Okay girls, let's talk about self-confidence. There is no doubt that there is tremendous pressure on women today to always look slim and beautiful. Today we live in a world that makes us think that we have to be perfect… but the truth is that this is a lot of nonsense! As a teenager, I know I looked in the mirror and said to myself "Oh Mom! Look at those thighs, they're huge!". We have all judged ourselves this way, but why? The truth is that when we say these things to each other, we are the only ones who think them. We are angry with our body because of our insecurity and lack of self-confidence, so I will share with you the best way to build your self-esteem and a good attitude towards your body, so that tomorrow looking in the mirror you can exclaim "Ah but … I am a splendor!"
Steps
Step 1. When you wake up, go to the bathroom, smile at yourself in the mirror and give yourself a compliment
In this way you will start the day full of self-confidence. Once YOU feel good about yourself, there is nothing that can make you feel insecure.
Step 2. ALWAYS wear something that makes you feel good, don't buy the clothes you think that handsome bar guy would like to see you in, only the ones you like
This way you can build your own style and feel more unique.
Step 3. Never insult your body; we've all done it, but we have to stop it, it just makes our mood worse
So instead of insulting your "huge" thighs every morning, start admiring your most attractive features (for example: plump lips, glowing eyes).
Step 4. Never "choose" a guy who wants you to change something about your body, the only changes you want to make to your body are the ones you decide and that make you feel more confident, and you should only do it in ways. safe and healthy
Never hurt your body to change its appearance. As much as you think you need to lose weight, it really isn't.
Step 5. Always be comfortable with yourself, never compare your body to that of models on the cover of a magazine:
remember, you are beautiful inside and out.
Advice
- When it comes to showing off your body, stick to what makes you feel comfortable. If that means showing less skin than you do now, do it. But if there is a "dress code" at work or school, follow it.
- When you find the confidence in yourself, you will see the difference and people will notice you for sure (even that handsome bar guy). When you walk with confidence, smiling, you will attract everyone's attention, and turning around you will surely see dozens of eyes following you as you stroll around the mall.
- Self-confidence cannot come from this Internet page, you have to find it in yourself (I know it seems obvious). But once you admire yourself and do things that make you realize how beautiful you are … then, and only then, self-confidence will spontaneously arise in you:)
- It is possible for a young girl to turn into a girl with high self-esteem if she chooses the right role models and the right sources of information. Before a girl reaches maturity, it is essential that she is endowed with great self-confidence to be able to face difficulties and live a happy life.
- Remember: Don't try to build your self-esteem on compliments from others. It is not you who praise you, it is they, and they are the same ones who can easily decide to tear you down.
Warnings
- As mentioned, don't compare yourself to people in magazines. Photos are often edited with Photoshop - they're not really what they look like.
- If you start getting people's attention, don't be a snob. It's a very disappointing thing and you'll go from a confident beautiful girl to an unbearable balloon.
