This article is dedicated to the 'Broken Hearts' club. It is meant specifically for those men who have been made fun of by a woman. Have you met a girl, are dating and think you are really falling in love, but you are not sure if she really loves you or if she is just trying to tease you? Don't worry, the techniques and tactics of a playgirl, the female equivalent of a playboy, are not designed to hurt you, but to trap you. Like any trap, therefore, trying to break free hurts.
Steps
Step 1. Pay attention to their behavior and try to understand if they are giving you contradictory signals
One of the most common strategies for a seductress is to try to confuse a guy, causing him to want more of her. The contradictory signals are very effective, because they really manage to confuse a man's attention. We end up thinking and analyzing the situation too much. You come to believe that the other person has feelings for you, when in reality they don't care. Contradictory messages can induce false hope, luring a man with the promise of a future reward.
- A girl of this type, in fact, may not allow you to touch her in any way, but in turn establishing physical contact with you at will, as if to show you how intimate your relationship is apparently.
- If you were to ask her an important question about your relationship or ask her directly about her feelings, she would always end up responding indirectly, giving you unclear answers in order to confuse you.
Step 2. Check if it has a large social network
Seductresses generally have at their disposal many good guys who hang on their lips, they use them to get the attention and male affection they need, but they don't get from their boyfriends. Seductresses generally use their male friends as possible would-be boyfriends, taking advantage of their kindness, affection, sweetness and courtesy. They use their extensive social network to create a seductive web of sorts in which to attract other men.
- This seductive web is one of the tools a playgirl uses to attract candidates who might be "the one". Seductresses love to use manipulative techniques of power, weakness (as I'll explain later), bondage, guilt and / or jealousy.
- Seductresses love to provoke artificial displays of love from a man through jealousy, creating quarrels and competitions and making themselves more desirable to male eyes by exploiting what is called "herd instinct": people are pushed to do something just because many others do the same. It's just one of the many tactics available to a playgirl. In this way the seductress builds a certain prestige and makes herself even more desirable. Herd instinct is why the seductive web works and the seductresses manage to use it to trap men.
Step 3. Beware of the “famine tactic”
Seductresses love to play with push and pull, in order to make you feel a sense of "lack", that is, to make you want her attention. This type of sensation increases the value of the object in question, since it triggers an instinctive attraction in humans, who are programmed to give value to scarce resources. Instinct suggests that we feel attracted to people who have superior genes and therefore more chances of survival and reproduction. The lack produces an ILLUSION of value that leads people to feel attracted to the person in question.
Step 4. Don't be fooled by their ability to "place the product"
Seductresses think they are first of all merchandise and therefore, in order to sell themselves, they have to advertise themselves as unique individuals and creatures different from any other. Rarity is a very important component in attracting men, since the human instinct gives a lot of value to what is rare, such as diamonds. If diamonds were as abundant as sand, they would have little value. This means that even the seductress must pretend to have a unique personality or image, which no other girl will ever be able to offer.
Step 5. Watch out for behavioral projection cues
A seductress will project her behavior onto you and accuse you of being a playboy, hiding behind tactics and tricks, or teasing her.
Step 6. Don't get fooled by her sexual tricks
Seductresses boast an apparently irresistible sexuality, but in reality completely false. Remember the three basic components of making a person fall in love: logical attraction, emotional attraction, and sexual attraction. In addition to logical and emotional attraction, therefore, sexual attraction is the first step to make a guy fall in love. Many seductresses are intelligent enough to have realized that sexual attraction plays a fundamental role in making men fall in love. This is the reason why a seductress will grant the man at least one mind-boggling kiss on the first or subsequent dates. Seductresses want men to keep wanting more, so they will continue to attract you by gradually offering you what you want, in order to ensnare you and trap you until marriage.
Step 7. Remember that seductresses know what they want
They act as if they desperately want something, but have no idea what it really is; it's just a fiction. Of course they know exactly what they want. This is just another example of an ambiguous signal.
