If only I had done that instead of this … I wish I had chosen this other way … If only I hadn't gone there! Go ahead and don't think about it! These simple tips will make life much easier and happier, as well as worth living. So say "NO" to remorse. Point.
Steps
Step 1. Keep in mind that you are a human being like everyone else
A mistake is not always the end of the world, on the contrary, you learn from every little mistake. There is no successful person who has not made mistakes, no matter how big or small.
Step 2. Convince yourself that you are a sensitive human and that you are making decisions after thorough evaluation
Do not have the impression of not thinking at all before an important choice. We all think. But it happens that things don't go according to plan. Next time, before making a decision, don't make the mistakes you made last time.
Step 3. Remind yourself that at the time you made that specific choice, there didn't seem to be any better options… although it may seem ridiculous now
You had no idea how things were going to go. Nobody knows the future. Accept that you are wiser than then.
Step 4. Convince yourself that you are a "Wrestler" and a "Winner"
You are a supreme living being. Not narrow and ordinary but "legendary". You know that life is made up of experiences due to bad and wrong choices.
Step 5. Forgive
The past is past, learn to forgive. Forgiveness leads to bliss. Don't continually rethink what has been: the more you think about it, the more unmanageable life will become.
Step 6. Start from scratch
It is never too late to reset everything … never too late to start a new life … there is always a second chance. You just have to believe it.
Step 7. Spend time alone, trying to rediscover yourself
Your results may surprise you, and of course you have made mistakes, but who doesn't? So don't worry!
Step 8. Find out what will make you happy and what steps you need to take to reach that state
Step 9. Learn to give
There is no greater joy, whether it be to the homeless or to your neighbors. Cook for your neighbors, volunteer, donate money, games and blankets to humanitarian associations, any gesture is useful.
Step 10. Be happy
You may not have made all the right decisions in your life, but you are probably still in possession of many things that millions of people don't have access to. Just think how lucky you are, and you will be happy.
Step 11. Remember, what's done is done
You can't go back and change things, but you can try to prepare yourself for what lies ahead. Forget the past, dedicate to the future.
Step 12. Stop repenting
Tomorrow is another day. Live today, not yesterday. It doesn't matter what you have done, but what you will do.
Advice
- Looks ahead!
- Stay healthy
- Don't sit idle
- be happy
