same way. Let your partner, children, and other family members decide for themselves. So, all try to respect everyone's needs together.
Maybe your partner prefers to wear underwear instead of going completely undressed. Likewise, your children may feel comfortable being naked only with family members of the same sex
Step 3. Respect the limits set by other family members
Once everyone has stated their needs, try to establish the limits to be respected. However, as children grow up, review and correct these relationship norms to make sure they align with their sensitivity.
For example, if your child doesn't want to see you naked, get dressed when you are with them. Likewise, there is nothing wrong with not wanting to take a bath or shower with his siblings or other family members
Step 4. Set rules for when to practice nudism at home
While not absolutely wrong, the practice of nudism is not appropriate in every situation. While it is easy for adults to recognize when to get dressed, children can have a hard time figuring out when and where to undress. Talk to your child about the importance of covering up in public places and help them behave appropriately in these circumstances. Here are some rules to consider:
- It is possible to be naked at home and in isolated places;
- It is necessary to dress when there are guests;
- It is necessary to dress when going to school or work;
- It is necessary to dress in all public places.
Part 3 of 3: Addressing Any Problems
Step 1. Describe the physical differences in a positive way
Babies notice the differences between one body and another, which can include sexual organs, hair, and fat. Answer all their questions. Keep a positive attitude and encourage them to study the human body.
- For example, they might ask their mother, "Why don't you have a penis?" In this case you might answer: "Some people are born with a penis and others with a vagina."
- They might also say, "Why is your belly so soft?" You might say, "Some people have softer bellies and some have harder bellies. But all of them are beautiful."
Step 2. Teach your kids to answer questions about nudism
While this practice may be a good choice for your family, not everyone understands it. As a result, it is possible that your children will start getting questions as they grow up. Talk to them so they understand how to respond. This way they will be able to explain to others the values they believe in.
For example, if a friend asks them, "Isn't it wrong to be naked with your parents?", They might reply, "In the family we consider nudity to be natural, so it's not strange to us. We don't even notice we are walking around the house naked."
Step 3. Calmly discuss sexual behaviors
It is completely normal for young children to explore their own bodies, so don't worry if your child starts touching himself. However, it is important to explain what can and cannot be done. Calmly and respectfully, tell him not to touch and have sexual attitudes in front of others. Furthermore, he points out that he must not touch other people in this way.
- You might say, "I saw you before touching your penis. It's not a problem, but you can only do it when you are alone."
- Do not get angry and do not judge, otherwise they may think that sexuality is something wrong.
Advise:
take your child to the doctor if he shows strong sexual disinhibition. While it is normal for children to explore their own bodies, they sometimes act this way because they have been exposed to sexually inappropriate behavior.
Step 4. Teach appropriate and inappropriate behaviors
Nudism teaches kids to be comfortable with their bodies, so that's great! However, they also need to be careful that other people - be they adults or children - do not touch their private parts. Teach your children what genital organs are called. Then, explain that no one should seek physical contact in those spots and that they should notify you immediately if it happens.
You might say, "Your body belongs to you, so it's not okay for someone to touch you. If that happens, tell me right away so I can make sure you're okay."
Advise:
however, he specifies that the doctor or parents can do it for health reasons and, even in those cases, it must not be a secret. Tell him, "Sometimes, mom, dad, or even the doctor may have to touch you. In these cases, don't be afraid to tell me or an adult you trust. It shouldn't be a secret."
Step 5. Never show pornography to your children
While it is okay to practice nudism in the family, this does not mean that your child should see other people undressed. Never show pornographic images, otherwise you risk confusing him about what is natural and what is not, luring him into sexually inappropriate behavior before he is ripe for having a sex life. If you have this type of material, hide it in a safe place.
For example, if she sees pornographic photos, she may have difficulty distinguishing between family nudism and sexual nudity
Advice
- Nudism in the family does not harm the psychological health of children as long as the limits of each individual are respected. In fact, it can foster the development of a healthy body image and can help them make good relationship decisions once they become adults.
- Your child is likely to start showing some inhibition during puberty. She may cover herself more during this time, so please respect her needs.
Warnings
- Be careful when talking about family nudism with other people because they don't necessarily understand your values. They may misunderstand your view of nudity as being natural and not at all mischievous.
- Since nudism is not a widespread practice, it may be difficult for your children to practice it as a family when they start attending school. Address the issue together and respect their needs.
