Attending a dance can be very nerve-wracking. You hope someone asks you to dance and then you start wondering what to do if no one does. Also, you have to think about what to wear and what kind of dance you might be dancing.
Steps
Step 1. The night before prom, get your hair done up and find a cute top and pair of jeans or skirt plus a pair of shoes to match
This is your first time going to a dance, so you should get comfortable. For you guys, just wear a nice t-shirt and a pair of jeans. If it's a formal prom, wear a white shirt, black pants, and black shoes. Remember not to wear white socks with black shoes. Style your hair as best you can and don't forget to use conditioner.
Step 2. Avoid wearing an evening dress, and depending on your school, unless it's a semi-formal event, consider not wearing a dress
Don't imitate others; be yourself. If you want to dance with someone, don't be afraid to stand up, go to them and invite them. If whoever you invited does not accept, HE will lose us, not you.
Step 3. Get familiar with the songs
Listen to the radio and try to know most of the words of the most popular songs. Plus, learn disco songs like Teach Me How to Dougie, You're A Jerk, Wobble, Wop, Single Ladies, Cat Daddy, Cupid Shuffle, Cha Cha Slide, Macarena, Like the Bernie, and Crank That. You can bet the DJ will definitely play one of these songs, and by knowing them well, you will feel more in tune with the dance floor.
Step 4. Also, don't be afraid to dance without a rider
Sometimes it's more fun to dance with your best friends. Just don't be too many and take up the whole dance floor. We must leave room for everyone!
Step 5. Dance as if there is no one around you; just try to go with the rhythm though, otherwise people might start wondering what you are doing
Nobody can resist the charm of a girl (or a boy) who is a little crazy. Dance and have fun. The girl who dances and has more fun than all the others is also the most fabulous. Just hit the track and jump up and down to have fun. The other girls do not envy those with the prettiest hairstyle; they are envious of those who have more fun than all of them!
Step 6. Don't sit at desks or chairs near the wall, trying not to attract attention, if what you really want is to dance
Others may be staring at you and wondering why you are standing there all alone instead of going down to the dance floor. Don't worry about what others think. If you feel like dancing, do it and enjoy!
Step 7. When you are having fun dancing to the rhythm of techno or hip-hop R&B, the DJ will unexpectedly interrupt the song by saying something like, "Hey
Lovebirds on the floor, ready for a slow dance?”Then he'll put on some slow music and you'll have to find someone to dance with (as we live in the 21st century, you can choose to dance with whoever you want, be it a boy or a girl). Some girls are too shy to be able to dance with someone they don't know. If you were one of them, feel free to dance with your best friend. If you have a boyfriend, get ready for a slow dance. convinced that no one will ask you to dance, go to the bathroom or get something to eat or drink. Get some rest as you will probably feel tired after dancing to the rhythm of disco music. Listen to beautiful music and slow dance song lyrics. The guy will put his hands on your hips (or higher if you prefer) and you should put your hands on his shoulders. Then, just sway and move your feet sideways. are difficult at first, but everyone will feel a little embarrassed, so just relax!
Step 8. If you can't find a friend to accompany you, look for someone once you get to the prom
Many of your mates will participate, so it will be easy for you to find someone. Just make sure he's not a weird guy, or you might have some problems later.
Step 9. Watch out for the popular kids
Many of them go to the dances organized by the school, so you need to be careful. Don't stay close to their large group of friends, as they will find you a nuisance. In addition, many of them take photos with their mobile phones to post them on social networks (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, etc.). Try to avoid becoming the girl in the background of their photo squirming on the dance floor that their friends will nickname "Disco Girl"! To sum up: if you are not one of them, stay away from them!
Advice
- Remember: relax and enjoy.
- If you don't have someone to dance with during the slow, you can take the opportunity to take a break. Order a drink or chat with friends!
- Be yourself and have fun. This is all that matters!
- Don't be afraid to ask someone to dance. Maybe this person likes you too, and if that doesn't happen, don't take it personally.
- Stay among the people. Many of them are the friends you meet every day at school. As for the ones you don't know, you can always make new friends. There is nothing wrong with meeting new people!
- During middle school dances, you won't see too many people actually dancing. There are dances like the “Jerk” that everyone knows (and that you should learn too to avoid making a fool of yourself), but as for most of the songs, the others will just jump up and down. If the song says "she fell to the ground", "low blows" or something similar, the others will make movements by crouching on the ground and then repeatedly ascend.
- The secret is to have self-confidence. Hit the dance floor and dance like there's no tomorrow!
- If you can't find a partner for a slow dance and you don't want to be left out, dance with a friend! There is nothing to be ashamed of.
- Avoid saying something stupid, but you also don't have to spend all your time being afraid of saying something stupid.
- If someone starts teasing or mocking you, don't care. Even if you dance like a goofy, the important thing is that you have fun. Over time, you will forget about it.
- With slow dances, if you have no one to dance with, swaying to the beat of the music is the best thing you can do.
Warnings
- If you are dancing with a boy or girl and those close to you start teasing you, just ignore them. What matters is that you feel happy together.
- Just because you're not dancing with the person you like doesn't mean you should be alone in the corner. Dance with someone else, no matter who they are. Don't say no if someone asks you to dance and don't forget that you too, for your part, can ask anyone to dance, even if it's not the person you like. You might as well have fun, after all!
- When choosing a dance partner, don't be shy. Go to the person you like and ask him.
