Being a mom is hard work. The least you can do to pay off your mother's commitment is to give her a wonderful birthday. You can buy her a special gift or turn that day into a memorable event, even without breaking the bank. With a little creativity and planning, you can show her how much you appreciate her.
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Show her you love her
Step 1. Give her your full attention
One of the best ways to let your mom know you care is to spend some quality time together. During the birthday party, don't constantly check your cell phone and don't talk to friends.
- Turn off your phone and other distracting devices.
- When you are together, talk to her and make her feel involved. Even if you find yourself in a group of people, your mother should be your top priority.
Step 2. Do one of the house chores she normally does
You will be surprised how much they appreciate that you clean the house or wash the car. Show your affection by working in his place.
She'll be even happier if you choose a job that she finds particularly annoying, like doing laundry, cleaning the bathroom, or raking the leaves in the garden
Step 3. Help her with her project
Giving your mom your time and effort and helping her accomplish a goal is a great way to show her that you care. Pick a project she has been undertaking for a long time and lend a hand to finish it once and for all.
- For example, if she wants to plant a vegetable garden, help her pick the seeds, put on gloves and grab the spade!
- If she wants to redecorate a room, help her purchase the necessary tools, move the furniture, paint the walls and hang the pictures.
- Let her be in control of the project, so that it can be completed according to her idea. Your goal is to support his efforts, not to take his place. Ask her how you can make yourself useful.
Step 4. Give your mother a day off
In some cases, the best gift you can give her is free time and the chance to enjoy it however she likes. To do this, plan ahead to take care of her schedule on her birthday.
- For example, if you have other children, hire a babysitter or take care of your siblings. If he has a dog, take care of him for that day.
- Often, even allowing your mother to sleep all morning can be a much appreciated gesture. In this case, your gift will be to not bother her before lunch and to bring her breakfast in bed when she wakes up.
Step 5. Share your favorite family stories
The birthday girl will feel appreciated if you tell her about memories and anecdotes that have important meaning for both of you. Choose the occasions when he saved the day or did something exceptional to express your gratitude and show that you pay attention to what he does.
- Just say, "Mom, remember that time you threw a surprise party for my birthday on the playground? It was great."
- Remember your family camping trips, the time she picked you up when you were stuck at the airport six hours away from home, or the Christmas traditions you learned from her that make the holidays you spend together special.
- You can even turn your idea into a concrete gift by creating a keepsake jar. Choose a cute container and fill it with notes that feature favorite anecdotes you experienced with your mother.
Step 6. Ask her what are her happiest memories of past birthdays
Listening to her stories shows her that you are interested in her as a person. It will also be nice to spend some time discovering his life before you were born.
- You can start a conversation about her past by saying, "Hey Mom, what's the first birthday you remember?" Or "What's the best thing you did for your birthday?".
- You can even sit down together and look at an old photo album to refresh her memory. If you see an image that intrigues you, ask her a question: "Where was it taken?", "Who is that person sitting next to you?" or "How old were you here?".
Method 2 of 3: Find the Perfect Gift
Step 1. Give her a unique gift
Taking the time to create a personalized gift is often a better idea than buying just any item. Use your talent to make something special.
If you are a great cook, make her something special, or give her cake mixes. If you're a crochet wizard, make pot holders. If you like to paint, make a work of art
Step 2. Order a personalized gift
Many products can be modified with messages, names or monograms. Choose a special gift for your mother and you will show her that you are committed to looking for something especially for her.
Choose an item that they will like (and that fits within your budget). You can buy a cup, a bag, a bathrobe or a piece of jewelry
Step 3. Give her a photo gift
Family photos are very popular. Give your mother a memory that will immortalize one of the most beautiful moments you have spent together. You can choose a simple framed photo or a pillow with a print.
- Organize a photo shoot for the whole family. You can book it from a professional in a studio or improvise it at home. In any case, you will make her understand that her birthday is a day worth remembering.
- Make a photo album of your family for her. Combine some of your favorite images into one album, and every time she browses through it, she'll remember how much you care.
- Get creative and have a photo printed on an object she uses or sees every day, such as a vase, cup, ornament, apron or pillow.
Step 4. Write her a recipe book
Create an archive of the recipes he's been spoiling you with over the years. Include all your family's favorite dishes, from the most classic starters to traditional desserts prepared for the holidays.
- In addition to transcribing the list of ingredients and instructions, you can personalize the book by adding photographs and personal stories next to the recipes. For example, you can post a photo of your family enjoying each dish and write a short paragraph about the origin of a particular recipe.
- You can make copies of the book for the whole family, so your mother will know that her passion for cooking will be passed on to future generations.
Step 5. Add an item to its collection
Show that you know her interests well by giving her something that complements one of her personal collections.
If she is passionate about a certain type of porcelain, buy her a new one. If she loves cats a lot, buy her something with a cat design. If she follows all the episodes of a television series, buy her a box set with DVDs for an entire season
Method 3 of 3: Organize a Birthday Event
Step 1. Take her out
Make sure you choose an activity that she enjoys. If she's crazy about antiques, take her to a flea market. If you love the outdoors, go for a hike and a picnic. If she appreciates cultural events, take her to a concert or theater.
You may want to consider recreating a trip with the whole family that you remember with pleasure, such as a trip to the stadium, to a cabin or to an amusement park
Step 2. Give her a day at a spa
Being a mother is stressful and takes a lot of energy. Give your mom some relaxation and well-being by offering her a massage, a facial, a manicure and a pedicure.
Step 3. Make her dinner or take her out to eat
If she usually cooks everyone's food, give her an evening away from the stove. Cook her one of her favorite dishes, or take her to a restaurant she's wanted to try for a while.
Step 4. Plan a party for her
This option takes planning and preparation, but it will make your mom's birthday extra special. Make sure you choose a date, time and place that suits her.
- Keep in mind that you should give your guests at least a couple of weeks notice so they can mark the event on their diaries and plan to be there.
- Since this is a party for your mother, plan it with her in mind. For example, you should only invite people she will be happy to see, serve her favorite dishes, and propose music she loves. If in doubt, ask her what her preferences are.
- Remember not to leave it to her to put everything in order!
