You have been with your girlfriend for a long time, now you are a true expert in the art of kissing, and you know when is the right time to shake her hand. Now, however, you have a doubt: how to caress her and communicate your love to her in this way too? Caressing a woman is ideal to show her how much you love her, and it doesn't have to have a sexual connotation. You need to know how to be gentle and, at the same time, thorough, so that all parts of her body are involved in this show of love. The most important thing to do is to make sure your girl feels comfortable: afterward, you simply need to offer her the attention and affection she wants and needs.
Steps
Part 1 of 2: Stroking her face and neck
Step 1. Caress her lips with yours
When you lean towards her to kiss her, you shouldn't plant your lips on hers and suddenly stick your tongue in her mouth. Instead, be gentle and go slowly, especially in the beginning. You should approach her to kiss her tenderly, and then pause to caress her lips with yours, holding the kiss for a few seconds. You can stroke both her lower and upper lips, thus showing her that her kisses matter so much to you.
Too many men think that kissing is just a foreplay to get to something else. Instead, you should treat this act as a pleasure for its own sake, without making her believe you want to go further
Step 2. Stroke the sides of your face with your hands as you kiss
When exchanging pals with your girlfriend, hold her face with one hand, or both. Don't do it suddenly, go slowly towards this gesture, make it look natural. Then, gently place a hand on one side of her face and stroke her cheek, ear, hair, reaching up to her jaw. This will make her feel loved and offer pleasant sensations to both of you.
You shouldn't try to kiss her like this every single time. Instead, surprise her with this intimate gesture at the right time
Step 3. Caress her ears
As you kiss, you should try to gently touch her earlobes, as well as the side and back areas. Do this slowly and gently, placing your hands in a bowl. You can slide your hand under her hair and stroke her ear as you continue to kiss her. Female lobes almost never get enough attention, yet most women enjoy being stroked.
- If you already have an intimate relationship, you can touch your ears with your lips: you will drive her crazy.
- This is almost always a winning move, but be sure to examine her expression to see if she likes being touched on her ears. Some women have them so sensitive that they prefer not to be stroked.
Step 4. Stroke her neck
It is another part of the female body that should never be overlooked. Gently stroke the sides of your neck as you talk, kiss, or just look at each other. You can also part your hair so that you can stroke it a little more by running only the sides of your fingers along the neck: continue down to the base of the shoulders, and then back towards the earlobe.
If you do this while standing behind her, you can also lightly blow warm air on her neck to give her even more pleasure
Step 5. Stroke her hair
It is another very affectionate and pleasant gesture. You can gently stroke the back of her head and massage her scalp, playfully run your fingers through her locks, or even brush her hair away from her eyes to get a better look at her, making her want you more. You can also stroke her hair while you also take advantage of it to touch her cheeks, earlobes and neck, and finally kiss her.
You could also put her hair behind her ear - you'll have an excuse to stroke this area further
Step 6. Stroke her lips
Stroking a woman's lips before kissing is another sensual gesture that many people enjoy, and it always makes a good impression. As soon as you are ready to kiss her, let the atmosphere warm up a little by pulling back; then, run a finger along the middle of the lips. Smile softly at her as you do this before bending over and kissing her right on the spot you touched earlier. She will be struck and surprised by this display of affection.
You can also kiss her tenderly, pull back, stroke her lips with your finger, and then bend over for another kiss
Part 2 of 2: Caress her body
Step 1. Caress her hands
In the early days of a relationship, stroking a woman's hands is one of the safest and most intimate ways to show her you're interested. There is a big difference between placing your hand on your hers without moving it and touching it, stroking and maybe even gently massaging your fingers and palms. If you and this girl have been holding hands and have recently dated, then you can step forward by gently touching one or both hands: you will impress thanks to your attention and your sweetness. Here are some moves to try:
- Lightly draw a circle on his palm.
- Gently grab one finger with two of yours, and stroke it from top to bottom.
- Massage her palm, knuckles and back.
Step 2. Caress her shoulders
If he's wearing a shirt that shows off his shoulders, you should definitely stroke this area. Gently touch your shoulders with your fingertips, and then let them slide down with a little extra force. You can also slide a finger over her shoulder to give her even more chills. Remember that you don't have to caress the shoulders, ears or sides of your face just when you kiss, this gesture can be quite intimate and special in itself.
