Getting a guy to talk to you and winning him over can seem like impossible feats, especially if he's shy. However, you can attract guys by showing a positive attitude, talking to them, and being confident. Charming them is easy when you know what they are looking for in girls!
Steps
Method 1 of 3: Dress Attractive
Step 1. Think about the style you prefer to have
Your stylistic choices show others your interests and give a preview of your personality. There are tons of different styles to adopt: preppy, sporty, edgy, hipster and many more. Search the internet for clothes you like and come up with a look that fits your personality.
If your style doesn't fit into one category, that's not a problem. There is nothing wrong with being unique! The important thing is that your clothes make you feel comfortable and safe
Step 2. Consider the activities of the day when you get dressed in the morning
Think about your plans and what you will do. In some cases, clothes that are too elegant can be intimidating to boys. Try to be casual if you don't have to attend a special event, like a prom or party.
- If you're playing volleyball in your PE class, it's probably not a good day to wear a dress to school.
- If you're worried about being too elegant, ask your friends what they're wearing. Knowing the stylistic choices of others you will be sure not to go out of tune.
Step 3. Wear clothes that fit you well and are comfortable
When it comes to fashion, you can find garments that fit your body regardless of your size. The size on the label does not matter if the garments are the right size. When shopping, always try on clothes before buying them and ask a friend or your parents for advice.
- Make sure you wear clothes that comply with your school dress code and are not too flirtatious. This means that you must also make sure that the shirts are not too tight or low-cut, that the shorts and skirts are long enough.
- If you are looking for shirts, make sure they are not too tight and that you can move your arms up and down well. Also check that the long sleeves reach up to the wrist.
- If you want to buy jeans, make sure the buttons and zips stay snug against your body when you close them. In the dressing room, touch your toes and bend your knees to make sure the pants aren't restricting your movement. If they are slightly loose at the waist, but the right size in the other parts, you can use a belt.
- When shopping for a special occasion, such as a prom, consider that you can usually have your clothes arranged so that they are perfect for you. Very few people find the perfect dress without asking a tailor for help!
Step 4. Style your hair to feel beautiful and comfortable
In the morning, wash and dry your hair before styling it. If you like your natural hair, leave it loose after drying it. If you prefer, you can do curls, a great way to draw attention to your beautiful hair, especially if you usually have straight hair. The most important thing is that you are happy with your hairstyle.
- For a simple and easy-to-do look, tie your hair into a high ponytail or braid if you have it long.
- If you have short hair, a headband can help keep it off your face.
Step 5. Use makeup to enhance your natural beauty
Most guys don't "get" the trick, but it can help you improve your self-esteem. If you have a blemish on your face, you can cover it with a concealer. To draw attention to the eyes, put on some mascara.
- Products like brightly colored eyeshadows or flashy lipsticks can be intimidating to guys, so it's best to avoid them and focus on your natural beauty.
- If you have skin problems, such as redness or acne, don't worry. Many girls have the same problems and almost all of them can be solved by taking care of the face, for example with cleansers, topical treatments and moisturizers.
Step 6. Take care of your body
One of the best ways to attract guys is to make sure you're clean and looking good. Shower every day, put on deodorant, brush your teeth, exercise and eat a healthy diet. Getting enough sleep and drinking plenty of water also helps make your skin more beautiful and improve your mood.
Men are attracted to various types of women, so don't worry too much about losing weight to conform to your idea of beauty. If you are healthy and confident, the kids will queue
Method 2 of 3: Have an Attractive Attitude
Step 1. Smile to look open and available
It is scientifically proven that smiling leads men to consider you more beautiful, especially in situations where you want to encourage them to get closer. If you want to talk to a guy, smile at him to let him know that you are interested in him and that you are happy to talk to him.
Don't think you should always be happy. It's natural to have other emotions, and if you're not in the mood, you don't have to smile
Step 2. Show confidence with your attitude, intelligence and appearance
Sit with your back straight and make eye contact with the guys to show that you believe in yourself. When you speak, do it clearly and loud enough for you to hear. If you deal with a topic that you are passionate about, prove your competence!
- If you're shy and meeting new people makes you nervous, just listen and respond to what the guy you're interested in says. Remember that you are funny, smart and that he too will understand soon!
- Don't brag about your accomplishments and your skills in front of the guys. You could intimidate them and make them feel inferior. You can talk about the goals you've achieved, but make sure you leave room for other people in the conversation too!
Step 3. Keep an open and respectful mind when talking to others
Everyone is attracted to people who are open to new experiences and information. If you talk to a guy and disagree with him, listen to what he has to say and encourage him to do the same to you. Being open-minded is especially important when you meet new people.
This doesn't mean you have to change your mind when you disagree with a guy. Just make sure you respect his opinion, even if you consider it completely wrong
Step 4. Avoid fights and gossip with your friends and other guys
Men often consider rumors and enmities useless and senseless. If your friends have a lot of arguments or if you hate one of your exes, don't talk about it right away. In some cases, guys think that if you have problems with other people, you will have them with them too.
Having positive, happy friendships is a sign to teens that you are able to maintain good relationships. Even if you're having trouble with some friends right now, try to focus on the positives in your relationship
Method 3 of 3: Winning a Boy
Step 1. Compliment him on something you appreciate about him
Being nice is a great way to put a guy at ease when he's around you. Choose sincere and specific phrases, then say them with a smile, so that he doesn't think you are making fun of him. Often times, it's best to reserve compliments for times when you are alone, to prevent those in attendance from making jokes about it.
- For example, if you both love football, you can tell him "I like your Juve shirt, did you see the game last night?".
- If you work together on a school project, let him know that you admire his intelligence by saying "That's a great idea, I never would have gotten there!".
Step 2. Ask him questions about his hobbies and interests
Focus on questions that require explanation, which cannot be answered just yes or no. If you have a common interest, such as music or sports, ask them questions that can spark a conversation. Let him do the talking while you listen and comment.
- This is the best way to get to know a guy and figure out if it's more than just a crush;
- By making him talk, you show him that you want to know him better and that you are good at listening.
Step 3. Let your personality shine through in conversations
Think about how you behave when you are with friends and how easy it is to talk to them. Try to have the same attitude with the guy you like, too, by talking about your interests, such as music, sports or cinema. Share your opinions and thoughts freely, so that they know your true character.
If a guy seems less interested after talking to you, don't worry. It just means it's not compatible with you
Step 4. Find an excuse to touch his arm or hand
Body language and physical contact are ideal means of letting a guy know you like him without saying anything outright. Sit next to him so that your legs touch, then brush his arm or leg when he says something funny. This can make him realize that you don't just see him as a friend.
Don't do anything too explicit, like don't take his hand without warning. This can scare him or make him think that you have the wrong impression on your relationship. It is better to make more discreet gestures to understand how he feels about you
Step 5. Write him a message or "Like" his posts on Instagram and Twitter
It may seem like a simple gesture, but guys are surprised when women are confident enough to show their interest publicly. Send him a short message letting him know that you saw something that made you think of him and he too will start fantasizing about you!
- A message can lead to a conversation that can bring you closer and give you something to talk about in person. Write funny and provocative sentences until you meet him, then try to understand what he feels like.
- Be careful not to shower him with notifications, by sending him many messages in a row or liking more than two posts at the same time. Answer in a sentence or two, then wait for his reply.
Step 6. Find time to be alone with him
In some cases, children behave differently in private. Ask him to help you with a school project or talk to him during recess. This gives you a chance to gauge his feelings when you are alone and allows him to ask you out.
