Capturing a man's attention after he has already won yours is often easier said than done. The simplest thing to do is to introduce yourself in a way that can attract the attention of any guy. When the man you're interested in looks in your direction, promise yourself to keep eye contact, then gradually strike up a conversation.
Steps
Part 1 of 3: Capturing his Eye
Step 1. Leave some room for imagination in your way of dressing
Your outfit should bring out your strengths without putting everything on display. Showing just a hint of your feminine charm can inspire him to imagine more.
- Skimpy dresses don't necessarily represent the sexiest option. Instead, focus on emphasizing your best features. Choose the clothes that suit you. The shapes and materials of the clothes should shape your natural curves, drawing attention to all the right places.
- Allowing a glimpse of a few small parts of your body can also be effective, but the basic idea is to leave more room for the imagination than what you show off. Choose a skimpy garment and combine it with clothes that cover more. For example, wear a low-cut blouse with a knee-length or longer skirt. If you wear a blouse with a wide neckline on the back, make sure your breasts and legs are covered. When opting for a mini skirt, cover your breasts with a high-necked blouse.
Step 2. Dress in red
Some studies suggest that red can make women more attractive to men than any other color.
- Some theories indicate that red is a naturally stimulating color. Others indicate that the link between the color red and sexuality is part of an acquired behavior. In any case, several studies have indicated that red certainly has a positive effect when it comes to grabbing a man's attention.
- As with most things, you get more with less. Instead of dressing in bright red from head to toe, add a little red to your outfit. Wear a red dress with black shoes or red shoes with a black dress, but avoid wearing a red dress with red shoes.
Step 3. Diffuse your pheromones with the right scent
A little perfume can be very useful, especially if you choose the right fragrance. Perfume can instinctively arouse attraction.
- Some fragrances are considered more sensual than others. Traditionally these fragrances include sandalwood, rose, ylang-ylang, jasmine and patchouli.
- Use a few drops or a sprinkle of perfume and apply it only on the "pulsating points" of the body. These points are located on the wrists, behind the ears, in the crook of the elbows, behind the knees and on the inside of the ankles.
Step 4. Loosen your movements
Slow and fluid movements can make you appear more confident, more feminine and more sensual. When you know that the man in question is looking in your direction, try a little harder to appear a little more graceful.
- Pay attention to your posture and keep your back straight. This demonstrates a level of self-confidence capable of seducing others while discreetly enhancing your breasts.
- If you are in a club, party or similar event, consider dancing the moment you know he can see you. Dancing can be very sensual. It also conveys self-confidence and demonstrates a fun-loving temperament.
- Try not to look tense or intimidated, even if you are actually feeling very nervous. You don't need to be sitting in the same place all the time, but keep a relatively stable position to demonstrate a calm, relaxed, confident attitude.
Part 2 of 3: Establishing Contact
Step 1. Make eye contact
When your eyes meet his, you must also show him a smile. Eye contact makes the man understand that you are interested in him, but the smile is what makes him understand that your interest is positive.
- To further maximize the effect, start throwing a few glances with the corner of your eye in its direction.
- After a couple of these looks, look him directly in the eye.
- However, when he turns his gaze towards you, he lowers his eyes and shows a shy, embarrassed smile.
- Slowly move your eyes back to his after a few seconds. Keep smiling.
- Stop meeting his gaze and look the other way for a few minutes. Repeat the process again, as needed, to express your interest.
Step 2. Repeat after him
Imitate her body language. When he sips his drink, you sip yours. If he bends his head, you bend yours too.
Your behavior can connect with hers without directly repeating it. For example, if you take another drink and your glass is still full, raise the glass as if you were making a toast before taking a sip. This way you show that you recognize his action and let him know that you are careful about what he does
Step 3. Use the power of touch
When a woman is interested in a man, she naturally starts playing with her hair and touching herself in other similar ways. You can use these types of actions to indirectly express your interest in a man.
- Play with your hair. Twist them in your fingers or run your fingers through your hair in a distracted way.
- Run your fingers over your neck and shoulders.
- Moisten or bite your lips, but try not to do it too conspicuously.
Step 4. Stimulate him
If the man you have your eyes on hasn't made a move yet, take a step back and offer him the opportunity to hunt you down. After you have expressed your interest for a few minutes, stop and act as if your interest is waning. Allow a few more minutes to pass before turning back to him.
Step 5. Offer him the opportunity to get closer to you
Do not give the impression of being busy. If a man thinks you're expecting someone or worried about something, he's less likely to look your way.
- It can actually be a good idea to look bored, obviously when you're not looking at it. Play around with a pen or glass. Don't turn your attention to either the phone or a book. Look around listlessly and without focusing on anything in particular.
- Some men may need a little more encouragement. Offer him the opportunity to talk to you by positioning yourself closer to him and standing alone. Walk past them on your way to the bathroom or counter. You can also bump his shoulder with yours and apologize with a shy smile.
Part 3 of 3: Start Talking
Step 1. Compliment him
You can compliment him on something about his appearance or you can wait for the conversation to go on to be able to compliment him on something about his personality. Either way, sincere flattery can make him feel good about himself and the person who complimented him.
- Make sure your compliments are sincere.
- If you have a hard time putting a credible compliment into words, you can compliment him indirectly. A good way to do this is to laugh at his jokes.
- An even easier way to compliment a man is to pay attention to what he says. Reply with sensible answers. Every so often he goes back to something he mentioned earlier during the conversation simply to show him that you found it so interesting that you remember it.
Step 2. Have a light and concise conversation
Avoid topics that seem heavy, dull, or depressing. Insist on undemanding topics, especially those that allow you to easily summarize your comments.
- The first meeting is not the right occasion to tell him the story of your life, the misfortunes related to your previous relationship or your deepest fears. It's not even the right time to complain about work or your childhood.
- However, you can talk about your dreams or share short and funny stories that belong to the past or the present. Choose topics that will put you in a good mood. Concentrate any story you want to tell in under a minute. If he wants to know more, he can ask you.
- However, that doesn't mean you should try to make a fool of yourself. Instead, be awake in proportion to the type of conversation. You don't need to be a neurosurgeon, but you'll keep his attention much better if you can keep up with what he says instead of pretending to be careless.
Step 3. Manifest an “open” body language
Non-verbal communication is as important as verbal communication. Insert yourself within the context so as to appear open to human approaches. If he thinks you're holding back, his attention is likely to falter.
- Look him directly in the face and sometimes lean forward towards him.
- Keep your hands and arms open. Avoid crossing your arms during conversation.
- Find an excuse to touch it. You can touch his hand "accidentally" in the middle of the conversation or touch his shoulder naturally when he makes an interesting observation.