Women also love to get massages. If you are alone and the mood is right, you can use both hands to press firmly on the area between the shoulder blades and release the tension in his body
Step 3. Stroke her knee
It is another part of the female body that is overlooked all too often. If she's wearing a skirt or dress, she'll likely appreciate the warmth of your hand on her soft skin. Also, you may want to run your finger in the crease of the knee. This is one of the many erogenous zones that can be found on a woman's body. Just one thing: don't try this move in hot weather. She might sweat a little in the crook of her knee, and you don't want to embarrass her.
You can also stroke a woman's knee with light movements when seated, even if she is wearing pants
Step 4. Caress her thigh
If you know he won't react badly, you can slowly run your hand down the upper leg until it reaches the inner thigh. It can be a sensual move that will lead to something else, or you can just caress her thigh without going any further. You should get to know each other pretty well before trying this gesture, though. Don't think he won't have any problems just because you've already exchanged kisses.
When stroking her thigh, do it gently, without squeezing, otherwise it could make her uncomfortable
Step 5. Stroke her back and shoulders from behind
You don't always have to look her in the eye or kiss her to caress her. You can stand behind her and gently touch her shoulders, resting your head against hers; then, move your hands along the neck and shoulders in a gentle and affectionate way.
You can also place one hand more firmly on her shoulder and leave it there, while you use the other to stroke her back, sides of her neck, and arms
Step 6. Stroke her waist curve
Stand behind her, pull her hair to one side and kiss the back of her neck as you move your hand up to the curve of her waist. Move your fingers up and down gently, as if you were doing a massage. Many women like to be touched at this point, as long as you are in an intimate relationship.
Step 7. Stroke the curve of her back as you hug
Women love to be hugged and to actually feel the love of a man. You can hold your girl for a long time, but you should avoid her getting bored. However, do not start touching it and moving your hands as if they were the tentacles of an octopus. You can place a hand on the curve of the back, and gently move it up and down. Your girlfriend will therefore feel loved, and if she is sad, this will help to reassure her.
You can also place your hand on the curve of your back as you walk together to guide it to your destination. Women love to be touched in this way too
Step 8. Stroke the inside of her wrist
When sitting down and holding hands, you can reserve some attention on the inside of the wrist. It's a very sensitive area, and surely your she will have shivers of pleasure when you do. Also, you can draw a circle around the palm, and then move up to the wrist. Afterwards, it is also possible to continue up to the forearm and the crook of the elbow.
Just make sure he isn't ticklish. If so, then he won't feel much pleasure. You have to make sure that the touch is light but meaningful
Step 9. Gently slide your hand over his spine
Caressing this area, which is located on the lower back, up to the neck, and back, can certainly make her feel a lot of pleasure, and even more. It's a very intimate gesture, and it truly conveys what you feel if you do it as you hug and squeeze her. You can also try it when you kiss her, but it's not necessary.
- This works best when the fabric of the dress you are wearing allows you to easily touch your spine.
- When you reach the base of the neck, you could kiss this area.
Step 10. Caress her feet
There are few things a woman appreciates more than a good foot massage. When you are alone, invite her to lie down or sit down, and place one of her feet in your hands. Then, gently massage the soles, the knuckles of the fingers, the fore feet and the backs, continuing up to the ankles. Proceed very gently, at least at the beginning: maybe her feet hurt, especially if she has been running from place to place all day. Afterwards, intensify the massage making it more accurate and exerting more pressure with your fingers.
If you really want to give her a nice foot massage, you can also rub some oil or cream in your hands and apply it to the area
Step 11. Caress her navel
It is an area with a more sexual connotation, but, if you have an intimate relationship, then sometimes you can give it a lot of pleasure by gently stroking this area. Gently slide your finger over the area around the navel, then slowly move your hands up and down to prolong the pleasant sensations. If you want to really drive her crazy, you can also stroke other parts of her body and go back to her navel.
Advice
- As stated earlier, no one likes tickling, so avoid it at all costs and only do it if your girl has no problems and is in the mood for pranks.
- Learn where at least some of the female erogenous zones are, and see how your girl reacts when you touch them. He will appreciate your effort, and you will have fun discovering them!
- Take your time to squeeze and stroke her. It will relax her and open her up to more pleasant sensations.
- Ask her if she likes what you do. In most cases, however, you will notice for yourself. You could also ask her what she wants.