Step 8. Pay attention to non-verbal cues
Seductresses are very good at throwing non-verbal signs of interest, to confuse men. Many of them are also particularly good, so it's important to be careful. Just because a seductress is throwing clear signs of interest at you doesn't mean she really likes you. Be careful and control yourself; set yourself limits. Don't be fooled by the most obvious non-verbal signs, such as seeing her lick her lips or run a hand over the most sensual parts of her body; a playgirl uses her sensuality to get what she wants.
Step 9. Pay attention to the "tactics" of the seductresses, such as:
- Mystery. The mystery confuses men and protects the seductresses from possible revenge of their victims. It also allows the playgirl to avoid giving too much information about herself, blocking any attempt to establish a true relationship with the person they are dating and preventing her from falling in love and getting seriously involved.
- Infidelity. Seductresses are unfaithful to avoid focusing their attention on a single guy. This strategy protects them from falling in love and getting seriously involved and is one of the reasons why it is necessary to have a vast seductive web.
- Manipulation, persuasion and other pseudo-hypnotic strategies. (This part should be explained in another article, as this is too large and complex a topic to explain here.) These tactics go unnoticed by the common man and increase their chances of attracting more victims.
- Deceptions and deceptions. A good girl will usually give you some information about herself; a seductress will avoid all questions. Don't reveal any details about your financial status and stay away from girls who ask you about your salary. A good girl is not interested in your money and does not go looking for gifts, but seeks genuine affection and a true companion. A girl who continually tries to make you understand that she wants something from you is probably a seductress.
Advice
- A seductress will try to manipulate you or make you jealous, increasing its value by pretending an increase in the offer.
- He will postpone, cancel or move your appointments often.
- It will often blow you away.
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Other clues to keep in mind are:
- Has more than one mobile or phone number.
- Has more than one bank account or email address.
- He only shows up once a week or always wants to go out at set times and days.
- She says she is very busy. Seductresses always pretend they have a lot to do.
- Alternate an affectionate attitude with cold and distant behavior.
- She pretends she doesn't know anything about strategies for making fun of men.
- Pretend to be an innocent virgin.
- He does not shake your hand with transport, often keeping his fingers apart instead of closing them in a squeeze that demonstrates mutual intimacy.
- He secretly tests you, evaluating for example your reliability, your responsibility and your manhood.
- A seductress makes conversation following scripts ranging from thirty minutes to an hour.
- A seductress will ask you for something under certain conditions. For example, he could blackmail you and force you to do something by threatening to leave you. Remember that this is all part of a seductress' power play.
- If you meet a seductress at work, she will know all too well how to manipulate you to get something (usually in less than 10 minutes) and she will know full well that you can do what she is asking of you.
- She will generally tell you that no one understands her better than you, even if you don't actually hear from them regularly. Or he could tell you that he is going through a moment of crisis or come up with some other excuse of this type.
- Remember that she will always pretend to be busy, indeed, very busy.
- Be the precious. Especially in the workplace he will try to spend time with other men to make you 'jealous', so that you give in to his whims.
- He pretends very well. When you see or talk to her, she will make sure to make you feel 'very special' by telling you how much she missed you and how much she missed not talking to you. After that he will ignore you for days or even weeks (an example of that somewhat affectionate and somewhat unfriendly behavior we were talking about earlier).
- A seductress will boast of how many men she refused and will be proud of it.
- It doesn't keep its promises.
- The word 'maybe' is the first sign to take note of to try and figure out if a girl is teasing you. If you ask her out and she replies "maybe", she has practically stated that she has unclear intentions.
- He has many male 'friends'.
- Arrive late for appointments.
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He prefers his friendships and hobbies to you.
Preferring her friends and hobbies over you is, for a seductress, a way to create one artificial competition, in order to artificially push you to worry and care about her. It's part of his tactics.
- Be careful if he lied to you about his name or his job.
Warnings
- If you notice any vagueness / ambiguity, take precautions. Always trust your instincts.
- A girl who truly loves you will reject other suitors of her own accord who could endanger your relationship. If she keeps them in suspense, however, it is a gigantic alarm signal that must make you understand that she may be unfaithful to you in the future.
