We all know that the end of a love story can be devastating; especially if one of the two is still in love. This article will tell you how to forget about your ex boyfriend and not get back together.
Steps
Step 1. Put your iPod in your pocket so when you get bored you can take it out and listen to some music that will keep you in a great mood
This way, you will avoid thinking about your ex.
Step 2. Go out with your friends and don't talk about guys - especially him
Step 3. Take a tour of the city and look around:
there are tons of beautiful guys!
Step 4. Think about all the things you can do now that you are single
For example, you now have the chance to flirt with other guys!
Step 5. Try to think about all the negative things he has done to you
That way, you won't just think about the good times we had together. If you still want to be friends with her, think about the positive aspects of your story as well. If this is the case, allow some time to pass before forming a friendship with him.
Step 6. Don't flirt with him
In other words, don't go out with him right after you break up.
Step 7. Try to be open-minded to show him that he's not the only guy in your life
Step 8. Don't think about him, especially at night
You will be sick and you will make the situation worse. If you really can't do without it, just think about the negative aspects of his character.
Step 9. Don't start a relationship with one of his friends
.. avoid talking to them.
Step 10. Stay away from him for a few days
Step 11. If you happen to talk to us, avoid topics related to your history
Step 12. If he tells you he wants to get back together, don't give in
Make sure you always have trusted friends to talk to and confide in.
Step 13. Don't be fooled
Always remember the bad times he put you through if he cheated on you… Don't do anything that would make you sick. Pass the time and you will see that for sure you will find someone better.
Advice
- If he tries to kiss you after you break up, DON'T let him! You will let him know that he still matters to you and he could take advantage of it. INSTEAD: reject him and tell him that it's over between you and that he must respect your decision. Besides, it was he who left you, right? If he hasn't left you, reject him anyway and he will realize that he has lost someone very special!
- Go for walks and clear your mind of memories.
- Try to spend as much time away from him as possible. It will slowly fade away from your memories !!
- Read this article every day or when you start thinking about it.
- Don't get rid of all the memories, you will regret it.
- Make a list of what you love and what you hate about him. Surely the things you hate will be more than those you love!
Warnings
- If you want you can remain her friend, but it will take time.
- Don't get completely away from him. But also try to understand the differences between lovers and friends.